Ladies, where online are you finding most of your dates?

I see many ladies on eccie, tryst, Eros and Twitter.

Kudos to Copier guy for what's been on my mind recently. I CONSTANTLY scratch my head at this.

So while we understand that "Available now" is much quicker for ladies to land a quick appointment for a time she's available - why wouldn't someone reach out to a Good Guy (a Great client, if we haven't seen each other for a while), to see if we were around?

When the ghosting (or non responsiveness to reaching out) occurs to a good client - I just scratch my head. Others I know have had similar experiences as well. I don't get it, would love to see more ladies respond on this.

It is understood there are no strict guidelines or rules about whom should reach out first. Obviously men will generally reach out to ladies first. Instead - I am referring to warm, consistent, Good client relationships, ATF's where you've seen each other frequently and with regularity.

My example - Anybody who has seen me multiple times (that I see regularly, and we have discussed I am a good client) knows that my schedule is fairly open (not always, but generally), and I 100% ALWAYS, positively respond with an appt if one of my favorites reaches out to me. If not immediately for their "available now" time, then it will be SOON. Always.

So while we realize there are a LOT of goombahs and guys out there, but - if we are ATF's, see each other regularly, great clients, why wouldn't someone take advantage of this, knowing that we would continue to see them regularly? (guaranteed business, improved relationship, more fun, etc.)

Sorry for getting on a soapbox, but this always makes me wonder why?

CAVEATS:

• I am referring to Great client relationship situations, where we see each other very regularly, and it is discussed that we are comfortable with each other.
  
• I am referring to situations if the lady has cancelled on me beforehand, we haven't seen each other in a few weeks, something like that. NOT a situation where we just saw each other recently (or too soon before our normal intervals of visits)
  
• It is understood that I (or most guys) cannot meet every time, or every day someone is "available". Most of us have space/time between visits. Perfectly understandable there are other clients more readily available at the available time.
  
• It is also understood this discussion is not relevant to someone we have rarely seen, or seem months (or years) beforehand.

Originally Posted by SchnellerFahrer

This! If my ATF or a lady that I've seen often reaches out to me, I am like goo and will aggressively look for a time to meet. Makes me feel amazing, honestly.

Eccie and OH2 seem like the best bets. Twitter can work if the lady also has her own website and she's been reviewed/has a presence on places like Eccie. However if Twitter is her only domain, good luck. Most GPS types that sell sex but aren't really offering anything but cramming and pics. You could probably set up an encounter and pay $1,000/hr for covered everything with an average cam girl that isn't even that skilled or enthusiastic.

So, today I have an example of why I am skeptical that Twitter is an effective means of advertising availability. As I type this, there is a provider I’m following that has to be retweeting everything on her timeline from the last month. I’m talking scores of posts. I kid you not when I say there was over a dozen retweets of a single provider that doesn’t even work in this state, going back to the Fourth of July.

She’s crowding out everything else in my timeline. I’m going to have to unfollow her, which is a shame because she is an area provider who I’d be interested in meeting.

I don’t see how anyone makes a connection thanks to Twitter. Originally Posted by TinMan

You can turn off her retweets. Press the three dots on the header picture and there is a menu where you can mute her, block her, turn off her retweets. So you can do that to all the ladies you follow so that way you don’t see anything you don’t wanna see and your timeline won’t be so crowded. Retweeting is the base of Twitter. We retweet everyone who retweet us.

Thanks, Allegra. I’ll try that.

My top 3 (In Order)

1. P411
2. Eros
3. Twitter/Eccie

Eros had always been my bread and butter. Best clients, the most clients. However, once I crossed the 5k follower threshold on Twitter most of my business has been coming from there. Tryst is also growing, only have seen a few gents from there but all amazing! I wish they would start charging already for better advertisement placements.

1 Twitter
2 Eros
3 P411