Discrete or Non-discrete... that is the question!

If I see a clear face in an ad, I like it because I can better know if I want to see her. But I would feel differently if I planned on going out with her in public (this would be dumb for a married guy). However, from the woman's perspective, I agree with those who say she should hide or blur her face, for the reasons stated in this thread. I do wonder about the providers that absolutely reveal their face in their ads--don't they think they should hide their hobby activities from their families, friends, employers, or people looking at these photos in the future?

Good photos can (if the woman is willing to do this) hide or blur much of the face while still showing enough (sharp or blurred) of facial structure to reveal how beautiful the woman might be. I've certainly on occasion become highly attracted to a picture that has blurred or partially hidden facial features. Originally Posted by Skipp

And 90 percent of the men I see are married and take me in public. I have very little reviews of only a bcd account. Luckily, my little brother will never see my face on the net...nor will my children or grandchildren.

To each one their own but I would hardly look down someone who shows their face or people who choose to see those girls. Some of us can afford not to live in fear about something we choose to do. Everyone has different reason on how do they business and who they see but just because a woman's face is visible doesn't mean she is always of lesser quality or naive.

People has to do what suit them and makes them happy as well. 99.9% of my encounters currently involve me going to public places with my clients I go to sporting events and numerous public places without worry. True, most of my clients are widowed or divorced so they can enjoy the luxury of seeing a girl who advertises so visibly without having the to worry about the misses creeping around the corner. And they guys that are married are more happy to stay indoors with me. Like I said you do what works well for your situation but showing my face does not inhibit my future or my potential clientele.

Ok hon...when you try and become a Doctor or Lawyer..anything for that matter and your interviewer has your photos, let us know how that goes. A guy friend of mine was just in this position with NO evidence he was ever a client, but a simple google search that led them to a blacklist site. No photo...he did not get the job and it was not some lame 50k a year one either.

You are certainly free to do what you want to do, but acting as if this cannot affect you is ludicrous and very telling. It may "not" but that does not mean it CAN'T! I can show you some google stats on hookers who were found out. It makes no difference if someone knows your real name if they can't CONNECT your identity to a hooker...I would say a face very well can do that. Court is a biaatch to deny the allegations as well whether it be LE or a Custody battle.

No you are not of lessor quality for showing your face...who said that? A guy knows upfront who he will or will not see based on how discreet they are...they can't really blame the woman if they make their own mistakes.

Don't know you, where you live, or the kind of men you see, but I can say without a doubt that the men who take me out in public would never do so if I had my face on the net. They have far too much to lose over some hooker...even a hooker with a brain at that.

First off, the men who were photographed with hookers were done so with hookers who didn't show their face. Now how has that helped them? Any high-powered gent, especially those with the media on their asses will be photographed with the maid if it looks like he's walking the same direction she is.

In my experience, most married men don't do dinner dates or clock-free dates in the same state, let alone the same city, they live in. Depending on the companion he chooses, the only suspicions he would raise would be the other patrons of the restaurant or other venue. Like I said, not showing your face doesn't save a client from being outed.

As far as work and career, I have had no problems yet. Knock on wood. My family already knows. I'm definitely going UTR next year, but that would be to protect my own business.

To each her own. Live and let live, and all that good stuff.

Tiffany, no the men I speak of were not with hookers who hid their face...waiter, hotel clerk, etc. People talk, but I won't elaborate any further because people want to remain oblivious. That's fine. I know it will never happen to me nor will my child or family ever see me in all my glory. I respect them far too much to put them through yet another issue.


Business men have dinner with business associates...a photograph would prove nothing if you can't connect that "associate" back to being a hooker. She may very well look like a total whore by the way she dresses and acts, but no one can PROVE she's a hooker. I don't even wear the same outfits I have on out with clients...too obvious if someone has seen my website.


You know I love and respect you, but it might be because you are NOT naive. You very well know something "could" happen one day, and you admit that. I am sure there are many jobs that don't much care if we do this on the side...none that I would ever be in, but many. And, no you don't look anything like the typical hooker lol.

London... Not trying to sound cynical but how many hookers do you really think are going to become doctors and lawyers?
I'm not missing your point at all - I'm just sayin'.

I will pm you on this after lol, because I already know what you're thinking ha ha, and agree.

Quite a few women that I know already are into their professions if not in the process of preparing. I spent 7 years in school to actually accomplish something after hooker life is over. Just about EVERY woman I have met personally in this business is in fact a professional in real life. I don't know any docs but do know sevral nurses, teachers, social workers, business owners, etc. I don't hang around with dumb azzes lol! Sure, these women might drink if up on the weekends and talk like they didn't pass 3rd grade, but they do have degrees and professional jobs...go figure.

In fact, there was a nurse in Baton Rouge who showed her face back in 08. Remember that Craigs List scandal on MSNBC I think it was? Yea, she was a feature and fired the very next week. All that time and money for nothing. She too would not be the girl you picked out of a bar assuming she was the hooker. Very homely looking and conservative. I won't even mention her handle, but I am sure guys in La. know exactly who I am talking about. She is not the only one, but many are kicked out of Universities without it being made public. If you only knew how many hookers were at Tulane, LSU, or Loyola bwahahaha!

It's not different than some potential employer looking up a name on facebook and the girl has on their a picture of her flashing her tits and proudly annoucing that she loves fucking everything in sight.. they didn't hire her. In todays society they are using any ecuse to get rid of someone .. you better be creme of the crop if you wanna a good paying job.

I see hookers all the time. I look for them now. To be honest about 80% of the women I see when I go out now I ask myself "hmm... i wonder if she's secretly an online hooker." LOL. When I'm out on public I try and see if I'll catch any of the ladies on the town so I can say to myself "hey, that's Cadence of Calgary!" Yes, in the past I was driving down the street and saw a girl I always see post on bp and asked her, 'aren't you LaLa?" Low and behold, it was! I do not want that to happen to me!!!!


Im not sure if the wording of my post connotated that IF a woman chose to reveal her face then she is of a lesser quality then a woman who chooses to remain discreet. That was not the implications of this post. I was more so interested in the reasons as to WHY you favor that over discretion. I can understand being able to be less restricted and less cautious if your family knows. I know I'd be willing to show my face if I travel and the context the photo is used in is not too explicit for me to offer a simple explanation of. I'm even cautious of what I post on facebook on twitter. That stuff can come back to haunt you.

For me, it would mortify me to be at a job interview, and my potential boss pulls out a print out of my website with my face, reviews and rates attached. I can't lie my way out of that! My aspirations supersede the industry that we currently work in and while of course there's still the risk of being "outed" I'd rather make it harder on whoever wants to out me!

Also, i previously indicated that if a woman shows her face, she's less likely to be discerning with sharing others informations. That was a biased opinion, not fact. I know a few real class acts that would not divulge personal information. I personally feel those are the exception to the rule though. As London sad discretion goes beyond sharing information, it's about the attention you attract and how readily identifiable you are. Half of the people here dont even recognize me when I meet them because I do not look like a hooker.

I will pm you on this after lol, because I already know what you're thinking ha ha, and agree.

Quite a few women that I know already are into their professions if not in the process of preparing. I spent 7 years in school to actually accomplish something after hooker life is over. Just about EVERY woman I have met personally in this business is in fact a professional in real life. I don't know any docs but do know sevral nurses, teachers, social workers, business owners, etc. I don't hang around with dumb azzes lol! Sure, these women might drink if up on the weekends and talk like they didn't pass 3rd grade, but they do have degrees and professional jobs...go figure.

In fact, there was a nurse in Baton Rouge who showed her face back in 08. Remember that Craigs List scandal on MSNBC I think it was? Yea, she was a feature and fired the very next week. All that time and money for nothing. She too would not be the girl you picked out of a bar assuming she was the hooker. Very homely looking and conservative. I won't even mention her handle, but I am sure guys in La. know exactly who I am talking about. She is not the only one, but many are kicked out of Universities without it being made public. If you only knew how many hookers were at Tulane, LSU, or Loyola bwahahaha! Originally Posted by London Rayne

VERY well said!!!

Tiffany, no the men I speak of were not with hookers who hid their face...waiter, hotel clerk, etc. People talk, but I won't elaborate any further because people want to remain oblivious. That's fine. I know it will never happen to me nor will my child or family ever see me in all my glory. I respect them far too much to put them through yet another issue.


Business men have dinner with business associates...a photograph would prove nothing if you can't connect that "associate" back to being a hooker. She may very well look like a total whore by the way she dresses and acts, but no one can PROVE she's a hooker. I don't even wear the same outfits I have on out with clients...too obvious if someone has seen my website.


You know I love and respect you, but it might be because you are NOT naive. You very well know something "could" happen one day, and you admit that. I am sure there are many jobs that don't much care if we do this on the side...none that I would ever be in, but many. And, no you don't look anything like the typical hooker lol. Originally Posted by London Rayne

You know I love you too babycakes, and you're so right. Frankly, the position I had at the company I'm with was entry-level, and I felt that if they found out, they could do what they wanted to with the information. Now I have a management position with the same fairly large company and a legitimate business of my own. I've never been arrested, and have the cleanest background. I feel safer doing social media in this world because I don't do it in my real life.

I'm going to pull my pictures anyway next year. Because I'm well aware of the practices of my company, it has played a part in my decision to continue to show my face. And even still, if I were ever fired for this, I would continue with my plan to pull my pics, go UTR and continue to operate my own business.

When I go out with my clients, I wear business professional clothing, I'm wearing my specs, I have great manners, am very cultured, and always act professional as opposed to romantic. Well, not counting the footsie and loose fingers under the table. I can be first and foremost tied to my business life faster than this one. I have yet to meet a married man that would approve of a lady wearing a skimpy outfit if he's taking her out. Even then, the lady has to think for him. Now my single guys love the attention, and we have the option of being a bit more cavalier.

This is one of the reasons I rarely advertise my trips, so I don't worry about them trolling for pictures of me on BP and Eros. And the times I have I've been lucky to not have any issues. This is the reason I advocate mailing lists. While I don't hide my face, I still consider myself to be very discreet.

I'm glad to have the problem. Some women will never have to worry about public outings, discretion and nothing else.

LOL @Entyce

Entyce: I see Hookers.
Psych: On the internet?
[Entyce shakes her head no]
Psych: While you're in public?
[Entyce nods]
Psych: Hookers, like, on Backpage? On Eros?
Entyce: Walking around like regular people. They don't see each other. They only see what they want to see. They don't know they don't blend in with normal people.
Psych: How often do you see them?
Entyce: All the time. They're everywhere.

You know I love you too babycakes....
When I go out with my clients, I wear business professional clothing, I'm wearing my specs, I have great manners, am very cultured, and always act professional as opposed to romantic. Well, not counting the footsie and loose fingers under the table. ....While I don't hide my face, I still consider myself to be very discreet.

I'm glad to have the problem. Some women will never have to worry about public outings, discretion and nothing else.

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

TJ, it'll just be our little secret.....good to know we can go to lunch and nobody will notice!!

LOL @Entyce

Entyce: I see Hookers.
Psych: On the internet?
[Entyce shakes her head no]
Psych: While you're in public?
[Entyce nods]
Psych: Hookers, like, on Backpage? On Eros?
Entyce: Walking around like regular people. They don't see each other. They only see what they want to see. They don't know they don't blend in with normal people.
Psych: How often do you see them?
Entyce: All the time. They're everywhere.

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

TJ where do you come up with this stuff !

Oh and my comment about people assuming visible face pics equating to lesser quality was directed at anyone present on the this thread. It was just a comment I picked up on ECCIE a while ago and I guess it rubbed me the wrong way. I get a little defensive when I think people assume things like that when it involves how my business is down. But I should stop assuming other people are making assumptions lol

TJ, it'll just be our little secret.....good to know we can go to lunch and nobody will notice!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Very true. We could just be two hot business associates. We could use our lunch hour as an opportunity to lay out our plans to have as many orgasms as possible... I anticipate a very fruitful meeting.

TJ where do you come up with this stuff ! Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

That's a direct quote from the Sixth Sense, but with my own little spin. Entyce said, "I see hookers everywhere!" and mentally I instantly put her in front of Bruce Willis.