Why the two step process?

To answer the question. Its because she can. You can choose to play by it or not. I think most ladies do it with new clients.

To answer the question. Its because she can. Originally Posted by BeiberX

LMAO....that doesn't answer the question.

LMAO....that doesn't answer the question. Originally Posted by L.A.

The subject line why the two step process?

The subject line why the two step process? Originally Posted by BeiberX

I don't believe anybody is questioning that a provider "can" implement any system she wants to or that clients "can" choose to follow them or not.
The question is why do it that way? What's the benefit or purpose? There were some pretty good answers provided that gave some insight as to why they do it a certain way.

My takeaway is that it confirms the client is actually there (or very close) and that they don't knock on the door before the provider is ready to let them in. Providers must have to deal with some really stupid people sometimes.

I know in my personal life it's very annoying when family or friends show up early. We said 1pm why the hell are you here at 12:30?

I actually just explained this in person to someone the other day who kept asking for the exact address and unit number and I am sure was thinking I was flaky when I did not give to him. When he was here and I explained all the reasons why...he thought it was brilliant and commended me on safety...LOL

I do not mind the 2 step system at all or whatever safety related routines they want to have.
My preference though is to be given the name and address of a nearby business. Something that easily keys in to my GPS. Then I can tell her very close to the minute when I will arrive at that location. If it is during the day something like a mall or Lowes or maybe a Mcdonalds. Something that if I hang out there a few minutes waiting for final landing instructions I will not look out of place. In the summer I like somewhere that if for whatever reason I need to hang out a bit I can get in out of the heat. For example a Mcdonalds where I can get a coke, sit and chill.

My big hangup is when a lady is vague about what her routine is or leaves me guessing what she expects. That is a recipe for disaster.

Another reason not mentioned above I remember with one lady she did not rent a room at her incall until I called to say I was 15 minutes out. I found this out only because she then got unexpectedly hung up in traffic and left me sitting in parking lot of incall waiting on her to rent the room and find out for herself what the room number was. Another was sharing an incall with someone and left me circling while she attempted to get the key from her partner. Gave up after a while and went home. Did get a discounted session at a later date to make up for it all.

how is it creepy ?.. I can tall by talking to someone if he's a really a match for ME.

I have you call before I screen you

Just don't sound like a hood rat you should be good to go ..or ask questions you should know by now !

That’s creepy. “ see if we hit it off over the phone “
Do you charge by the minute ?? Originally Posted by Dickey9090

I do a 2 step call/text/email because:

Mainly, I don't want someone just walking up to my door and knocking. I want to know when you're on your way and when you arrive so I can unlock my door and you can just let yourself in, instead of standing in the hallway potentially drawing attention to yourself and my apartment.

Secondly, I can make sure I'm completely ready (phone silenced, make up and hair on point, heels on, tinkled, fresh breath/kitty, candles lit, music on, etc). Lots of final touches happen in the minute or 2 from the time you park until you get in my playpen.

100%

I do a 2 step call/text/email because:

Mainly, I don't want someone just walking up to my door and knocking. I want to know when you're on your way and when you arrive so I can unlock my door and you can just let yourself in, instead of standing in the hallway potentially drawing attention to yourself and my apartment.

Secondly, I can make sure I'm completely ready (phone silenced, make up and hair on point, heels on, tinkled, fresh breath/kitty, candles lit, music on, etc). Lots of final touches happen in the minute or 2 from the time you park until you get in my playpen. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Trust me...it only takes ONE time on either side (gents or ladies) for you to give your exact location and have the person NOT show up to make you a fan to the 2 step. Even the times when you give close location and it happens will freak you out.

And YES it goes both ways. A lady does not need your Room Number two hours before. That would be a huge red flag for me.

Room Numbers

2 step can work if they respond quickly for the second step, I've been in parking lots and even the lobby standing around like dumb ass waiting. I take off and get a text 10-15mins later,

Gina seems to have a 5 step with a phone call requirement lol I see what her type is. A very patient man

^^^ Right there is the issue. As long as every lady responded quickly, I doubt any guy would have one complaint about the 2 step. The problem is giving guys a location and making them wait there. That's annoying and bad TCB.

^^^ Right there is the issue. As long as every lady responded quickly, I doubt any guy would have one complaint about the 2 step. The problem is giving guys a location and making them wait there. That's annoying and bad TCB. Originally Posted by B Three

Waiting isn't so bad as long as it's in a place you don't stick out. Big and Busy hotels are great. Extended Stays are horrible.

The worst, and it's happened to me a couple times, is being ghosted AFTER you arrive at the designated corner of wherever and try a call/text only to never hear back.

If you don't want to keep the appointment either cancel before we leave. If there is a possibility that upon hearing our voice, you may decide to cancel, don't wait till step two,please, to talk to us.

Just knowing how to manage your time is the key , not to keep him waiting around ,,

Phone call is to get to know you better before setting a date up ..

I do not mind the 2 step system at all or whatever safety related routines they want to have.
My preference though is to be given the name and address of a nearby business. Something that easily keys in to my GPS. Then I can tell her very close to the minute when I will arrive at that location. If it is during the day something like a mall or Lowes or maybe a Mcdonalds. Something that if I hang out there a few minutes waiting for final landing instructions I will not look out of place. In the summer I like somewhere that if for whatever reason I need to hang out a bit I can get in out of the heat. For example a Mcdonalds where I can get a coke, sit and chill.

My big hangup is when a lady is vague about what her routine is or leaves me guessing what she expects. That is a recipe for disaster.

Another reason not mentioned above I remember with one lady she did not rent a room at her incall until I called to say I was 15 minutes out. I found this out only because she then got unexpectedly hung up in traffic and left me sitting in parking lot of incall waiting on her to rent the room and find out for herself what the room number was. Another was sharing an incall with someone and left me circling while she attempted to get the key from her partner. Gave up after a while and went home. Did get a discounted session at a later date to make up for it all. Originally Posted by ValenTX

That's a great suggestion i.e. the provider giving the name and address of a nearby business. I know Sherry of DFW does that and it's very convenient, especially for people who aren't familiar with her area. Then, once you reach the business and you're parked and comfortable, you call Sherry and she guides you to her place. As you said, one of the main benefits is that you have something to input into your GPS system.