Information can always be shared discreetly but some of you guys only care about yourselves and not the hobby as a whole. Selfishness and jealousy is at play here. There is no cohesion, only loose factions. There should be a common goal to not damage the hobby and understand the results that can come from your actions.
Originally Posted by Mental AtrraXXXion
Your statement whether tongue in cheek or not is not totally true about us being selfish. Some discreet sharing does occur, but the problem with a public board like this is that there are people who can read the board, never contribute, then the minute they see something promising, they rush out and try to get equal or better service than those that put in a lot of time and effort to groom their sexual partners.
It sucks that I (and from the comments, many others on here) spend weeks, or even months, sweet talking a AMP or LMT girl, perhaps even spending a lot of money with little return (ie lots of L0's or L1's before finally getting to L3), only to have some guy read the board, rush out and ruin it by trying to force the AMP or LMT girl into doing something that we've spent months cultivating. In a way, its a form of theft. No different than a farmer that planted a crop, worked it, spent months growing it, only to have someone else come in and harvest it.
So I decided that there are some AMP & LMT's that I'm keeping to myself or only sharing with a very few trusted other hobbyiest who happen to guard their secrets too.
Oh, and before I get a ton of request to share, let me state something. Before I share my LMT's or sugar babies, I'll need some really good intel. Tossing a rubratings or ECCIE girl to me that you might or might not have seen is not going to cut it. I've had guys toss a known provider at me hoping I'll give up one of my under the radar LMT's or sugar baby. Not going to happen. It'll have to be a like for like trade, she's an under the radar unknown that you've spent months cultivating, or she's a sugar baby that is willing to see another SD for a PPM arrangement.
I think the real selfishness at play are the lurkers that don't contribute, yet expect the same level of service that contributors get. The same goes for the guys that will show a review to a LMT or provider and say something along the lines of "I want what he got" without putting in any effort.
In my view, its not selfish by not sharing. Its protecting these under the radar LMTs from losing their license or getting run out of their spa facility because there's a ton of guys that show up and make a scene when she wont' fuck them. Its actually happened to a LMT that I saw, she lost her lease, they kicked her out because all of a sudden a bunch of guys showed up and they pegged her as a prostitute instead of a legit massage therapist.