Ok - we're getting away from karma in this hobby. (Any monitors want to chastize us?) Sounds like you have a GREAT relationship with your son - evolved from parent-child as he entered adult life to mentor-friend now. For sci-fi buffs (hope you are one, Wheretonow), I'm reminded of a dialog from the "Eureka" series:
Sheriff Carter: (as he tries to talk Dr. Carolson from committing suicide by jumping off of a bridge), "I get it - you've had a really rotten day, and life sucks! Why don't we climb back over it (the railing) and talk about it, huh? Grab a few BEERS ...... what do you say, huh?
Dr. Carolson: "I never grabbed a beer with anybody in my whole life ..... You think we could be friends?"
Sheriff Carter: "I think that's what the beer is for."
As I look at my relationships with my family members to date, this only works with those that don't have alcholoism.
He really doesn't give "advice", he likes to thoroughly examine whatever subject we're discussing. Since it's usually done over (and after) a few beers, I always find it enjoyable and enlightening.
Originally Posted by Wheretonow