The Number One Reason Not To See A Provider

Allie,

I believe that many gentlemen would want an option in the poll along the lines of "screening / verification was / is too intrusive" or "Escort / provider requires too much personal info".

Just a thought,

Kisses,

- Jackie Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

Jackie,

I have backed off of making a date with someone who does not screen. As far as personal info, if I were a newby I would understand having to give it up & early on I did a time or two but after one get's estabalished screening is usually easy at least from my end although I do understand it can be tedious for you but necessary of course. You're right, I'm sure there are guys who don't want to be screened but I don't know why they wouldn't for their own safety.

Malwoody,

You know, I had a reply all typed out, but, I had a moment of clarity and figured "Meh, it isn't worth it" (specifically, it was addressing those gentlemen that are outspoken against any form of screening). And, it really isn't worth it . . . so screw it, let them be low hanging fruit to be picked off (as Juan would have said).

I do appreciate that you have backed off making a date with a lady that doesn't screen, and I would hope many gentlemen would follow your fine example.

Stay safe!

Best,

- Jackie

Love the poll Allie; good for you in your effort to try and help the other ladies.

Tough to pick 1 reason; for me, top-3, in order presented: 1) no MSOG; 2) ala carte menu; 3) no incall available/quality of incall location.

I just can't believe I missed so many other things. I'm glad that you gents have spoken up about about what you dislike, hopefully this thread is educational in some form for us providers.

When you do it right Allie, it isn't always easy to think about all the ways others may do it wrong!



Kisses,

- Jackie

MSOG isn't a big deal for me, unless they only do hour sessions--in which case, it is.

Hygiene is a big deal though. I always make sure I'm clean and well groomed for a date. One would figure she has enough time in her day to take a shower before an incall or before going to an outcall.

Cigarette smoke is another one. It is cool with me if you want to eff up your health by smoking cigarettes--not my problem. But, if her breath smells like she smokes or her room does that's not cool at all in my book. Get an OraBrush and start smoking outside instead of in your room.

Talking about other clients is kind of a buzz kill unless I bring it up first. Sure, I understand the game and know I'm not the only guy on the planet wanting to put money in your pocket. But, part of the game is making me think that I'm the only guy on the planet wanting to put money in your pocket. Telling me you have 3 more quickies lined up after I leave, or that you haven't had a break all day makes a guy feel like he's one in a million--for the day.

Sob stories. Everyone has one and I'm paying you to not hear yours. Sure, I know, your kid needs braces and your ex didn't pay child support for the last 3 months. Your car broke down for the 50th time this week. Your gas got shut off and it is winter and you're trying to pay to get it turned back on. All that bullshit isn't going to make me feel badly for you or pay one penny more. I have my own sob story and because it is mine it is more important to me than yours. My sob story is that I wanted to hook up with a hot chick and I've been fantasizing about her all day. I called her up, started to hang out and get intimate and next thing you know she's talking about how sucky her life is. There goes the mood. But, because, I have no soul, I'm going to ignore what you're saying anyway because I'm a self-centered prick unless I'm eating pussy (then, its all about you).

Not taking care of yourself. Maybe I've been pretty spoiled in the past but, I like a woman who takes care of herself. I'm not saying she's got to be perfect, just that she has a gym membership she uses at least a couple times a week. She takes a day off each week (at least) and does stuff for herself and no one else--spa day, mani-pedi, hair styled, girls night out. Chicks who don't take care of number one end up looking like crap and treating their clients like crap too.

Migrating deadline. I know shit happens, but if you tell me that you can see me at noon and then at 11 you say it has to be 2pm. And then later you say it has to be even later or "how about tomorrow?" And tomorrow never really seems to get here. Fuck you, I've got better things to do with my time. A girl did something similar to me over the past month. Was always something coming up and kept moving the deadline out. So, I asked her flat out, "hey, if this is going to be another one of those, 'Sorry, I can't fit you in today' days, then I'd rather know now because I've got shit to do and want to spend some time with someone... could be you, or one of your competitors."

Bunions

Crusty heels Originally Posted by catnipdipper

Amen brother.

I will see about any girl any size any race with a good attitude and a smile, clean, decent incall location and attempts to deliver what is advertised and is not distracted buy TV, Phone etc..


Give me A gorgeous gal with a bad attitude she becomes ugly real fast ,
if the location is a dump..her hygiene is probably not so good either..I guess the attitude at first contact is the key...Thankfully we have some
gals in KC with great attitudes,great self esteem and treat what thay do as a service and provide it with pride.

It appears that No BBBJ is in the lead.

Knowing that certain undesireable people have been there before me............................ .....COG for example.

There are others but he will end up #2 next to no bbbj I bet.

Nice Poll Allie (thats what she said...lol) and realizing its all in fun...is anyof this gonna make a difference? just asking?
will it be shared with providers in the powder room who maybe dont see it...i dunno
I hope....

Im am suprised that bbbj is leading...I would think there is nothing more frustrating (as I have experienced) to have someone show up and not what was ordered!!
IMO

Im am suprised that bbbj is leading...I would think there is nothing more frustrating (as I have experienced) to have someone show up and not what was ordered!! Originally Posted by bigdeal

I also am surprised that other more egregious (to me) sins are not higher on the list. Honestly, I wonder how many responses were biased by the fact that a year ago Allie was a CBJ-only girl. Maybe some of the guys haven't read a recent review? Or maybe they are simply supporting her decision to open up her menu.

I'm actually more YMMV in that area. But I have to assure you that since I started caving on the bbbj thing, only a handful have gotten cbj since due to other deciding factors.
What I'm surprised about is that there is such a low voting on NC/NS and dirty incall. I would think that you gents are tired of being stood up or tardiness on the providers end since we have heard so many complaints about it. Also a dirty incall is indicative of the providers hygiene in my opinion. If I do an outcall to a dirty house/apartment, I'm not going to be happy about it.

I think that for a lot of guys, the NC/NS thing is not as big of a deal as for some others. For these guys, a NC/NS just means they move on to someone else -- rather than losing some valuable free time (and maybe wasting a blue pill). Also, many guys probably think that NC/NS won't happen to them.

As far as the dirty incall... well some guys are slobs anyway and just don't care. Other guys may consider a no-tell motel to be kind of a turn on, doing something nasty in a cheap room.

Fat & ugly is the number 1 reason!