Can I trust you to be nice with this?

When the providers you frequent are on your "Contacts" list under male aliases.

Great thread. Marcus78: you have too many great answers...congratulations!

Behind Marcus...

You know you're a hobbyist/provider...
When a waitress asks if you would like a creampie for dessert...you scrunch your forehead and say, "Ah...hell no, thank you though!"