FWB always sounds nice

I think you pretty much nailed it.

My thing is, if a lady is touring, and she only intends on seeing the same few guys, why post that she's even coming to the area? Originally Posted by BulldogCountry

From my experience (just a logical guess), some of 'these' guys have not confirmed pre-start of trip. So, they book anyone showing an interest - one of the flags for me is when they agree to my proposed date/time w/o checking my credibility.
Once they are here & guys see the Ad, these 'guys' check for availability - 1st timers' lose priority since the provider is going to go with her 'known' commodity.
Like I told one companion when I called BS on her reason: I fully understand since one is known & other unknown so you don't have to give me a BS excuse. Have never heard back..

From my experience (just a logical guess), some of 'these' guys have not confirmed pre-start of trip. So, they book anyone showing an interest - one of the flags for me is when they agree to my proposed date/time w/o checking my credibility.
Once they are here & guys see the Ad, these 'guys' check for availability - 1st timers' lose priority since the provider is going to go with her 'known' commodity.
Like I told one companion when I called BS on her reason: I fully understand since one is known & other unknown so you don't have to give me a BS excuse. Have never heard back.. Originally Posted by techiedad36

Yep. That happens, too. I've been "cancelled" or "ghosted" by a provider before because of this reason. Not always by touring providers, but local ones, too. And then it's just salt-in-the-wound when one of her "regulars" post a review of her.... on the same day and time-frame MY appointment was originally. lol

I find it amazing that so many people commented without even hearing the providers side . You know why the timing was the way it was and I won't comment anymore on the WIDELY detailed comment they allowed you to post in this forum when that usually is a hidden part of a review which is very disrespectful to anyone involved. Sorry for your bad experience .

. And then it's just salt-in-the-wound when one of her "regulars" post a review of her.... on the same day and time-frame MY appointment was originally. lol Originally Posted by BulldogCountry

I am glad that happened to you, because I had that same thing happen to me, with you. LMAO

I am glad that happened to you, because I had that same thing happen to me, with you. LMAO Originally Posted by irishgringo

Oh? Whoops, my bad.

Of course, the ladies don't tell me if they're cancelling on someone else to see me. Had I known, I definitely would have encouraged them to keep their original appointment.

I find it amazing that so many people commented without even hearing the providers side . You know why the timing was the way it was and I won't comment anymore on the WIDELY detailed comment they allowed you to post in this forum when that usually is a hidden part of a review which is very disrespectful to anyone involved. Sorry for your bad experience . Originally Posted by YourBlueEyedGoddess

Tell us what really happened. We're listening.