UNSAFE

If a provider does a ss, it does not mean she offers it to everyone.

Thanks, ThatDude - ss also does NOT mean bbfs is ever on the menu. Nice try, BBL.
Sweet N Little's Avatar
It may look like fun but...Just don't let anything between your legs that's not covered Rules to live by
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Lmfao! SNL, I LOVE YOU!!! TFF!!!
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Lol sweet where did you find that?
Lmfao!!!!!
Stupidity, naivete, or whatever you choose to label it, runs in both directions. Does receiving or performing an SS constitute risky behavior? Yes. Does it lead to BBFS? Maybe, maybe not. Depends on the individuals involved, and the passion of the moment.

Thinking that simply avoiding the SS makes the hobby "safe" is a foolish perspective at best. Almost every hobby activity beyond a handshake carries with it a certain amount of risk. Body to body contact, the exchange of bodily fluids, and the possibility of mishaps across the board all involve risk, no matter how you sugar coat it. Period, end of story.

This post isn't to advocate or frown on any type of hobby behavior or safe practice. It's simply a observation on the thought process of avoiding one particular act to remain "safe" while engaging in others inherent with risk is foolhardy and misguided.

Like everything else in life, every behavior has a risk/reward factor. Intelligent and thinking individuals do the best they can to minimize risk without living a paranoid life.
I'll never forget the provider who wore rubber gloves before touching a penis....

There is safe, and there is ridiculous.
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Maybe she really screened you.
  • Holly
  • 10-10-2011, 09:53 AM
A lot of ladies here do offer that service.. I dont but to each its own... its done in sc's and here daily so i dont even think they would consider it alert worthy here. Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar
Really???? Wow I'm old fashion these days I guess....look it feels way better!!! Don't misunderstand me! I'm absolutely from the generation of "remember when sex was safe and motorcycles where dangerous" LOL but this is just NOT smart....once you have herpies or HIV you have it for life!!!!! It's just not fair to all other in the hobby ....note to self that this is not alert worthy....thanks for everyones comments