Is it important to the client?

I like the effort. I think that, at the least, the girl should have some makeup on, nails done, and wearing something sexy. Just a little effort. I've shown up to some well known providers before and they were in sweats looking like an unmade bed - no thanks.

Sweetsuzanna
You did not read my
last sentence
I specifically said
that you was NOT DIRTY Originally Posted by CatMan4u

I was just messing with you sweetie xxxx

I've seen a lot of comments about dressing. In line with my earlier comments, I'll add that dressing up, or nicely scanty, for a basic date is entirely appropriate.
But as for extended dates, or off clock stuff, I'm back to my original comment of it depends on what your doing.
At a boat dock, bathing suit or sundress over bathing suit. At the barns, gotta be jeans (besides the civie gals would try to embarrass her unless). At the gym, nice sweats, etc.
Seriously, it depends.

Only one comment....No glitter! Can't get rid of the stuff before going home LOL.

I'm sure there is a wide range of clothing/makeup preferences among hobbyists. Me, I'm a hippie at heart, so I tend to prefer the natural look. Either no makeup or just a touch, if she likes it, eyes but no lipstick... definitely no perfume or scents... casual clothes, like you would wear for your own comfort, when you're not trying to impress anyone. Jeans and a casual blouse or T-shirt, even yoga pants (ooh, yeah!) or a soft, comfy, cute dress... (mmm... upskirt! 😜 Mmm...) Pretty underwear is always a nice touch, so I can admire her pretty bra and sexy panties for three seconds before I slide them off and get at those beautiful girl parts inside. Freshly-showered girl parts, of course: I do like to taste! And to inspect and examine and explore with my fingers and tongue, and to playfully kiss and caress all those warm, soft, tender little folds and shapes and textures as she moans in pleasure and-- but I'm getting off topic here. Sorry... ADHD...

So anyway, for me, it's the natural look. I'm a casual guy. I'm sure lots of guys want a girl to be all dressed up. Probably most guys would love it if you simply ask them their preference before the encounter.

Some guys are more focused on the activities than on the girls looks.. other guys are more focused on the girls looks than the activities. Knowing which one of those your client is will give you your answer

I always tell a new provider to dress like they are going to the grocery store. Probably jeans, blouse or sweatshirt, athletic shoes, minimal makeup and fragrance. Very plain and simple.

As you can see, it depends.

I sincerely appreciate the effort by a provider when it’s put forth. But, personally, not a “heavy” make up and perfume fan. Pretty nails are a nice touch. Lingerie and heels to accentuate the look.

IGreat question, but is tough even getting to point of seeing how they are clothed, etc when girls either...
- finally respond 7 hours later when it's too late.
- talk about how "their" time matters, but can't remember setting a time and not having to get strung an hor or better waiting.
- or respond timely, but string rest of process 2 hrs.
- set up agreed appointment day before and no response next day.
- send polite text or email with references....no response.
Could go on...

Thank you for asking this question! It is very important that we understand each other. Great dialogue here too.

The matter you inquired about is somewhat complicated. I appreciate that a woman does these things to doll up. However, I want to a woman to be a natural woman too. Lingerie is nice too but not overdone.

It is somewhere in between. I loved one of the earliest comments about being fresh out of the shower, naked, with a robe. Being clean is most important, but not a wad of tangled wet hair either. I started once with one woman and she actually smelled of BO. I asked her to take a shower and clean up.

I love painted toenails because I look to see a woman's feet. That is turn on for me. I dont mind seeing you open the door barefoot. I want that.

On fingernails, I am not a fan of talons, but I like red painted nails that are normal length. No need to paint flowers or have chains hanging from them.

When the door opens, I just want to see a sexy version of the girl next door. Not a supermodel. I like a partially buttoned shirt with nothing underneath so I get a peek of what is to come.

I prefer no tattoos, no piecing. I am starting to finally hear it nowadays. I want a woman to have a full hairy bush down there. That does not mean hairy legs or underarms.

Finally, a positive attitude is absolutely critical. That is reflected in timely and respectful communication. I have told girls on the initial inquiry that if they start yelling and getting nasty that it will not work for me. It will just turn me off. And I wont yell or be nasty either. If we cannot work it out, so be it, but leave it possible for next time.

I look for the following
Nice looking
Clean and fresh
Pleasant attitude
Attractively dressed lingerie
Not a bean pole and not big
Some where in the middle
Pleaseingly plump is ok
above all responsive on communication

i love a girl who puts the efforts into looking great dressed to the nines while elegant its not necessary! i prefer my dates dressed casual light makeup looking good and smelling nice! faint scent some gals over do it with perfume.

pretty manicured nails and toes as someone else mentioned no tallons! nice hair shower fresh. my preferences may be different if we were out and about and i was showing her off!

Have we met? If not I think we should because the way you talk is turning me on incredibly.







QUOTE=Rubba-dub-dub;1062290646]I'm sure there is a wide range of clothing/makeup preferences among hobbyists. Me, I'm a hippie at heart, so I tend to prefer the natural look. Either no makeup or just a touch, if she likes it, eyes but no lipstick... definitely no perfume or scents... casual clothes, like you would wear for your own comfort, when you're not trying to impress anyone. Jeans and a casual blouse or T-shirt, even yoga pants (ooh, yeah!) or a soft, comfy, cute dress... (mmm... upskirt! 😜 Mmm...) Pretty underwear is always a nice touch, so I can admire her pretty bra and sexy panties for three seconds before I slide them off and get at those beautiful girl parts inside. Freshly-showered girl parts, of course: I do like to taste! And to inspect and examine and explore with my fingers and tongue, and to playfully kiss and caress all those warm, soft, tender little folds and shapes and textures as she moans in pleasure and-- but I'm getting off topic here. Sorry... ADHD...

So anyway, for me, it's the natural look. I'm a casual guy. I'm sure lots of guys want a girl to be all dressed up. Probably most guys would love it if you simply ask them their preference before the encounter.[/QUOTE]

Uh-oh. Wadnt me




QUOTE=Tennesseestud;1062448766]IGreat question, but is tough even getting to point of seeing how they are clothed, etc when girls either...
- finally respond 7 hours later when it's too late.
- talk about how "their" time matters, but can't remember setting a time and not having to get strung an hor or better waiting.
- or respond timely, but string rest of process 2 hrs.
- set up agreed appointment day before and no response next day.
- send polite text or email with references....no response.
Could go on...[/QUOTE]

I agree ☝️ it’s the ADHD Comment that made me like it !!!

So mean of the men is saying nails but I let mine grow out like my grandma did and I don’t like fake nails But I get my feet �� don’t with shellac so it don’t come off better then Painting them but even if you get shellac on your nails it a pill off really easy so I just leave them natural never really thought �� about till Reading your post Reading your post!!!

My ADD got me thinking �� Thank for the Great question You got everyone thinking sweetSuzanna I know a lot of people out here if you ever need a reference let me know I save Numbers ����♀️ Have a Great Day !!!