Ladies & Gents: What would you be more upset with?

It's total spin. No doubt. I waited over 13 years after my SO was disabled in an auto accident (two weeks before 2nd anniversary in 1998) before I broke down and did it. I gave in. Spinning is all I've got right now.

It's total spin. No doubt. I waited over 13 years after my SO was disabled in an auto accident (two weeks before 2nd anniversary in 1998) before I broke down and did it. I gave in. Spinning is all I've got right now. Originally Posted by tonytiger4u

TT my post was not direct towards you. I'm very sorry to hear that.

If your wife gives you permission to cheat, then there are already issues. At least this would not be a traditional relationship we all know as marriage. Originally Posted by Still Looking

Not unless you had a wife or SO that understood that you were going to do what you wanted to anyway, but only asked for the respect not to know if she didn't snoop. Some of you just can't help yourselves. Others, some of your SO's would consider themselves lucky if infidelity was the only issue she had with you.

At this point in my life, I understand that some men don't think well. So I'm willing to teach a man how to cheat. If I find out, then I take it as a sign that he doesn't want to be in the relationship.

There are good reasons for some married people to be in this hobby. All I am saying is that because that is the way guys are wired is not one of them. TT4U sounds like one of those horrible situations. I have to wonder if his wife was perfectly healthy, would he be in the hobby. I suspect not.

Not unless you had a wife or SO that understood that you were going to do what you wanted to anyway, but only asked for the respect not to know if she didn't snoop. Some of you just can't help yourselves. Others, some of your SO's would consider themselves lucky if infidelity was the only issue she had with you.

At this point in my life, I understand that some men don't think well. So I'm willing to teach a man how to cheat. If I find out, then I take it as a sign that he doesn't want to be in the relationship. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

TJ you realize women cheat on their husbands as well, right? I've run into two providers that were married and their husbands had no idea they were hobbying. They hobbyed for fun and the cash was spent on themselves. In both cases the guys did not make much money but they always had time to go to strip clubs and bars with "The Guys!" Exit stage right for SL! I don't want to be around when the husband finds out! DAMN!

Now about the teaching…… I think I might want to get some lessons on a few things from you! Sigh….

You are Hot Tiffani and was wondering if it's ok for me to ask the other guys about you? don't want you to think I am stalking you...

You are Hot Tiffani and was wondering if it's ok for me to ask the other guys about you? don't want you to think I am stalking you... Originally Posted by hobby hound

Hound, you cutting in on my action? LOL

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I will say that not all examples fall in the Animal Kingdom. Birds, fish and insects are also represented in this list. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles I said don't know of to many, 11 is not that many.One being the wolf!!!
Take the Wolf down to the Wolf pub buy him some drinks , bring some on heat bitches out and see if he wants to run back to his pack.

Charles I said don't know of to many, 11 is not that many.One being the wolf!!!
Take the Wolf down to the Wolf pub buy him some drinks , bring some on heat bitches out and see if he wants to run back to his pack. Originally Posted by Exhibitbob

LOL.

You are Hot Tiffani and was wondering if it's ok for me to ask the other guys about you? don't want you to think I am stalking you... Originally Posted by hobby hound

Hmmm...someone got banned. I wonder why. *sigh*

Anyways, I must say I agree with SL on this one.

Hmmm...someone got banned. I wonder why. *sigh*

Anyways, I must say I agree with SL on this one. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

You know the mods... "Some times they feel like a nut, some times they don't!" LOL

It's total spin. No doubt. I waited over 13 years after my SO was disabled in an auto accident (two weeks before 2nd anniversary in 1998) before I broke down and did it. I gave in. Spinning is all I've got right now. Originally Posted by tonytiger4u

Very understandable/

And I have seen a few clients whose wives were disabled or very ill. Those women even expressed to their husbands straightforwardly that since they were unable to have sex that the men should find it elsewhere. And even if the wife didn't outright say so, I think there's an underlying understanding that he will find it somewhere else.

Very understandable/

And I have seen a few clients whose wives were disabled or very ill. Those women even expressed to their husbands straightforwardly that since they were unable to have sex that the men should find it elsewhere. And even if the wife didn't outright say so, I think there's an underlying understanding that he will find it somewhere else. Originally Posted by alluringava

A man has to do, what a man has to do!

I find the double standard and moralizing
in some of the replies to be very interesting,
and a bit perplexing. Most people have more
in common than not. Interesting that you might
get the same answers at a church meeting or
a brothel.

Some of the same people go to both places!