I know a couple of providers who place no stock in references and screen in different way altogether - ways that work consistently.
Originally Posted by Jon Colden
i don't ask for, or provide references.
nothing personal girls (and ladies), but none of you need to know who is looking to visit with me or who i have visited with. if the gentleman wants to write a public review of our experience or talk about it privately amongst other hobbyists that is his decision to make.
i also have the same concerns about a phone call or email record between myself and other providers that the gentlemen have with someone who runs an agency or service or MP.
that's not to say i won't, or don't screen if something in our initial interactions makes me think it might be a good idea to do so, but the fact that i only schedule via email and charge a "premium" rate goes a long way towards weeding out those who don't fall into the demographic i prefer to cater to.
like jon said...it works for me.
on a side note regarding TCB, it definitely goes both ways. i almost always respond to emails within 10 minutes to 24 hours, even if only to acknowledge that i did see it but wasn't available or to refer someone back to my webpage for the answers to the question(s) they have asked. i say "almost" because like it has been commented on already, emails that are crude, disrespectful, or suggest to me that the sender doesn't think my policies and procedures apply to him tend to go unanswered.
i realize it may be difficult to schedule with me for some people, which is by design and for my convenience, and that it my even prevent us from being able to visit, but the philosophies i go by are:
- quality not quantity
- just as there are other girls you could be seeing, there are other guys i could be
and
- i won't bend over backwards for you to arrange our visit, but once we are visiting i'll bend over backwards, forwards, and side-to-side for you