Longest hobby lovers??

Okay, I'll 'fess up. Nine years. I only saw one lady (both in and out of the "hobby") for nine years.


And I had to travel an average of 6 - 8 hours in each direction to get to her. Would usually set aside a whole weekend just to cover the travel.


And I'd still be seeing her today if she didn't decide to retire from the hobby.


They don't make them like her anymore. Originally Posted by Anonymous01

I think that is very special!! Believe me they still have some around that are built that way. It is a complete different experience really getting to know each other more than just physically.
Xoxo,
Jessica

I know you're not supposed to, but I tend to get really attached to ladies I've seen for a while. If you click mentally and physically, it's hard not to form a strong bond. You have to remind yourself that there's real life and fantasy life. Originally Posted by cookie man

Nothing wrong with caring for another person that you have built this bond with for years as long as their intentions are good, and they are not there as an exploiter or to manipulate you.
Nothing I hate more than someone that will take advantage of someone’s kindness so that they can take advantage of them physically or financially if that makes sense.
It is best to recognize this behavior early on and conduct your interaction with them accordingly.
Xoxo,
Jessica

I've been seeing this same one for the last 6 months, which is by far my longest. Totally would marry her. However I've got an SO, and she's in this biz, so sort of a bummer. In other life though, maybe. We click like crazy. Like more click than any girl I've ever been with, hobby or no hobby. (she's not in my reviews in case anyone tries to figure out who it is)

I've been seeing this same one for the last 6 months, which is by far my longest. Totally would marry her. However I've got an SO, and she's in this biz, so sort of a bummer. In other life though, maybe. We click like crazy. Like more click than any girl I've ever been with, hobby or no hobby. (she's not in my reviews in case anyone tries to figure out who it is) Originally Posted by silksmooth

It does AMAZE me the connection we can make in the hobby. I have definitely met individuals that I click with and have more in common with in the hobby world than I did as a civilian as I call it..lol! This is why I stay faithful to the hobby for bringing a civilian into my life would just complicate things..lol! 🤷🏼♀️
Someone who has never been in this hobby wouldn’t understand.

It does AMAZE me the connection we can make in the hobby. I have definitely met individuals that I click with and have more in common with in the hobby world than I did as a civilian as I call it..lol! This is why I stay faithful to the hobby for bringing a civilian into my life would just complicate things..lol! ����♀️
Someone who has never been in this hobby wouldn’t understand. Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

It's funny. We're in this like, Jim and Pam sort of tension, where it's like we are highly compatible, get each other, but it's sort of forbidden in a way. Except, unlike Jim and Pam, we're fucking. Funny ol world.