Ladies its 90% ATTITUDE

JRLawrence's Avatar
That’s what I’ve been told. I’m friendly, and that tied together with my skills makes people come back Originally Posted by KatiforYou
Ma'am who are you? Originally Posted by biggmike567
Let's introduce you too. Kati, this is mike. Mike, this is Kati. Kati is one of the nicest ladies I have ever met, especially if you appreciate the oral skills. If being older than 30 is a problem; I have that problem too. She is one of the few, the very few ladies who concentrated the whole visit upon what it would take to make me happy - then she dropped out of the hobby.

Good to see you back Kati.

JR
Some men act like ass hole 🕳 and you get what you give Sometimes So... give respect to get respect if you ask Me !!!! Originally Posted by staceyrenee
Ah, the anti approach... Maybe you might consider that YOU also get respect, (and business) when you show respect...
Debra Hollander's Avatar
On this....

This should be about everyone getting what they want, (as much as possible), so lets all be respectful and have fun shall we..... Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

I have a personality and approach which not everyone likes. I get that; I do. I'm a very sarcastic smartass and when it comes to my business? My communication is often very businesslike, cut-and-dried. And yes, sometimes quite facetious. That's just who I am.

On my site, my answers to FAQs contain a LOT of "no". In my experience, it's better to be clear about what someone should NOT expect. ;-)


In my ads and all marketing, I like to be who I really am.
I've learned that the more I am myself, the more I meet people with whom I click. More real (in my case, more sass) beforehand equals more successful encounters.

I'm not going to pretend to be Miss Sugar-and-Spice-and-Everything-Nice any more than I'm going to claim I'm a size 2 25yo. Neither are who I am, so if you are looking for any of that, then I am not for you.


I will be my genuinely snarky self and if that doesn't work for you then you get to move on to someone whose style DOES suit you.

That's getting what you want, having a good time with those who are the right fit, yes?


xoxoxoxo
JRLawrence's Avatar
Just food for thought. There are ladies who post here who are not the youngest models, and may not be a drop dead 10, ( like many of the gents here by the way), but the really successful ladies share one common critical thing, (a positive ATTITUDE)! Most of the gentlemen here don't enjoy being ridiculed, talked down to or told NO more often then not, (which is why their here in the first place), and don't need the drama either. This should be about everyone getting what they want, (as much as possible), so lets all be respectful and have fun shall we..... Originally Posted by KCFalcon77
Guys at any age, ugly or good looking, rich or poor find it very easy to get a date in the civilian world: all it takes is having a job of some kind - any kind.

Girls look for the money, and then ..... Well guys, you know the rest. All of us want female companionship, sex is secondary - sometimes, without the bad attitude.

If a woman has a bad attitude, or is just plain stupid, it is time to look elsewhere.
JRLawrence's Avatar
On this....
I'm a very sarcastic smartass Originally Posted by Debra Hollander

I am a very successful guy who has earned the right to be respected.

I just put you in the "do not see file".


I am a very successful guy who has earned the right to be respected.

I just put you in the "do not see file".


Originally Posted by JRLawrence
Im sure she will be inconsolable for at least 5 minutes knowing this now
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
I am a very successful guy who has earned the right to be respected.

I just put you in the "do not see file".

Originally Posted by JRLawrence
Wondering how many women have just put JR on their dns list.
Debra Hollander's Avatar
I am a very successful guy who has earned the right to be respected.

I just put you in the "do not see file".


Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Thank you, yes! This is what I'm saying: we each weed each other out by the information we find, so we can have fun with those who are a good fit.


I don't want to be in a room with someone who takes my comments as disrespect. At best, this is an awkward speed bump to what could be a good date.


A longtime client likes to send me Jane Lynch clips & quotes because he thinks my humor is similar to hers. (I wish! She is BRILLIANT!)
But others, likely yourself, would not appreciate being on the receiving end of such dry wit. That's totally valid.


Fortunately for me, plenty of people appreciate a smartass.
Or maybe they just like my ass well enough to overlook my sass.



I just put you in the "do not see file".


Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Oh, and shouldn't it technically be "do not see" file?


(Sorry, I just couldn't help myself.)
DallasRain's Avatar
i am just a crazy old horny redneck woman lol
JRLawrence's Avatar
Thank you, yes! This is what I'm saying: we each weed each other out by the information we find, so we can have fun with those who are a good fit.


I don't want to be in a room with someone who takes my comments as disrespect. At best, this is an awkward speed bump to what could be a good date.


A longtime client likes to send me Jane Lynch clips & quotes because he thinks my humor is similar to hers. (I wish! She is BRILLIANT!)
But others, likely yourself, would not appreciate being on the receiving end of such dry wit. That's totally valid.


Fortunately for me, plenty of people appreciate a smartass.
Or maybe they just like my ass well enough to overlook my sass.





Oh, and shouldn't it technically be "do not see" file?


(Sorry, I just couldn't help myself.) Originally Posted by Debra Hollander
Damn lady you are good! You do have some, just a little, education. Most of the ladies here don't understand what you just said. Good for you, even if it was sarcastic. Sarcastic, as in: derisive, snide, scornful, contemptuous, mocking, sneering, jeering; caustic, scathing, trenchant, cutting, biting, sharp.

This sounds like a person one would not wish to be near.



Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
... This sounds like a person JR would not wish to be near. Originally Posted by JRLawrence
Ftfy JR
Wondering how many women have just put JR on their dns list. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter
Wondering who cares????
CatMan4u's Avatar
Damn lady you are good! You do have some, just a little, education. Most of the ladies here don't understand what you just said. Good for you, even if it was sarcastic. Sarcastic, as in: derisive, snide, scornful, contemptuous, mocking, sneering, jeering; caustic, scathing, trenchant, cutting, biting, sharp.

This sounds like a person one would not wish to be near.



Originally Posted by JRLawrence
Con grads you just described alot of x wives
I am a very successful guy who has earned the right to be respected.

I just put you in the "do not see file".


Originally Posted by JRLawrence
JR,

Most accomplished people don’t feel the need to tell others on a hooker board that they are very successful and they have earned the right to be respected. Just sayin’

Charlie
yourdesire's Avatar
But I have a brilliant personality! Teeeheee
JR you seem to truly dis like women. I caught what she was saying fine. But why be so mean w/your words? "You do have some, just a little, education." Maybe she's a genius. And smart ass should be right up your alley lol. Everyone has a smart ass hiding inside. But again I have a brilliant personality haha