Mea Culpa

I don’t blame you for holding off on naming her until you see if she follows through on her end. If she doesn’t, you need to name her, and then write it off without further action for the reasons cited by others in this thread. Originally Posted by TinMan

yes

If you don’t name her ....or call her out then you only show women this behavior is ok and it continues

Women like her are the reason real trustworthy providers can’t get prepaid or even a deposit . They are fuvking up the game and the good clients for those that are genuine and looking for fun

Why can’t she see you this week ? Today ? Yesterday ? Tomorrow ? Or even a couple hours from now ? Cause it’s all bullshit and you’re getting strung along

Give her the benefit of the doubt if you like ...you seem like the type of guy who’s very understanding ......but have Her set a date and time to pay up ...if she doesn’t then you name her and any consequences she feels are deserved imo

Yes this is a fun industry ...but it’s also a business and you can’t guck your customers over who keep you in business and expect to stay in business or not expect negative things written about your business ...
Op if you just like prepaying or like the convenience of the apps lots and lots of women here who will play along and still do their job when it’s time Originally Posted by Analeese

Wow Analeese..such a beautifully written post full of wisdom and common sense. I loved reading it!

Don’t even bother to post the this kind of shit if you don’t post her handle and info. What a waste of bs. That is as stupid as paying before a session

So, I had a great in-call date with a well-known and well-reviewed provider here.(Though when I dug deeper, her reviews on other sited mention her thieving habits and her drug use) It was really good. Not earth shattering but really good. Good enough that I wanted more. The first date I asked if she took CASH APP, she did. I had money on the app and wanted to use it for hobby purposes. We tried at her place to make it work but got frustrated and I simply used cash, 300, not worth it, but fine, I can afford it.

A few days later I wanted more and asked her over. She agreed and we finally hooked up on CASH APP. . Originally Posted by Oldmanriver

Of course I could very, very well be wrong. However, the OP has already mentioned her drug use. I don’t think you can write about a specific person and their potential use of unmentionable substance use or abuse. If he names this dishonest, thieving provider NOW, he could maybe face getting points or even banned.

I admit I don’t know the exact rules, but I got points a few years ago for pointing out the diseases that a certain provider MAY have been susceptible for being so nasty. I didn’t like this girl, obviously,(she’s not a member anymore; and I’m NOT usually mean), but you cannot mention medical issues or substance use.

I’m confused because he read about her many issues. And said “it’s not earth shattering but REALLY GOOD”. Really good...OK then. Then said, “300 is a lot, but I can afford it.” Well then. OP could still pay his bills, mortgage, and eat. I guess it’s not earth shattering. But this disgusting broad is definitely a thief and no client should EVER book this liar and thief. I VERY much hate it when providers pull this type of crap, because the men seem to think it applies to ALL of us. I can’t count the number of insulting posts by clients, saying “Never trust a whore. They’ll take the money and run, every time”. NOT TRUE. Most well reviewed ladies are honest and trustworthy. Especially the other ladies who posted on this thread.

Perhaps the OP will give her handle if members send him a PM? He would still have his leverage as this chick hasn’t logged in a month. She’ll never know. And OP can deny it. PM’s are private. .

Of course I could very, very well be wrong. However, the OP has already mentioned her drug use. I don’t think you can write about a specific person and their potential use of unmentionable substance use or abuse. If he names this dishonest, thieving provider NOW, he could maybe face getting points or even banned.

I admit I don’t know the exact rules, but I got points a few years ago for pointing out the diseases that a certain provider MAY have been susceptible for being so nasty. I didn’t like this girl, obviously,(she’s not a member anymore; and I’m NOT usually mean), but you cannot mention medical issues or substance use.

I’m confused because he read about her many issues. And said “it’s not earth shattering but REALLY GOOD”. Really good...OK then. Then said, “300 is a lot, but I can afford it.” Well then. OP could still pay his bills, mortgage, and eat. I guess it’s not earth shattering. But this disgusting broad is definitely a thief and no client should EVER book this liar and thief. I VERY much hate it when providers pull this type of crap, because the men seem to think it applies to ALL of us. I can’t count the number of insulting posts by clients, saying “Never trust a whore. They’ll take the money and run, every time”. NOT TRUE. Most well reviewed ladies are honest and trustworthy. Especially the other ladies who posted on this thread.

Perhaps the OP will give her handle if members send him a PM? He would still have his leverage as this chick hasn’t logged in a month. She’ll never know. And OP can deny it. PM’s are private. . Originally Posted by GingerKatt

Op, hope things work out for you and you get taken care of. If not, chalk it up to experience and move on.

There are shady types in both hobbiests and providers. That doesn't mean every one is bad.

Side note, Ginger is one of the best. Miss you Ginger and wish you well.

While I understand the reasons why reputable providers such as Analeese would like to see a world in which deposits and submission of RWI is a perfectly sane and safe thing to do, the fact is it will NEVER happen and only foolish newbs with throbbing hard-ons will ever do so.

So allow me to explain for the newbie:

- Do not prepay, and don't hand over money unless it is BCD. Not even in the parking lot as a way to secure the room. Only pay when she is ready or has actually performed as agreed. Otherwise do not be afraid to walk away.

- Do not give out your RWI. I know this is a hassle especially now for newbies, but you have so much to lose by giving this out. Do nmot believe any claims that they delete you info after screening. More often than not, they don't. Trust me on this!

- Do not use your personal phone. At the very least use an app like Burner or GV. But a separate phone you can wipe and toss and with active security is so much better.

- If push comes to shove, don't be a hero. Losing you life over $250 is dumb. If you get BCD only to have a bait and switch do not fight over the donation, as she likely has backup that is willing to beat, rob, stab, or shoot you if you become a problem. Instead report that shit here.

and finally....

- CASH IS KING. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever (did I mention "never ever"?) use anything else. If your bank is in CA and you transfer to a recipient in TX you are now subject to federal law. Of course chances are that you are not the target of any investigations but that does not mean that the provider, her pimp, or their dealer are not and you might just get swept up in whatever shit ends up going down.

I’ll give you $200 to name the thieving cunt, but, I’ll have to Cash App it to you, I’m worth it!

Name the whore!

While I understand the reasons why reputable providers such as Analeese would like to see a world in which deposits and submission of RWI is a perfectly sane and safe thing to do, the fact is it will NEVER happen and only foolish newbs with throbbing hard-ons will ever do so.

So allow me to explain for the newbie:

- Do not prepay, and don't hand over money unless it is BCD. Not even in the parking lot as a way to secure the room. Only pay when she is ready or has actually performed as agreed. Otherwise do not be afraid to walk away.

- Do not give out your RWI. I know this is a hassle especially now for newbies, but you have so much to lose by giving this out. Do nmot believe any claims that they delete you info after screening. More often than not, they don't. Trust me on this!

- Do not use your personal phone. At the very least use an app like Burner or GV. But a separate phone you can wipe and toss and with active security is so much better.

- If push comes to shove, don't be a hero. Losing you life over $250 is dumb. If you get BCD only to have a bait and switch do not fight over the donation, as she likely has backup that is willing to beat, rob, stab, or shoot you if you become a problem. Instead report that shit here.

and finally....

- CASH IS KING. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever (did I mention "never ever"?) use anything else. If your bank is in CA and you transfer to a recipient in TX you are now subject to federal law. Of course chances are that you are not the target of any investigations but that does not mean that the provider, her pimp, or their dealer are not and you might just get swept up in whatever shit ends up going down. Originally Posted by Brandofan

GREAT information Brandofan!!!

Thanks for sharing this information every guy in the hobby needs this 👍👍

I’ll give you $200 to name the thieving cunt, but, I’ll have to Cash App it to you, I’m worth it! Originally Posted by ManSlut

After you send me all of your RealWorld information:
1. Real legal full name
2. DOB
3. Social Security #
4. Verifiable place of employment
5. Pic

Name the whore! Originally Posted by BLM69

On a side note all i can see are the villagers with their torches and pitch forks yelling "name the whore"

I'll start a new thread with a sad but should have been expected end.

There was no reason to start another useless thread on the topic of you getting scammed.

Op, hope things work out for you and you get taken care of. If not, chalk it up to experience and move on.

There are shady types in both hobbiests and providers. That doesn't mean every one is bad.

Side note, Ginger is one of the best. Miss you Ginger and wish you well. Originally Posted by MarkusH

Thank you for the sweet words, my Markus. Makes me feel so good to not be forgotten.

And I can't understand the guys that keep wanting the OP to name this broad publicly. The mods have already had to edit the unmentionable comment in the OP's initial post. Do you want him to get points or possibly banned? The comment IS still available in the posts of members who quoted his first post in their comments.

Send him a PM if you want and ask nicely. But it kind of sounds like the thing has gone from Eccie, good riddance. Neither the clients nor the good providers need something like that around.

I do hate stories that leave me hanging though; with no satisfactory ending. I would love it the OP would tell us if he is still in contact with the thing, and if he's gotten repaid by it or given a make up session. If he's gotten nothing, he should wrap up the story by posting that. Then maybe he can post it's handle, since the unmentionable has been deleted. He WAS actually still hoping to see it for a session according to his post!

That rarely happens in these cases, but I do like a happy ending!


EDIT:

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2638564

OH WAIT. He DID start a whole new thread about this stupid thing. That's kinda weird, no?