So I was catching up with a retired MILF over few drinks. We were reminiscing about how the hobbyland has changed.
One thing she brought up was very interesting. Obviously, active ladies wont be too vocal but let's see how this goes.
1. Over promiser- self explanatory
2. Cheap haggler type
3. Board consumed-drama fed
4. Resume guy
5. Daytime Married types
6. BFE's
Lmao....she had no filter this day! What yall think?
Originally Posted by Shep3.0
That is a pretty good list. There are a few lesser known species of hobbyists that show themselves from time to time, however rarely. They include:
1) Captain Save-a-Ho: He is a noble character who is looking for a provider to rescue from her tragic lifestyle. Of course, he knows that she is just waiting for someone from a higher social strata to come along and build her a new life free from her tormentors. This particular specie has many traits in common with the hobbyist that is actually seeking love and affection in the hobby, so it's hard to tell them apart sometimes.
2) The researcher: This species doesn't really need to pay women for sex, he is just doing research about the life style for his book, his academic research, his article, the competing website he is opening next month, etc.
3) The competitor: This species thrives on combining sex with a challenge. For example, I knew of a hobbyist that would pour over reviews of providers that do only L1 and nothing else. If they had a solid reputation of only doing L1, he would book session after session, trying to be the first to get her "upgrade her service". The higher the better. Or hobbyists who try to persuade a provider who has a reputation of only doing safe sex to go bareback.
Your little chat also reminded me that there are NO secrets in the hobby world. Both providers and hobbyists share all kinds of dangerous, personal information with each other and it usually spreads like wildfire. I never have understood why someone would do that, but the gossip is always rampant.