Preferences are not racism
But entitlement is those that can't accept others preferences
Do what you must. I don’t really care��♂️ I’ve had good sessions with my regular providers and if anything changes, I’ll be fine ��♂️. Very funny calling your overt racism “preferences” there’s plenty of proof on various other sites where you’ve gone mask off, and calling me a “cholo” because I’m Hispanic is proof in the pudding itself. Doesn’t matter though. You do you. I’ll do me. Don’t expect any other replies from me I have to get back to work and although humorous in many ways. My input will no longer be needed. Nor will I provide it. Thanks �� Originally Posted by Sextion
Preferences are not racism
But entitlement is those that can't accept others preferences Originally Posted by winn dixie
I would normally not think of commenting as I am only a guest here, but I visit Houston with some regularity and have seen this lady many times. Often enough to be certain she isn’t a maniacal racist that doesn’t care about someone else’s feelings anyway. Regardless of my personal experience, I know she is trying to make her way in life the same as everyone and doesn’t deserve the meanness because no provider does. When men are courteous, prompt, and respectful of boundaries, it is usually met with a pleasing encounter. If it doesn’t move on. Report deceptive or dishonest activity honestly to the members here, but vengeful comments have no place and are best ignored . Had I not been verified for her comfort and safety, I would have tried someone else. That’s one reason regulars are so great. Even out of town. Originally Posted by Knotty1
I've been very busy lately so I haven't been as active here....Prefacing this by saying I was encouraged by several mods to post a rebuttal. Anytime I've posted a rebuttal It's dismissed by members because I'm "well reviewed" and have a "good reputation." I'm just requesting that my side is heard without being dismissed by members on the board. This is is an important thread because I feel that angry rejected guys should be called out for attempting to tarnish a companion's name because of rejection. This is needed. I also want the rejects to know that when you do this, companions are looking at it and see it as obsessive. Trust me, we definitely talk amongst each other. Companions view these types as rapists because they can't accept no.You know what. I am going to give you this one. I was lazy in my word choice as you are simply a garden variety bigot that is prejudice or discriminates. Therefore by definition you are NOT racist
I'm referencing this thread :
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=3031702
3) Dorian
https://eccie.net/member.php?u=117546
"Dorian" lied called me a racist in the same review. Preferences are not racist. Originally Posted by Lolita22
This one is disappointing because unlike the others, he's been around for a while and knows better than to harass companions for not seeing black men. Originally Posted by Lolita22You obviously do not know my work
He texted me early in the morning demanding to know why I don't see black men. Originally Posted by Lolita22:Record Scratch:
Seconds later he posts a huge thread about me being a racist in the current review. Was like 10 pages. Originally Posted by Lolita22Could you please clarify. Is it a thread or a post?
I'm not racist just have preferences that simple. Originally Posted by Lolita22You are prejudice. You are just like the other 70.5% of the human population.
Not all bigots are racist: shrug :
But all racist are bigots
You know what. I am going to give you this one. I was lazy in my word choice as you are simply a garden variety bigot that is prejudice or discriminates. Therefore by definition you are NOT racist
Hi Sir , The following is not permitted on the site:
Insulting Others
Targeting other members for attacks
Harassing other members, groups of members, class of members, etc
Disrespecting other members on the site
General rudeness toward other members on the site
Please follow the guidelines and be civil . Thank you for your cooperation Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
Racial preferences can (but aren't always) be racist, and people are allowed to have such racist or non racist preferences. I'm not sure why people act like preferences and racism (or any other forms of bigotry) are mutually exclusive. Nothing about them are. One can choose to not see black people for racist reasons, or for truly non-racist reasons. Both are possible.
It's also not worth trying to figure out why exactly people have the preferences they do. Most people will never admit if their reasons are racist, and they may not even realize it. The average person these days has the critical thinking skills of a goldfish, so what's the point? There are too many fish in the sea. Give people the benefit of the doubt and just move on. Life is too short. Originally Posted by jayjaychrome
"I have nothing against older men who use canes or are disabled" Saying this and then proceeding to out a member showcasing their disability to the whole board is an extraordinary show of classiness. These are the type of providers that will leak your personal info in a heartbeat. Yikes. Originally Posted by scuffedpc123