This happens to me all.the.time.
It's like pulling teeth.
I lay my ID out, especially for Asian providers, unless they are some sort of a savant they will not be able to remember anything.It's not even about y'alls real name. Most of us could care less what your parents call u. Unless you have no handle on any site. But your name on Eccie or p411 is needed to verify y'all. When we contact another female or look y'all up we kinda need something to look up or ask about!
Lets flip this... you are a Caucasian provide in China, maybe know 50 Chinese words... You ask for their ID and they lay it out, all in Chinese, .Could one even remember the name, much less than anything else? Originally Posted by instfixer
It's not even about y'alls real name. Most of us could care less what your parents call u. Unless you have no handle on any site. But your name on Eccie or p411 is needed to verify y'all. When we contact another female or look y'all up we kinda need something to look up or ask about! Originally Posted by ZantannaParellaThis is basically what it comes down to!!!
I think you need to clarify name vs screen name. Originally Posted by h0neymustardSweetie, I do clarify. Sometimes, even when I say: “ What’s your profile name/handle”, they still try to act like they didn’t hear me. They continue to ask questions & say: well I saw your ad on _____ .. ME: ok, baby- I still need your profile name.. THEM: f*** it! You’re asking too many questions. (all ask is for the pn).. My guess is that they are trying to avoid screening because a lot of them aren’t verified. SHOCKING! Lol. I’m not asking the questions to be nosy, I just want to be able to screen w/o issues, so we can get to the fun! Lol
Oh okay, yeah I have no problem giving out my screen name. Originally Posted by h0neymustardAnd that’s all I need. For screening purposes. I can’t do anything with a real-world name, because y’all can make up any old name. Lol.. in comments 6, 12, 14 & 25 I kept saying just to give me your profile name. And I mean it’s just a safety thing. For the gentleman and myself. I understand some ladies like to gather as much rw info as possible. I screen twice as hard for meetings away from my location. I respect other peoples safety, just as much as I value mine.