Yeah "smash a chick out hard" can be interpreted many ways.
Personally I didn't read it as wanting to be truly violent, but just to go all out fucking with whatever bonus hair pulling, spanking, etc. the provider will consent to. Several AMP ladies can handle that sort of thing just fine. If that's what the OP meant, kudos for asking for advice.
Even if he meant something darker, I still say it's better to ask and be steered away, hopefully toward the few providers that actually are into it. The alternative is, what, guys? Pick one at random and create a situation like BM described 3 posts above?