Ever had this happen to you?

Gotta love the loss of control. Hobby wise I keep it to outer thigh and chest...but hey whatever the fuck happens I just go with it.

Gotta love the loss of control. Hobby wise I keep it to outer thigh and chest...but hey whatever the fuck happens I just go with it. Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

Lmao, whatever turns you on, I like to light choke my girls, spank there ass, and have a little reversal on there part, the hotter the sex gets.

Lol please...
I'm not very vanilla and the more you come out of your box the more willing I am to come out of mine Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

as long as both parties agree BEFOREHAND. Otherwise would not be good.

Just turn the tables. lol

I just can't make myself hit or slap or hurt a woman, not even in play. Just like I can't hit a child either. Knowing that the woman is so much weaker than me physically..my natural instinct is to protect her, not hurt her.

While I'm proud that I don't hurt women, I do wish I could be rougher at times. Women have told me to be rough with them and man handle them and I just can't do it. I can't pull their hair or shove them or use my strength against them...and my inability to do so is a big turn off to some women. So be it. I'm not changing who I am for anyone else.

^^^^ I've spent most of my life trying to keep people out of pain, so I find it really difficult to find a way to "go there". I've had a few that wanted me to bite the head of their cock, one that wanted to be scratched until blood appeared, one that wanted his balls banged, one that wanted to be choked.....I cringe. I never want to spoil their moment, but it would be nice if I'd known in advance. I'm absolutely not into being choked nor do I want to choke anyone else, both scare the hell out of me.


Now I understand OP is talking "in the moment". To me, in the scheme of things, a slap doesn't seem that bad, but then, I've never been slapped. Now in the moment, I've bitten an ear lobe (or two), swatted a few on the butt...Pretty vanilla.

Would likely be a relationship ender for me. Not in to pain whether receiving or giving. Have had a few women slap my ass during playtime and never found it added to fun and always asked them to stop it.

But for the situation you mention I think should be clarified. Did you slap him on the ass or did you haul off and slap him in the face as if he had done something wrong. That kind of mixed signal would make me question if this relationship needed to end. That sort of thing can escalate and not in to good end.

Lol

I’d put your leg up around my head and start the licking

I just can't make myself hit or slap or hurt a woman, not even in play. Just like I can't hit a child either. Knowing that the woman is so much weaker than me physically..my natural instinct is to protect her, not hurt her.

While I'm proud that I don't hurt women, I do wish I could be rougher at times. Women have told me to be rough with them and man handle them and I just can't do it. I can't pull their hair or shove them or use my strength against them...and my inability to do so is a big turn off to some women. So be it. I'm not changing who I am for anyone else. Originally Posted by VeryClean

This X2. I've tried but it is like trying not to close your eyes when you sneeze, I just can't physically do it.

I had an ef-gf that wanted me to twist her nipples rather hard and grab her by the hair and forcefully direct her to blow me and control the action with her hair (she had a domination fetish where she was sub with men and was dom with her female lovers). I just couldn't do it for all the reasons you describe. It is just not in my nature to be aggressive with women.

Fortunately she was really cool about it but a few other passing women have been disappointed. Oh well, WALDT.

Ironically I don't mind women being aggressive with me (to a point, no blood shall be drawn) so Anastasia I probably would have found the situation shocking but erotic and would have given you some deeper more powerful thrusts in return.

Would likely be a relationship ender for me. Not in to pain whether receiving or giving. Have had a few women slap my ass during playtime and never found it added to fun and always asked them to stop it.

But for the situation you mention I think should be clarified. Did you slap him on the ass or did you haul off and slap him in the face as if he had done something wrong. That kind of mixed signal would make me question if this relationship needed to end. That sort of thing can escalate and not in to good end. Originally Posted by ValenTX

Oh no it wasn't a bitch slap, more of like a light-medium to snap him in overdrive since I was already there

FYI would never do this in hobby land unless prompted, I'm not into pain on the giving or receiving end.

FYI would never do this in hobby land unless prompted Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

Take this as official notice that if and when we do meet you are hereby given permission to slap me into overdrive when you need me to hammer it home until your toes uncurl.

I like when a guy says slow that sloppy toppy down... I speed up, you not holding back on this greatness lol Originally Posted by Carmella_love69

That would ensure that I'd never see you again!

Ok, everybody lineup for Anastasia!!