Providers who "hate" behind the scenes

She obviously isn't settled and content with her businessshe obviously has worries, and she most likely doesn't have a regular flow of clientele, or she'd be willing to help out her working sisters with references. I haven't gotten an e mail from this person yet. Originally Posted by alluringava

Gosh, the worst providers are the ones that think they are married to their clients. Hello?? I mean get REAL!! Best is to have a trusted circle of providers to recommend them . They will come back. But they won`t stick to you! Hello? The more freedom you give, the more you get. If a client wants to have some possessive jealous woman... i mean, hello? He`d probably not use an escort service?

Gosh, the worst providers are the ones that think they are married to their clients. Hello?? I mean get REAL!! Best is to have a trusted circle of providers to recommend them . They will come back. But they won`t stick to you! Hello? The more freedom you give, the more you get. If a client wants to have some possessive jealous woman... i mean, hello? He`d probably not use an escort service? Originally Posted by ninasastri

Women(not all) have always been backstabbers & haters. Going back to high school, not just this "hobby". Years ago I was shown what other "providers" would say about me in thier groups & on thier ladies boards & it blew my mind. I went out on limbs for, paid for everything, confided in! Smiled right in my face & turned right around and spread vicious, nasty things. Why? 'Cause Im a better whore? Why envy that?! Bitches is crazy!! It was high school all over again.

To this day the only girls Im friends with are a few girls, like me, who never got along with other girls. And gay men, lol.

It sucks too, because I LOVE to eat pussy & fuck other girls! I would love to work w/ another girl in this but I have been so burnt before! Why are girls so mean to other girls MOST of the time!!

Gosh, the worst providers are the ones that think they are married to their clients. Hello?? I mean get REAL!! Best is to have a trusted circle of providers to recommend them . They will come back. But they won`t stick to you! Hello? The more freedom you give, the more you get. If a client wants to have some possessive jealous woman... i mean, hello? He`d probably not use an escort service? Originally Posted by ninasastri

This is so true. Most men in this hobby have a general love for ALL women. And this provides a variety of choices. If they wanted all the drama, I'm pretty sure they'll stay at home with the WIFE!

Actually, I can't. I don't have any REAL friends. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Now, that's no way to live...

No offense, i have no clue who is talked about (as usually..... ) but even if someone is of questionable character, who are we to judge? I don`t think we should be judge , jury and executioner on someone else`s behaviour and therefor i don`t condone outing of anyone.
Granted, i have my own "retarded HDH" i bitch about some times, But i would also never publicly display on who she is. That is despicable and shows that WE are not better in our character, sorry. Originally Posted by ninasastri

I'm with Zarah on this one. If I didn't care about being pointed or banned, I would FULLY ELABORATE. But, I will say that anyone who practices blocking references because of PERSONAL REASONS should definitely be outed. I don't care what personal problems I have with someone. I would NEVER act in this manner. References are put in place as a method of helping us stay safe. Are references the ONLY method? No. Are there ladies out there that don't use reference checks? Yes. BUT, none of that makes it ok to display this type of behavior. Should ladies who operate in this way be outed? I think so. Who are we to judge? We are the people who hold this community together. It is apparent that this is a practice that is certainly worth exposing. None of the gentlemen who have commented would want to associate with a Provider who acts in this way.

Gosh, the worst providers are the ones that think they are married to their clients. Hello?? I mean get REAL!! Best is to have a trusted circle of providers to recommend them . They will come back. But they won`t stick to you! Hello? The more freedom you give, the more you get. If a client wants to have some possessive jealous woman... i mean, hello? He`d probably not use an escort service? Originally Posted by ninasastri

Well said! The only commitment I am concerned about is my commitment to be what my client needs/wants while we're together and his commitment to GIVE ME MY DAMN MONEY!!!!

This is so true. Most men in this hobby have a general love for ALL women. And this provides a variety of choices. If they wanted all the drama, I'm pretty sure they'll stay at home with the WIFE! Originally Posted by MsEboniAmazon

I agree and ummm.. you ass looks lovely in that avatar. Just saying

Bitches is crazy!! Originally Posted by TamsenCrown

This. Again. Bitches IS crazy!

Women(not all) have always been backstabbers & haters. Going back to high school, not just this "hobby". Originally Posted by TamsenCrown

Lets say "weak women". "Weak Men" have been resorting to secrecy and women to backstabbing. Bad tongues say that patriarchal power "invented" the whore/holy virgin dilemma to keep woman busy backstabbing each other so that males can keep their power. I think it`s similar here. I prefer the flan in the face rather than BCD - backstabbing.

Lets say "weak women". "Weak Men" have been resorting to secrecy and women to backstabbing. Bad tongues say that patriarchal power "invented" the whore/holy virgin dilemma to keep woman busy backstabbing each other so that males can keep their power. I think it`s similar here. I prefer the flan in the face rather than BCD - backstabbing. Originally Posted by ninasastri

Yes, Nina! WEAK women. I also prefer "in my face" deception. I can actually RESPECT a woman who brings it in my face instead of using cowardly tactics BCD. But, only a fool forgets that what's done in the dark will ALWAYS come to the light...

It all has to do with insecure about themselves issues as well as those stuck in the "this is my street corner" world.
1. They are usually very insecure girls feel the competition getting too intense. They clearly forget that this is internet, not street corner and the world is very available via internet. They also clearly forget that guys like variety.
2. Some are just attention seeking girls and when they dont have 100% of the attention of the men they go into a panic and start hating as well as what i have seen most recently.. go into pity parties... not only TRYING to bash reputations of those that are doing well... but to get self induced compliments..
3. They obviously lack common sense, because common sense would tell them instead of focusing on the competition, they would focus on their own "business" and fix whatever it is they are insecure about..better themselves rather than put attention on those that are doing great!
4. Perhaps mental issues involved? Bi-polar?


No matter what the excuse- Personally.. i like a woman with class who can simply come to me if they have an issue.. the self inflicted pity parties and victim role and then hating behind the scenes.. is just cowardly.

But... thats obviously not going to happen so i just laugh! Because while insecure haters are trash talking behind the scenes.. the ones that pretend to support such a sad person.. think its pretty old and not a turn on at all ! And I have learned that their biggest supporters are those who support the hater because she is cheap. Its like walmart- Dirty and nasty... cant really stand it.. but its cheap and in this economic state.... cheap is needed.

I say consider the source.. laugh until ur boobs hurt from jiggiling.. and ignore it. The men for the most part are smart.. they research and your reviews and own actions speak for themselves.

But... thats obviously not going to happen so i just laugh! Because while insecure haters are trash talking behind the scenes.. the ones that pretend to support such a sad person.. think its pretty old and not a turn on at all ! And I have learned that their biggest supporters are those who support the hater because she is cheap. Its like walmart- Dirty and nasty... cant really stand it.. but its cheap and in this economic state.... cheap is needed. Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

+1 concerning supporters. But, I MUST disagree with the dirty and nasty comment... I happen to frequent Wal-Mart for basic essentials and a few odds and ends here and there. I've never found it to be dirty or nasty. I'm just saying.

LOL... i can only speak for the ones in Tulsa Okla... when ur walking down the school supply isle and there is a dirty tampon on the floor.. and then witnessing a woman stick her hand down her pants to, i assume, dig out her panties.. and then rummage through the loaves of bread.. im scarred for life with the Okla Walmarts.. LOL

LOL... i can only speak for the ones in Tulsa Okla... when ur walking down the school supply isle and there is a dirty tampon on the floor.. and then witnessing a woman stick her hand down her pants to, i assume, dig out her panties.. and then rummage through the loaves of bread.. im scarred for life with the Okla Walmarts.. LOL Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

#DEAD

LOL... i can only speak for the ones in Tulsa Okla... when ur walking down the school supply isle and there is a dirty tampon on the floor.. and then witnessing a woman stick her hand down her pants to, i assume, dig out her panties.. and then rummage through the loaves of bread.. im scarred for life with the Okla Walmarts.. LOL Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

Watch out for the red velvet cake in the bakery. lol

Sometimes I enjoy being blissfully ignorant. Drama is a deal killer for me.