no longer offering incall....

If I was reading this right Vivian, you provided an incall room but were expecting to be reimbursed the cost of the room plus your hourly rate. I understand that and have done this with some knowing they are getting the room for us and just for us. Sometimes we have split the cost of the room. But it was communicated up front. And sometimes they have raised their rate to an amount they feel is appropriate. It can be a hassle with the credit card and I appreciate when the room is provided.

Now I have two questions and a comment.

Question 1 - Vivian, you are starting a thread to discuss what happened so others could learn, would you see this gentleman again?

Comment - If there is ever a chance you get to Buffalo, I would still love to meet you. So keep me in mind.

Question 2 - Did I miss something about Shayla visiting Buffalo? That would be great. And if I dare to be a peace maker, offer to meet both Vivian and Shayla together for some duo fun? And I'll even pay for the room. It would be a tough job but someone needs to step up here and I am willing to try.
MC's Avatar
  • MC
  • 09-01-2011, 08:35 AM
Question 2 - Did I miss something about Shayla visiting Buffalo? That would be great. And if I dare to be a peace maker, offer to meet both Vivian and Shayla together for some duo fun? And I'll even pay for the room. It would be a tough job but someone needs to step up here and I am willing to try. Originally Posted by montana1958
Vivian mentioned something earlier in the thread abut Shayla planning on coming to NY so I kind of just threw the question out there.
@montana....yes, as I stated numerous times I started the thread to share an unfortunate experience so that others would not make the same "oversight"

Would I see him again?? hmmm...you only get one chance to make a first impression...I was kind in giving him the benefit of the doubt and thinking that it was an honest mistake but the truth is ..I don't know that for sure! Fool me once shame on you...fool me twice shame on me!

I always keep you in mind when contemplating Buffalo!!

As far as Shayla goes....I thought I read a while back that she was planning a trip, I could have been wrong...Either way, I can deff appreciate a beautiful woman and while I am a bit of an "attention whore" and admittedly don't play well with other females I would decline a duo but would love to show her around NY!!!!!
but thanks for offering to get the room!! LOL

I always keep you in mind when contemplating Buffalo!!
Originally Posted by viviantonight

Thanks Viv. One of these days. You and Sara from Albany have eluded me for a few years now. If I traveled...........
your thread didn't say hey guys double ck the rate or the donation it said you are no longer offering incall cause you got short changed on 1 appointment yet you stated that not only did the gent probably not mean to do it but offered to pay you the difference. girls set the incall rate but if you do not have a reg incall location nor see multiple clients during a hotel stay don't blame the cost of a room on the gent. many many places for 30-60 day for clean yet bare basic accomodations
wow shayla....very nice!!! how bout you tuck ur little attitude away for a second re-read the thread and this time notice how NO ONE is bitching and the "misunderstanding" is what I am passing along so that it doesn't happen to another gent ....simply sharing an experience and participating on this lovely site!
you're coming to NY soon right??? never know who you're gonna need a reference from. . . . . may not want to come across like that....it's not classy hun Originally Posted by viviantonight
id take her in buffalo / rochester / syracuse / ithica / niagara falls / hamilton / kitchner / toront /erie / cleveland /pittsburg anywhere i could get in a car in the morning and be back in buffalo at night. detroit would work, montreal whatever with that womans looks and her almost man like perspective on things i would give 20 yrs of my life to have her once. i think ive said it 20 times already but heres 21 i hope she comes here soon because with that face she will be working in print or film whether adult or mainstream very soon. if god could create the perfect face it would be hers. combine that with an incredible body and a kick ass persona she is the bucket list of a lifetime [ morgan freeman and jack nicholson may have marked off 1 activity after another but let me have this one and i am all set].
More importantly, when are you (Shayla) coming to Buffalo? Originally Posted by MC
let viv say what she wants. marone! you cry & whine why ladies dont post, this is a perfect example why asshats
offshoredrilling's Avatar
a girl gonna do what she's got to do and wants to do.
I know where viv is coming from because I have been in that situation before,someone shorted me even though they knew my rate and its frustating.I only get rooms upon call so when I book an appt I usually verify the rate beforehand just to make sure were both on the same page.I actually lost money in that situation that I just mentioned but as the old saying goes you have to take the good with the bad.Dont get me wrong just like the men have to toft us ladies have to also for example hotels usually raise the rates when events happen and some even have weekend rates that go up and trust me there have been times where I paid 200 for a room and only seen one client for 200 so I didnt make anything but I look at every person that I meet as a potential regular so I had to toft.Even right now the fair is here and hotels are outrageous so im only offering outcalls.To each its own I guess I feel her pain and I know where shes coming from because ive been in her shoes and thats why at times I only offer outcalls.
let viv say what she wants. marone! you cry & whine why ladies dont post, this is a perfect example why asshats Originally Posted by naughtynikki84
JONBALLS's Avatar
yup, and keep whining about "business expenses" to your potential clients that for the most part make a FRACTION of the wage that you do. If you factor in just the rise in Gas prices from $2. to $4., and your typical guy running 1 truck spends an extra $80 per wk or $320. per mo.. do you actually think in this economy that business for men has picked up enough to carry even just this one expense? hardly..I dont give a fuck if any "lady" ever posts once more here.The guys that are honest dont want to hear it , sorry if thats too tough but I really dont give a fuck.This place disgusts me.Ill take a sloppy BP quick stop over any of this bullshit at least those chicks are taking care of "business" and arent spending their time here fucking WHINING that some guy "HURT" their "FEELINGS", what a fucking joke...Real life is real life...DEAL with it, you MORONS!!Sorry, IM NOT YOUR CUCKHOLD!! or whatever the FUCK that is..LOL!!
Jonballs that was pretty rude.I love interacting with the men and female on this board but some of the stuff that you are saying is just uncalled for.For 1 noone was whining about anything all that was said is she was shorted and she was pissed which she has every right to be and I brought up a similiar experience that I had.Look at it like this if you work 40 hours and you go to pick up your paycheck and you see you were only compensated for 30 hrs how would you feel?Theres no need to say you dont give a fuck if any females interact on this board thats just plain rude and uncalled for.Some things are better left unsaid and I think that your whole post was uncalled for.I dont understand this board its very fucked up (excuse my language but I felt the word fit) its ok for guys to bitch about prices being to high and what not but once a lady gets on any kind of subject concerning money its a problem and its tooken as if we are bitching about the job when thats not even the case.This is a forum where we are all aloud to voice our opinion share storys and interact with one another,guys have reviews where thay can shoot the shit and talk about what they like/dont like and females have coed.Please dont take this post the wrong way because trust me I hate drama and I want no part in any negative bs that goes on all im saying is theres no need to be angry or to argue we all deal with the same shit here just in different ways.
yup, and keep whining about "business expenses" to your potential clients that for the most part make a FRACTION of the wage that you do. If you factor in just the rise in Gas prices from $2. to $4., and your typical guy running 1 truck spends an extra $80 per wk or $320. per mo.. do you actually think in this economy that business for men has picked up enough to carry even just this one expense? hardly..I dont give a fuck if any "lady" ever posts once more here.The guys that are honest dont want to hear it , sorry if thats too tough but I really dont give a fuck.This place disgusts me.Ill take a sloppy BP quick stop over any of this bullshit at least those chicks are taking care of "business" and arent spending their time here fucking WHINING that some guy "HURT" their "FEELINGS", what a fucking joke...Real life is real life...DEAL with it, you MORONS!!Sorry, IM NOT YOUR CUCKHOLD!! or whatever the FUCK that is..LOL!! Originally Posted by JONBALLS
Isnt this site called Escort Client Community Information Exchange?Maybe I should just take a break from posting because you would think from the sites name itself that it would be useful and you would be able to share experiences that youve went through but obviously not...Im going to play the backround for a while and just lurk I think thats best.
Well... it's a hobby, a luxury, not a necessity.
When I was a kid, I worked as a server in the restaurant business. If you can't afford a 15% tip, then don't go out to eat! Stay home and cook.
Some months my business sucks so I have to put on Schindler's List and watch it with my pants down. Nothing hotter than fearful naked women!
yup, and keep whining about "business expenses" to your potential clients that for the most part make a FRACTION of the wage that you do. If you factor in just the rise in Gas prices from $2. to $4., and your typical guy running 1 truck spends an extra $80 per wk or $320. per mo.. do you actually think in this economy that business for men has picked up enough to carry even just this one expense? hardly..I dont give a fuck if any "lady" ever posts once more here.The guys that are honest dont want to hear it , sorry if thats too tough but I really dont give a fuck.This place disgusts me.Ill take a sloppy BP quick stop over any of this bullshit at least those chicks are taking care of "business" and arent spending their time here fucking WHINING that some guy "HURT" their "FEELINGS", what a fucking joke...Real life is real life...DEAL with it, you MORONS!!Sorry, IM NOT YOUR CUCKHOLD!! or whatever the FUCK that is..LOL!! Originally Posted by JONBALLS
LOL this is hillarious...Im sorry you hate your life too bad you weren't born with a pussy, you could be making the rules right now if you had been!! Just to clear a few things up...in my world I MAKE A FRACTION OF WHAT MY CLIENTS MAKE...I dont concern myself with the likes of people such as yourself who whine and complain about gas and escorts making all the money .You obviously cant afford to hobby and this is where the majority of your frustration is coming from.
I believe I speak for the vest majority of the girls in this section when I say you JONBALLS are a waste of time ...we care just as much about what you think as you care about what we think! You have fun with BP quick stops..that's exactly where you belong!!!



To all of the hobbyists and providers who have a reading comprehension level higher than that of a 4th grader....thank you for understanding where I am coming from
I will respectfully ask that his thread be closed now...since it has been beat to death and who it was meant for are none the wiser!!!
offshoredrilling's Avatar
this thread mmmm to bad. but some where reading to much into it.