Frustrations with the hobby!!!

Greek stick to what you think, fuck the rest of em.

Yesterday I had some time and decided to see a provider. It was a last minute decision and knew I would have to wait a little while. So, I started contacting a few that I know at 1:30 pm. I sent some texts to providers I have seen before and that I know use text to communicate. Got only one response that one was not available. Then, I sent PM's on here. Then, I called a few others. One responded and before we could finalize, just stopped calling or texting. By 5:30, I had not located anyone despite a whole bunch of attempts. I would think this time of the year, providers would need the money. I'm not irritated at any one provider just frustrated because I spent all that time trying to find someone and after 4 hours, I had to just go home!

I did finally get a call back from an UTR provider that is decent in a pinch, but it was very rushed (my fault) and after she told me she raised her rate and wanted more $ (her fault).

Anyway, frustrating hobby day! Originally Posted by Greek73

Hey Greek. Hang tough, my friend. You had a frustrating hobby day as you said and came here to vent. Glad you did. This SHOULD be a place where every situation and emotion that is hobby-related can be discussed openly among adults.

Unfortunately, as you have discovered, not all who venture forth herein were taught the basics of graciousness and decent living. Dirty Dog is right, you can't worry about them.

It's funny how different people can read a post and see different things and different moods. I didn't read your post as a complaint. I saw it as a vent. You have that right and my support to do it every time.

Many, many hobbyists find spontaneous hook-ups on this board. (See Dallas forum and post an ISO in case you wonder...). It's not wrong to expect or to ask.

Regarding the rude behavior you've experienced, well, you're probably right. Those aren't the providers for you. Many gentlemen and ladies use this board to observe behaviors. Rudeness usually costs ladies the opportunity to see wonderful clients and clients the opportunities to see some wonderful ladies.

There's always room for decency and civility.

Hang in there.

All the best.

JDN

Not trying to be wishy-washy but I can see both sides of the issue here.

As stated above, Greek was just venting. Who else is he going to gripe to about this problem? His wife, neighbor, co-workers? Of course not. Even if it's not Christmas time, all guys have this problem sooner or later of not getting responses to querys. It does get tiresome. Maybe all the pain in the ass guys wanting to give up some of their hard earned money should just vanish permanently. Then, ladies would never have to deal with it, right?

On the other hand...

No lady here wants to feel that she should be up and ready everytime a guy gets the itch. The implication that they should be immediately responsive because they "need the money" also could be considered condescending. No, the ladies aren't sex machines readily available 24/7 365 days a year. They are, in most cases, independent contractors and will work as they please.

Now is this wishy-washy enough for everyone?

EEGADS man! This mindset that "we" as providers, are in this for the money is complete bullshit. Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

I've reread this 20 times and still can't believe it.

So this is just an easier way to meet people than say being a greeter at Wal-Mart or something?

I am astounded at your ignorant sentence regarding that we should just jump to someone's last minute needs because we need the money... For a provider to enjoy herself, give quality time to a gentleman it's NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY... You even admitted you waited until the last minute, did it not occur to you that perhaps you're an ass and no one wanted to take time out of their busy personal lives to see you?

EEGADS man! This mindset that "we" as providers, are in this for the money is complete bullshit. Yes, the money is good - however some of us really do love what we do and are not a fucking Domino's pizza that will be ready when you want it. THAT is what backpage is for...... or agencies....

Jazz Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

I agree with her 100% it isn't always about the money. I can't tell you how many times I have got a text special about freebies.

HAHAHAHAHAHA this thread makes me chuckle.

Lets get serious for a minute, I'm speaking as an escort here....I love sex and I love money, so I'm an escort for those two reasons. Any chick who says that not all ladies are in this for the money is lyin through their teeth. If it wasn't about the money, then you all would be gettin laid for free by us. So, how many of you are gettin laid for free by us?

As for the OP, hang in there....see if you can get pre-verified by a couple ladies so that you may be able to see them in the future. If your schedule isn't flexible and usually short notice, let the ladies know that and ask them if they have a set schedule or any type of schedule that you can by.

<<<< NOT ME.....
but I would be more then happy to give all the providers my number for the 'freebie' specials.

< I have this strange feeling I better not hold my breath >

No lady here wants to feel that she should be up and ready everytime a guy gets the itch. The implication that they should be immediately responsive because they "need the money" also could be considered condescending. No, the ladies aren't sex machines readily available 24/7 365 days a year. They are, in most cases, independent contractors and will work as they please.

Now is this wishy-washy enough for everyone? Originally Posted by jan-w

So...should only work when I "need the money"? Wonder how a boss would feel about that. Wait, I am a boss. I know exactly how I'd feel. If I'm not working...i'm not making any money. Same for the guys who work for me.

This is all bullshit. The OP didn't call anybody out. Just venting his frustration with not being able to find what he was looking for. Kinda like being hungry on Christmas Day, but everything except Quik Trip is closed. Frustrating...but not critical of Burger King.

And Spanish Jewel...you have more in common with a Dominoes Pizza that you may think.

<<<< NOT ME.....
but I would be more then happy to give all the provider my number for the 'freebie' specials.

< I have this strange feeling I better not hold my breath > Originally Posted by ElumEno

+1 - I am always available for those freebies...

+1 - I am always available for those freebies... Originally Posted by fritz3552

Sorry, but I have a feeling your not my type!

I have also felt your frustration - Greek73

I tried for 6 hours last night calling a dozen different providers ( I know it was a friday night but damn ) . I started calling around at 4 p.m. with little to no luck. ( I hate calling to many at one time so I am not getting alot of call backs so I usually wait 15-30 min. between calls to allow them time to call back, if nothing I try another). It takes me an hour to get to wichita so I got around and started driving all the while still calling different providers, out of 12 I only got a reply from 2 - The first one answered but said she couldn't talk ( was the one I really wanted to see) and to call back in ten minutes to finalize the details, but she never answered the phone again, it would just go to voice mail. The second one was busy with family obligation but said if she got free she would text me, which never happend ( which was fine I understand that, but she didn't have to get my hopes up either ). So by now its 10 o-clock I'm in wichita with nothing to do with money for love just burning a hole in my pocket, I ended up giving to the state of kansas at the new casino ( where I did get a good screwing out of my money, for little action ).

Before Silly Girl chimes in with her providers have lives, how hard would it be to admend you ad to indicate availabliliy, it would cut down on calls when your not available and it would allow the hobbyist to move on, all these providers who chimed in with a "right on sister comment" I see your ads dont say he I am not available during this time frame. Oh and Silly Girl, your twilight white vampire tweaker skin and boney ass are a perfect fit for your charming disposition.

Sometimes this hobby like many others requires planning, scheduling, and patience. I have had no less than four gals I have been trying to see for six months and cant get our schedules to mesh up. Last minute you may have to go to BP,lol

HAHAHAHAHAHA this thread makes me chuckle.

Lets get serious for a minute, I'm speaking as an escort here....I love sex and I love money, so I'm an escort for those two reasons. Any chick who says that not all ladies are in this for the money is lyin through their teeth. If it wasn't about the money, then you all would be gettin laid for free by us. So, how many of you are gettin laid for free by us?

As for the OP, hang in there....see if you can get pre-verified by a couple ladies so that you may be able to see them in the future. If your schedule isn't flexible and usually short notice, let the ladies know that and ask them if they have a set schedule or any type of schedule that you can by. Originally Posted by MsElena

I think what SJ meant ( and she can correct me if I'm wrong ) is money is not the only thing involved. As you said Elena, you are in it for 2 reasons and I know you enjoy your job or you wouldn't be doing it.

SJ really enjoys what she does and it was for money only, she would be doing something else. Like you she is an intellegent lady and has other options.

Now, I can't say that it isn't about the money for all providers. Some are so high volume that they want to make as much as they can. Some will do anything to con a guy for all he's worth.

I guess I can even use myself as an example, as jobs not being all about the money. 15 years ago, I made over twice the salary I do now. But due to personal considerations I walked away from it, the money wasn't worth it.

And I get freebies from you all the time sweatheart, granted they're just wet dreams from my slumber and thoughts of you, but I'll take what I can get.

So...should only work when I "need the money"? Wonder how a boss would feel about that. Wait, I am a boss. I know exactly how I'd feel. If I'm not working...i'm not making any money. Same for the guys who work for me. Originally Posted by swarmyone

Well, let's see. How many of these ladies work for you? How much do you think they care what you think about your job, workers, philosophy etc. What is the relevance to this thread how many people work for you? Does anybody care? Rants as usual not designed to make any sense.


I believe the ladies can work work whenever they want and see whoever they want. If you have a problem with that, why are you here? Hit the streets and find the ladies who are available at a moment's notice. I don't think you'll be missed here.