Customer Service 101, "Providing" is a business, many treat it so, but many take hobbiest for fools, WHY???

Many providers will offer everything under the sun but not that, because it is "intimate" for them. Originally Posted by Kaylee

It really boggles my mind that there are women who think that kissing is more intimate than having sex or giving a blow job, with or without CIM. The few girlfriends I have had all kissed. Not one of them did CIM. Kissing is the LEAST intimate part sex. Then again, we are dealing with the female brain so it's no wonder this confuses us.

I include CIM and COF in my gfe definition but that's just me. That's why putting the terms really means so little, because each girl is different. I don't have 2 different prices for gfe/pse, so it's all inclusive. I just need to know about grk ahead of time, to prepare.

Actually had one guy yell at me because I did not offer bbfs, and my ad said I offered pse. I was wondering if he thought he was getting a real porn star and wanted to bring a camera too, but he was just an idiot.

Dave, as a guy you can have sex with a girl you don't love right? I know guys who will let just about anyone blow them but may not screw or go down on them...same thing. Most women only kiss someone they are in love with, or at least very attracted to. They set that activity aside as something sacred for a bf or hubby. A bj with cim is far less intimate to me than kissing or fs. Sex can be acted out, but a real kiss is hard to pull off if there is no real attraction.

Also consider that a blowjob is something we do to you, not you to us so that gives a control feeling. Kissing portrays more of a romantic feeling that we have associated with love. Sex is so far gone that is has become about everything but love, but a kiss is still a kiss.

Lol. I love to kiss, its so good. Kissing is what gets the ball rolling for me. I guess it is a bit of an attraction thing, but hell i don't know. I love kissing. I have always been that way. Lips are the first thing you see on a person. My weakness are guys with pretty lips, its my thing. I cant say the first thing i see on a guy is his dick. What if his turtle never comes out the shell, at least i got his lips to play with to help get the party started.

Im weird i guess i have to be into a guy to swallow his giz.

Well... I certainly would love to meet at O'Briens!

Lea Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

well c'mon!

Lol. I love to kiss, its so good. Kissing is what gets the ball rolling for me.

Im weird i guess i have to be into a guy to swallow his giz. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

I feel the same way, just not with every guy I meet. I have to have a ring on my finger to swallow. So that's the thing I save I guess....hope the future hubby appreciates that.

I gotta say this "Julia 'Sexless' Roberts" view of kissing has always made me chuckle. I've heard the arguments of "intimacy" being involved, but if you're letting a dude clean your pipes, I'm not really sure how it gets more intimate than that! The logic behind that baffles and amuses me.

As for swallowing it's rare. I can count on one hand the number of times I've done it. Gag reflex is sensitive.