What has this hobby/lifestyle taught you?

Shayla, I'm heading to Vegas mid October from the midwest so have begun to do my research and think I've found my girl if you are in town on October 13th! To answer your question, (very good question btw) I just love sex! I am happily married and have a pretty good sex life at home but like to have some variety in my life. I love steak but don't plan on eating only it every day for the rest of my life. I am not looking for a relationship outside of marriage. I am just looking for someone who also enjoys sex and would like to have a consensual hour or two of fun without any resulting complications. I read a quote on this board one time that said "we don't pay for sex, we pay so they don't follow us home". Some truth to that. I have a young lady that I have seen several times and we really click. I have told her that for the hour or two we are together I am in LOVE. But once I leave I don't need her to send me a Christmas card. Hope I can see you in six weeks and look forward to falling in love for an hour or two.

NB says allot for me too! Being "experienced" (older), hobbying is more about the "first kiss" experience with being with someone new and exciting! Actually for me the "pop" is the least satisfying part of a session, because it reminds you of the end of a great journey, like getting off a plane in Syracuse in the dead of winter from a warmer climate vacation. I have had many great relationships in my life and have always felt comfortable in the presence of women, but many relationships (friendships) have ended because I was unwilling or unable to take it to the next level. i.e.(It's pretty hard when your both married and not to each other). And it wasn't always about the sex, so the friendships ended on a sour note. With the hobby I enjoy giving pleasure, so even if the lady fakes it, I still feel good about the experience and can leave on a good note.

That its less about sex and more about actual companionship. Originally Posted by LynnT