DATY Tips and Tricks

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  • BLM69
  • 09-14-2018, 01:39 PM
I've noticed that not all ladies respond the same, some can't take the sensation during daty and get to the O, I have one that doesn't respond no matter what I do? She says it feels good and understand some people are not big moaners. I know it's not me so what gives?
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My second wife loved me with a good stubble. And a few others have liked that.
Though the majority want smooth shaved, so I always shave my face within 2 hours of a session.
As to how to dine, KENDALL4U said it right. It seems that everyone is different. Having a big ego about skills seems to dry up a vagina faster than a blow dryer. Humility, asking what she likes, seems to get everything wet.
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I've noticed that not all ladies respond the same, some can't take the sensation during daty and get to the O, I have one that doesn't respond no matter what I do? She says it feels good and understand some people are not big moaners. I know it's not me so what gives? Originally Posted by BLM69
Nothing quite so humbling as giving a lady your bet shot and it doesn’t phase her. Nothing worse than her faking one just so you’ll stop.
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I've noticed that not all ladies respond the same, some can't take the sensation during daty and get to the O, I have one that doesn't respond no matter what I do? She says it feels good and understand some people are not big moaners. I know it's not me so what gives? Originally Posted by BLM69
Absolutely this. It is kind of like picking up someone else's guitar. You can't just belt out a virtuoso, you need to spend some time getting a feel and tuning to perfection.

I get a lot of compliments on my technique, half of which I actually believe. But I spend the first couple of minutes figuring out what works and what doesn't. It varies wildly from one chick to the next and even then sometimes some ladies just don't get off on it. But it still gets them wet and wild for the main event so I don't mind.

I especially love the ladies that are comfortable enough with sex to coach you through it! There is one lady in my area that actually taps me on the shoulder in excitement when I unlock an achievement in DATY!

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I like to ask, be coached, watch how she responds, and alter as necessary. I've had some that like you to suck on their clit, some that like a soft, wide, tongue, some that like a firm, pointy tongue. It gets me off to get her off.
just like a blind man has better hearing or smell, a not well endowed man must compensate in other areas as well. yes, be shaved but just go straight to the love button and just focus on it...hard sucking or vicious tongue lashing. never any complaints and some o's.
no woman will decline a tongue up her starfish when in the heated moment. just take charge
Daty is my favorite thing in the world. A few have already said it right. And every woman is a little different.

Start off slowly and kind of play around for a while with several different techniques. and pay very close attention to her responses. Do it a lot to many women. You will find over time, her body will tell you exactly what to do.
You MUST be kidding??



just like a blind man has better hearing or smell, a not well endowed man must compensate in other areas as well. yes, be shaved but just go straight to the love button and just focus on it...hard sucking or vicious tongue lashing. never any complaints and some o's.
no woman will decline a tongue up her starfish when in the heated moment. just take charge Originally Posted by Cali-or-Bust
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start with a Just shaved face and chin to being with Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF
but having all that pussy juice and cum in my beard in the morning is really tasty...
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I don't know why any one would like a non shaved face
for DATY it hurts and gives a rash and if any lady shaves her self and you have stubble it just does not feel good at all , so how is she to enjoy you
this is just my thinking ,, same with kissing a non shaved face and chin .. maybe im a pussy ! Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF
Well one isn't supposed to be trying to grind their beard into the pussy..it's about the tongue..not the beard!
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One of these days I'm going to get it down to the point!!!!
  • ebass
  • 07-31-2019, 06:23 PM
I don't like noise makers, too much noise will alert the neighbors
Straight to the love button??? That is sometimes too intense for some women until they are “warmed up”. Sometimes you just stay around it. Every woman is different and unique. It helps to pay attention and also since we are seeing new people you don’t have time to “learn” them so direction is always welcome. I do feel there is an art to it with some and easy as hell with others. Absolutely my favorite thing about sex.
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you should give some lessons then
Well one isn't supposed to be trying to grind their beard into the pussy..it's about the tongue..not the beard! Originally Posted by texassapper