shy guys/ assertive guys ... Guys, Guys, Guys..Lets Talk!

It all depends on the chemistry between the hobbyist & the lady. I had a session with a lady years ago who had the reputation on the boards as being a porno nympho. What worked best was slow and sensual. I never would have guessed. She's back home in Europe now. Damm I miss her...

I would consider myself more on the shy end of the spectrum, really just more low key than shy though. I tend to prefer more assertive women, I feel like in many cases our personalities are complimentary and it makes for a better vibe.

There is something to be said about the randomness though, but my most enjoyable dates have been with ladies there was already some chemistry with through interaction on this board or a couple of other places. I have been burned by the randomness before lol.

“ Funny, If you say all the right things at the right time,
You can get me to anything.. I've always been that way.
It's all about your approach.
I'm turned on and off like a light switch“

This turns me on!!! But I am a dominant!

I would consider myself more on the shy end of the spectrum, really just more low key than shy though. I tend to prefer more assertive women, I feel like in many cases our personalities are complimentary and it makes for a better vibe.

There is something to be said about the randomness though, but my most enjoyable dates have been with ladies there was already some chemistry with through interaction on this board or a couple of other places. I have been burned by the randomness before lol. Originally Posted by thrakattack82

That's kind of what sparked my question,
I kinda wanted to get the guys point of view while also
striking a conversation. Geeez, I have been around forever and
some of my best times had began from on board communication.
In the past, I would post all the time and visit the chat rooms.
It was fun.. so thanks for responding guys!

The best way to describe the hobby, is like going on a blind date..
I still get the butterflies!

I would consider myself more on the shy end of the spectrum,

I’m a bit on the shy side. I like women with outgoing personalities.
You slideshow makes me horny!

Hey @melannie_star I tried responding to your inbox and it said your messages are FULL. Inbox me hun.♥️

As for the Ladies..

A.) Does your personality shift depending on the type of guy you meet?

I like to think I'm the same either way, butt..
I open up more towards the shy guys sometimes,
and enjoy being a smart ass to the Assertive ones..
in a fun way of course.. Originally Posted by melannie_star

My personality can drastically change between the type of my visitor. If they come off too shy then I might get worried for a min thinking the worst but if met with a man who knows what he likes and is assertive then I go into slut mode.

I like my women assertive. And a little foul mouthed lol. And that’s the way most of my girlfriends and my current SO are.

I like them assertive in the bedroom too. When they take charge and tell me what they want, talk dirty, and even get a little rough (nothing crazy) with me it is a huge turn on for me.

Not long ago me and the SO were going at it. I finished with her riding me, and after a min or so of lying there both of us sweaty and breathing hard and me feeling like I could barely move....she jumped up, straddled my head, grabbed my hair and pulled it, grinded her pussy on my face and said “now you’re going to fuckin’ make me cum again” in a tone that told me it wasn’t optional lol.

I obliged and she rode my face until she came again, squirting hers and my cum right in my mouth and gyrated her pussy around to rub it all over my face.

It was hot as hell and I loved every second of it. Originally Posted by pistol shot

This x1000. My general nature is definitely on the shy side and I consider myself to be an introvert.

My ideal partner is just like what pistol shot described - assertive, foul-mouthed, and definitely not shy about anything in the bedroom. Tell me what you want, what you want me to do, what you’re going to do to me, and how much you love doing it. I will most certainly do my best to keep up and once you get me going, I’ll join in the dirty talk as well.

I think for me it’s easier to take the more submissive role in the hobby because it’s more difficult for me to know where the boundaries are when I’m the more dominant one. If I’m in a relationship it’s far easier because I know the person a lot better and I know what they like/don’t like. I dated a woman for a while that was on the submissive side and I had no problem taking the more dominant role but that was because I knew her really well and we had learned about what tuned on the other person. Of course, it also helped that neither one of us really had any inhibitions at all so there really wasn’t anything off the table.

In the hobby, I find it easier to let the woman take a strong lead. It really turns me on.

My natural state is shy, but over the years I've learned to be outgoing. I still revert at the oddest times that I can't always explain. If a lady is trying to connect with me at those moments I think to treat me like an old friend. Be interested in me (I'm not too awfully boring). Usually I will click out of it and carry my side of the conversation. It isn't a constant thing with me (shyness) but when it hits I feel a bit lost.

I would describe myself as outgoing (definitely not shy). I prefer women who display self-confidence, and aren’t afraid to tell me (or do) what they want.