Rebuttal to the angry rejects

winn dixie's Avatar
Preferences are not racism

But entitlement is those that can't accept others preferences
Lolita22's Avatar
You're a cholo because you're thuggish not because you're Hispanic. Please don't "back track" and play victim after attempting to tarnish my reputation. If you're going to be that bold, stand on what you say and don't back track. I'm angry that I have to hold off on seeing clients to defend myself against incels like you. No one has time for all of this BS. Learn to accept no. That simple.
Do what you must. I don’t really care��♂️ I’ve had good sessions with my regular providers and if anything changes, I’ll be fine ��♂️. Very funny calling your overt racism “preferences” there’s plenty of proof on various other sites where you’ve gone mask off, and calling me a “cholo” because I’m Hispanic is proof in the pudding itself. Doesn’t matter though. You do you. I’ll do me. Don’t expect any other replies from me I have to get back to work and although humorous in many ways. My input will no longer be needed. Nor will I provide it. Thanks �� Originally Posted by Sextion
Lolita22's Avatar
+1 exactly . He called me a racist after saying my clients are "stinky" smelly heavyset white old men
Preferences are not racism

But entitlement is those that can't accept others preferences Originally Posted by winn dixie
Knotty1's Avatar
I would normally not think of commenting as I am only a guest here, but I visit Houston with some regularity and have seen this lady many times. Often enough to be certain she isn’t a maniacal racist that doesn’t care about someone else’s feelings anyway. Regardless of my personal experience, I know she is trying to make her way in life the same as everyone and doesn’t deserve the meanness because no provider does. When men are courteous, prompt, and respectful of boundaries, it is usually met with a pleasing encounter. If it doesn’t move on. Report deceptive or dishonest activity honestly to the members here, but vengeful comments have no place and are best ignored . Had I not been verified for her comfort and safety, I would have tried someone else. That’s one reason regulars are so great. Even out of town.
Lolita22's Avatar
Can't wait to see you again 💞💞
I would normally not think of commenting as I am only a guest here, but I visit Houston with some regularity and have seen this lady many times. Often enough to be certain she isn’t a maniacal racist that doesn’t care about someone else’s feelings anyway. Regardless of my personal experience, I know she is trying to make her way in life the same as everyone and doesn’t deserve the meanness because no provider does. When men are courteous, prompt, and respectful of boundaries, it is usually met with a pleasing encounter. If it doesn’t move on. Report deceptive or dishonest activity honestly to the members here, but vengeful comments have no place and are best ignored . Had I not been verified for her comfort and safety, I would have tried someone else. That’s one reason regulars are so great. Even out of town. Originally Posted by Knotty1
Racial preferences can (but aren't always) be racist, and people are allowed to have such racist or non racist preferences. I'm not sure why people act like preferences and racism (or any other forms of bigotry) are mutually exclusive. Nothing about them are. One can choose to not see black people for racist reasons, or for truly non-racist reasons. Both are possible.

It's also not worth trying to figure out why exactly people have the preferences they do. Most people will never admit if their reasons are racist, and they may not even realize it. The average person these days has the critical thinking skills of a goldfish, so what's the point? There are too many fish in the sea. Give people the benefit of the doubt and just move on. Life is too short.
Precious_b's Avatar
Ah. So many self alerts.

But there are some Hobbyist that come through understanding how to do things.
Dorian Gray's Avatar
I've been very busy lately so I haven't been as active here....Prefacing this by saying I was encouraged by several mods to post a rebuttal. Anytime I've posted a rebuttal It's dismissed by members because I'm "well reviewed" and have a "good reputation." I'm just requesting that my side is heard without being dismissed by members on the board. This is is an important thread because I feel that angry rejected guys should be called out for attempting to tarnish a companion's name because of rejection. This is needed. I also want the rejects to know that when you do this, companions are looking at it and see it as obsessive. Trust me, we definitely talk amongst each other. Companions view these types as rapists because they can't accept no.
I'm referencing this thread :
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=3031702

3) Dorian
https://eccie.net/member.php?u=117546
"Dorian" lied called me a racist in the same review. Preferences are not racist. Originally Posted by Lolita22
You know what. I am going to give you this one. I was lazy in my word choice as you are simply a garden variety bigot that is prejudice or discriminates. Therefore by definition you are NOT racist




This one is disappointing because unlike the others, he's been around for a while and knows better than to harass companions for not seeing black men. Originally Posted by Lolita22
You obviously do not know my work


He texted me early in the morning demanding to know why I don't see black men. Originally Posted by Lolita22
:Record Scratch:
What I am above to type next I am doing slowly & with intent....
I have never sent you a text, DM, P411 request, email, or used any other means to directly or indirectly contact you; about any topic in the history of mankind, [staff edit - inappropriate comments - DM] Unless you have otherwise proof you should retract this solitary statement


Seconds later he posts a huge thread about me being a racist in the current review. Was like 10 pages. Originally Posted by Lolita22
Could you please clarify. Is it a thread or a post?

Also if it was like 10 pages long could you provide that link or screenshot. I usually do not have the energy to put forth 10 pages


I'm not racist just have preferences that simple. Originally Posted by Lolita22
You are prejudice. You are just like the other 70.5% of the human population.


Examples of Dorian harassing/Name calling me for not seeing black men.
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2988101
Not all bigots are racist
But all racist are bigots
: shrug :


https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2980059
[staff edit - DM]
: Those sunglasses look too urban to be a client of yours. I'm just sayin' :[/quote]How is this even referencing melanin?

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=3022445



That was aimed at the OP. Projection much?


https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=3017174
[quote]https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=602655

[staff edit - inappropriate comments - DM]


For someone who's "been around for awhile" & "knows better" you obviously don't know my work. Let me reeducate you ....
To All the Undercutting Cunt Blocking Whore, Cheap Deal Taking Tricks, & Desperate "Only For You" Sluts. I say


......... heh

So I was browsing the Provider Ads... or What the fuck is in the water Dallas?


Okay.....


The Taint-urrection.



Umm.... Zanzibar
"I have nothing against older men who use canes or are disabled" Saying this and then proceeding to out a member showcasing their disability to the whole board is an extraordinary show of classiness. These are the type of providers that will leak your personal info in a heartbeat. Yikes.
[QUOTE=Dorian Gray;1063748545]You know what. I am going to give you this one. I was lazy in my word choice as you are simply a garden variety bigot that is prejudice or discriminates. Therefore by definition you are NOT racist

Hi Sir , The following is not permitted on the site:

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Lolita22's Avatar
Absolutely hilarious [QUOTE=delimex007;1063748614]
You know what. I am going to give you this one. I was lazy in my word choice as you are simply a garden variety bigot that is prejudice or discriminates. Therefore by definition you are NOT racist

Hi Sir , The following is not permitted on the site:

Insulting Others
Targeting other members for attacks
Harassing other members, groups of members, class of members, etc
Disrespecting other members on the site
General rudeness toward other members on the site



Please follow the guidelines and be civil . Thank you for your cooperation Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
Lolita22's Avatar
Exactly beloved💞💞
Racial preferences can (but aren't always) be racist, and people are allowed to have such racist or non racist preferences. I'm not sure why people act like preferences and racism (or any other forms of bigotry) are mutually exclusive. Nothing about them are. One can choose to not see black people for racist reasons, or for truly non-racist reasons. Both are possible.

It's also not worth trying to figure out why exactly people have the preferences they do. Most people will never admit if their reasons are racist, and they may not even realize it. The average person these days has the critical thinking skills of a goldfish, so what's the point? There are too many fish in the sea. Give people the benefit of the doubt and just move on. Life is too short. Originally Posted by jayjaychrome
Lolita22's Avatar
If a guy is threatening people with his cane It makes total sense for companions to warn each other about it. I said what I said and I don't feel bad about it babes. Sorry not sorry .
"I have nothing against older men who use canes or are disabled" Saying this and then proceeding to out a member showcasing their disability to the whole board is an extraordinary show of classiness. These are the type of providers that will leak your personal info in a heartbeat. Yikes. Originally Posted by scuffedpc123
Lolita22's Avatar
See I really don't understand why some of these rejects think I should just sit there and let them bully me without me speaking up for myself. I'll say it again. My mother raised wh*re but she didn't raise a "wuss"....No one can make me feel bad for standing up for myself and others. You don't like it oh well..as you can see, a couple of my regulars are in this very thread supporting and encouraging me as well
Lolita22's Avatar
And I sure hope he was given warnings and points for breaking the rules. You know he's been breaking the rules for years now and harassing me due to rejection without me once responding until now. Other members are saying that he was praising a damn swastika so what the hell is really going on? Dude is a bully and he should be held accountable because he's not new here like the rest of us. He knows better

Hi Sir , The following is not permitted on the site:

Insulting Others
Targeting other members for attacks
Harassing other members, groups of members, class of members, etc
Disrespecting other members on the site
General rudeness toward other members on the site



Please follow the guidelines and be civil . Thank you for your cooperation[/QUOTE]