1 question for hobbiest and 2 for the ladies

black5uperman's Avatar
hmmm.. want honesty? ok...
as i see it and in my experiences as of late...

I am all for getting a cancellation fee, but most hobbyists cant even pay for a regular session and look for "rebates and or specials" so to add yet another fee is not feasible.Then to some of those hobbyists that pull up and want you to open the door as they are in the car then just drive off... what do you about that? lol.. and yes there are MANY that do this.
Or having someone cancel on you 5 minutes before the session because of "family matters" then never call again?
I have had some hobbyists i did not "click" with but ended well. I dont think I have ever not liked someone to just not do my thang. lol.


licks and kisses Originally Posted by mslovebjs68

Thank for being honest. I understand where your coming from. But i don't know what hibbiest your talking about. Either I have the money to play or I dont. I have never asked a lady for a discount or a special rate for myself. Wait I take that back i have when ladies message me i have never contacted and I don't have a ISO up they they message me saying they heard about me (whatever that means) and wanted to see me. So back to before I just asking if ladies offered a meet and greet / cancellation fee i would see some I'm on the fence with just cause there pictures hide a lot. Anyway its just my opinion and its just up to you ladies anyway. Sorry you have that look has that been eccie guys or people from your other sites?
I agree that socials are very helpful, unfortunatly I am always away on business when they are held. I think it would be nice to hold a Friday or Saturday social once in a while. There are a lot of people who are not in town or are otherwise unable to attend on a week night.
black5uperman... here on eccie. they know who they are... I wasnt trying to out any one, just giving my opinion on what i have experienced.

as far as the meet and greet... I would offer it as long as I am not going out of my way too much. But I think that would have to be a question that would be addressed at the initial contact with a provider. Never hurts to ask.
black5uperman's Avatar
Well what you experienced is ground for some outing I hope you recorded in whenever you ladies can that isn't very gentlemen like.

I have had things come up at the last minute that made me cancel. I have always called and confirm that i needed to cancel or reschedule and normally hours if not days before session. Just like i have been canceled on. I'm people need to be more understandibg of peoples time. You have lots of pictures of yourself and your not one i would need to have a meet and greet with before i can see all the info needed to schedule a appointment. Only way that would change and thats if the pics where outdated.
anaximander's Avatar
I partly thought the guys were kidding
or overstating their experiences for jollies
........until.

Yeah the having to argue your way
out of the room to having them start
crying when you don't like their looks.

What about the seafood restaurant dumpster
smell? Christ, you don't find out about
that until the panties come off.
Too late for a refund?
Or am I paying her to put her clothes
back on?

Doesn't smell like teen spirit