i would say not all ""pimps"" are a threat to clients nor are they all painted with the same paint brush to ladies as hollywood and the horrror stories paint them...I know in a round about way you are making reference to my post. I didn't say any Pimps were a threat to a client. I was just making a comparison to how most people would draw a conclusion between the two terms and how they relate to the field of Escorting. If a provider told you she had a Pimp you may draw back some opposed to if she said she was under management or she had a manager who handles her affairs, you might feel a bit more at ease. Words how we use them or how the media, movies portray them spark different emotions. A member here was doing a review on a provider and wrote in his review, as he was leaving, the providers husband or significant other barged in the room and got up in the reviewers face about going over his time by a few minutes. Would that guy be a pimp or a manager?
care in point: i had been with a provider several years back that was fairly well known on the old site, etc....
sometime after that I began dating a woman and found out she was friends with that provider...
at one point I met a man close to the provider...
after he and I began drinking buddies at the family events he informed me that he in fact had been outside the incall when I had seen the provider...
he was totally cool about everything and never mentioned a word of it to my GF at the time... Originally Posted by BDSaint
Her mother does not know what she does.I would think the mother likely does know, but it's just not a topic they've discussed. How could someone not know, or not suspect, if they are close to the situation? However, often laying it on the table is too painful.
In your definition the mom is a pimp--certainly a very different thing than someone else who not only is supported but is coercive.I assure you that the vast majority of providers, even those who have the traditional image of a "pimp", are not coerced. They might be in a difficult, and even abusive relationship, but 9 times out of 10 when they leave that relationship, they will remain in the industry.
to be honest i think that a manager is just a nice word for pimp...me being fairly new to the business(not even a year in yet) i have heard stories about other girls that have pimps and how they take all the girls money and hobbyists have gotten robbed and beat up by the persons pimp and ive seen first hand with people that i know in the business that have an SO and they do the same thing its sickening Originally Posted by JEN OF SYRACUSEExactly.
I've always wondered why someone hasn't posted a thread lately about Mangement/Pimp? Do you gents/ladies consider Management/Pimp two seperate terms or is it the same but using different words? Originally Posted by shortyI would have to say that ladies with a manager get to keep at least SOME of their money, lol. Pimps - none.
This topic is a lot deeper than many people might realize.Very well stated Gina!! This is the part that many of the guys and girls ignore. A husband, boyfriend, etc....who has their own career, pays the household bills, supports their partner both emotionally and financially is NOT a pimp....they are a partner/mate, etc. And these type of relationships do exist....I am speaking from experience!!
My definition of "pimp" is someone who has an intimate (not necessarily sexual) relationship with a provider or providers, who is supported financially by way of that relationship.
This would mean that a "pimp" could be a provider's husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, mother, friend, etc. Someone who is around the provider a great deal of the time, and who doesn't have their own job in the real world.
Originally Posted by GinaXXX