No References Required

SKF, the question is: how does it benefit the guy... Originally Posted by FootLong

I believe that a lady who screens cares about herself in many ways- including BUT not limited to: her safety, health, LE threats, violent people, stupid or scamming types, NCNS, stalkers, and much more- Therefore, it only MAKES SENSE that if she takes this careful measure to ensure her safety then she MUST take care of herself-and by doing so- the hobbyist is safer because the issues above are less likely to present themselves while said hobbyist is visiting and thus makes him safer. Furthermore, a lady who really values herself and safety is less likely to be a health hazard to a client, if you know what I mean. There are soooo many benefits to seeing a provider who screens as opposed to one who doesnt. The list could just go on forever with all the situations that present themselves- just look at the BP alerts in the alert section- theres your answer.


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I personally don't see any new clients without references, it not only lets me know that he is a legitimate client but it might also let me know what he likes.
Even if the gentleman has a very active online personna I never take it for granted that we will have a great time together.
Doing one's homework on a gentleman prior to spending time BCD with him can prevent an awkward appointment.

And also help assure that he has the time of his life.

FL, we all know that there are different types of hobbyists...but this is what I think are benefits to most hobbyists who choose a provider who screens:

1. Benefit: Sense of relief. Having a level of relief that you've selected someone who takes her/your security and discretion seriously.

2. Benefit: Provider's comfort. Knowing that she is comfortable...since she has taken enough information about *you* for her level of screening. Helps to alleviate the extra tension that may normally be there...when meeting someone who doesn't screen. A comfortable provider...makes a happy client!

3. Benefit: Future Screening. Most providers not only ask for *current,* but also *reputable* provider references. Most of us consider *reputable,* as a provider who has a history of safe screening, good reviews, and longevity. This benefits *you* the hobbyist...when trying to meet some of the more popular and reputable providers...on your *to do* list.

4. Benefit: Expediting the screening process. Your screening information is very valuable. This information can be verified by another provider. When a hobbyist meets a provider who doesn't screen...there isn't any information that she can offer...if she is used as a reference to a provider who screens. The non-screening provider will not be able to remember squat...a month down the line about who she has met...trust me!

5. Benefit: Value. This may be objective...as there are different types of hobbyists; however, typically, providers who take the time to screen, tend to value themselves more, as well as their clients. Providers who have zero screening, tend to be high volume and willing to take unnecessary risks.

I realize screening can be a pain...but, I believe if a provider is worth seeing...then, she's worth the time it takes for her comfort and security.

Thanks to all for the great responses. A lot of good points made here.

FL, we all know that there are different types of hobbyists...but this is what I think are benefits to most hobbyists who choose a provider who screens:

1. Benefit: Sense of relief. Having a level of relief that you've selected someone who takes her/your security and discretion seriously.

2. Benefit: Provider's comfort. Knowing that she is comfortable...since she has taken enough information about *you* for her level of screening. Helps to alleviate the extra tension that may normally be there...when meeting someone who doesn't screen. A comfortable provider...makes a happy client!

3. Benefit: Future Screening. Most providers not only ask for *current,* but also *reputable* provider references. Most of us consider *reputable,* as a provider who has a history of safe screening, good reviews, and longevity. This benefits *you* the hobbyist...when trying to meet some of the more popular and reputable providers...on your *to do* list.

4. Benefit: Expediting the screening process. Your screening information is very valuable. This information can be verified by another provider. When a hobbyist meets a provider who doesn't screen...there isn't any information that she can offer...if she is used as a reference to a provider who screens. The non-screening provider will not be able to remember squat...a month down the line about who she has met...trust me!

5. Benefit: Value. This may be objective...as there are different types of hobbyists; however, typically, providers who take the time to screen, tend to value themselves more, as well as their clients. Providers who have zero screening, tend to be high volume and willing to take unnecessary risks.

I realize screening can be a pain...but, I believe if a provider is worth seeing...then, she's worth the time it takes for her comfort and security. Originally Posted by Likinikki

How do you get screened?

Ha Ha Kitti - You crack me up .... Since I travel a lot, I typically use P411 for any location out of the state. I also, have had a great deal of success using P411. I think I have 20 OK's now. If you are a P411 member no references required.

Ha Ha Kitti - You crack me up .... Since I travel a lot, I typically use P411 for any location out of the state. I also, have had a great deal of success using P411. I think I have 20 OK's now. If you are a P411 member no references required.

Hi Doc_Rob! One thing about this statement...actually, we still do inquire and verify information...with the most current providers who have given a hobbyist an OK.

There have been recent issues of fake Oks given and IDs stolen...so, even though P411 is by far a better way to go...it's misleading to state that it's a *no reference* needed site.

ya if u have ref. then it is alot safer but on the girls part if shes new then its hard i used to be on aspd have more then a couple reviews now im back on the seen and have a review but havent meet up with anyone else yest what would help?