Being obtuse is much like an Ostrich sticking its head in the sand, except, yours is up your ass.
Both are refusing to see, read, or find the actual truth, instead, you create one that only features the narrative you want to fit the world.
I have had the time, unfortunately to have to deal with two never trumper post 60 females, which, is fodder for another post, but, their delusions are as a bad as yours, far worse than what I realized until I really sat down and talked at length to them.
But ulitimately, its a reflection of issues in your own life, that spawn the TDS disease from what I've seen.
Total detachment from reality, and hating what is left of your life, fighting against a demon, which doesn't exist, except in your OWN head.
Fucking sad.
Is it going to take your car, your home, your business, a relatives life?
Before you see what the real problem is?