Question for the guys...

Hell no...if any government workers that are furloughed or not getting paid need a few bucks to hobby, send me a PM and I'll float you until things are stable. Originally Posted by rustyshackleford112.7

Truly appreciate the offer. All joking aside like Hakeem said it's a sure way to lose a regular client even if done with the best intentions.

I work for vodka, ijs

So I assume OP realizes that what she was suggesting was not a good idea. So lets provider her(or her friend) a better solution. So for such a loan, it would need to be financially advantageous for the hobbiest, not the provider. So my suggestion would be to offer this regular who sounds like he provides quite a bit of support to you 1 full session for the price of the 1/2 session to be paid up front. Or something equivalent. Any other suggestions?

And Mr. Walluz, that offer was sincere but it would be for a McDonalds hobby day, not a Perry's Steakhouse...haha

.

Depends on the relationship. I have clients that have offered when they see that I haven't been working. You shouldn't have to ask! If y'all are close and he sees you need help hes going to offer NEVER ASK. It's not a good look

Depends on the relationship. I have clients that have offered when they see that I haven't been working. You shouldn't have to ask! If y'all are close and he sees you need help hes going to offer NEVER ASK. It's not a good look Originally Posted by Princess Kimber

What is the term I am looking for? Pffffft...yeah...I think that is it...haha

If y'all are close and he sees you need help hes going to offer Originally Posted by Princess Kimber

If you had a provider who you had been seeing about 3 times a month, for the past few months, has an unexpected emergency. She contacts you and asks for an advance of half of her fee, to be dedicated the next time you have an appt together.

What would you do and why? Originally Posted by Jasmine Starr

I wouldn't do it, I've given advances and it's always a chase game with lots of waiting for what's owed, a half ass session or like my last one, she disabled her account and disconnect her phone is out the biz for now.

I say if you need fast $, offer your regulars a great rate for a last minute visit and get to work

Haha...that is fucking funny shit Walluz...I hear it in a Shaft voice in my head...

i help out 1 of my providers a few times, and she treated me very well on the next session we had, last time was december, we did a 5 hr date for the price of half hr. was fun

Reverse the question to get the same answer. Would you let a customer pay half because he had an emergency and pay you next time? I’m willing to bet the answer is no. The hobby life stats indicate a provider will ghost your ass and say she is still dealing with her emergency. You want to avoid getting played in the hobby, maintain your discipline and don’t get caught up.

How big is her waist to asset ratio?

ya i'd just put her on my dns list and leave it at that. and no, i'm not even joking..

provider: "can i have an advance?"
me: "bahahahahahahahahahahahah aha. welcome aboard to my dns list. congrats."

Quickest way to turn 3 visits a month into 0 visits Originally Posted by Prince Akeem Of Zamunda

Those grandmothers have a way of dying one right after another ...

... then the grandfathers start falling like flies.

How about this one: "My friend had a flat tire and I had to go change it for HIM!"

An advance of half the hourly rate is what 100-150$?
If she can't finesse that out of some other trick,she shouldn't be hooking
But she needs to leave her regular be