Wow can't believe how many people judge or down BBW WOMEN FOR THERE SIZE AND NOT FOR WHAT THEY ARE IN SIDE! !!!!!!!!!!

Three types of "BBW" come to mind.

a) "Genetically Big & Healthy":

Large frame with plenty of cushion for the pushing but still maintains a Healthy appearance, good muscle tone and a very womanly figure. The female body on a much grander scale. I have dated a few and the sex and BJ's were top notch. Not my personal preference in frame but I certainly see how this is very sexy to a great many.
These sexy BBW's know this about themselves and generally charge as much as any slimmer provider because they can get it.

b) "Lazy Big":

Small to medium frame but due to poor eating habits, health issues or lack of exercise maintains an Unhealthy appearance (Obesity). Typically poor muscle tone lacking in any real womanly shape aside from large breasts which are merely a byproduct of excessive fat.
They know this about themselves and generally charge less than most slimmer providers because they can get it.

c) "Genetically Big & Lazy":

Predictably a large frame with category (B) traits except on a much larger scale resulting in being extremely huge and obese in appearance.
They know this about themselves and generally charge Far less than most slimmer providers because they can get it.


Those providers who fit into category (a) usually have no problem showcasing full body shots because the total picture is still extremely appealing to a great many men.

Those who fit into categories (b) & (c) BBW's typically only provide tits, lips, eyes shots because they want to give the illusion you might be getting a category (a) BBW.
This however misleads many a monger who thinks he's getting a category (a) BBW.

There is a definite but much smaller niche for the (b) and (c) providers but I'm guessing most (b&c) providers don't want to be limited to a much smaller niche.

On occasion you will get a category (b) or (c) provider who for whatever reason perceives herself to be a category (a) and puts it all out there for the world to see while trying to pull off charging the category (a) rates.

These types of "Why isn't the phone ringing", "How does a girl get attention around here" and perceived "BBW attack" threads are the result.
This is just my opinion of course.

Applause to Valaeg, SweetKimberley, GneissGuy, budman33, irishlad, and codybeast for their excellent posts.

And a standing ovation for Sexy Roxanne for her continuing wisdom and wit here and throughout the board.

Thank you Cody for posting that,, I am not sure why others have not stated the obvious. being overweight is not good for long term health,

Anyone who is overweight should be concerned about medical issues coming up later in life..

not using BMI, for the is not an accurate assessment of being overweight..its has me as being over weight.. anyone who knows me knows I am NOT even close to being overweight...

You can be proud and happy of who you are but eating a bad diet over and over is more than a physical condition, you may need some mental help as to why you are not eating properly..

sure I want to eat high fat, high salt, high carbs, high sugar every day but I know better... I fight other vices already dont need more..

Spinner cute
Big is cute
Curvy is cute
BBW is cute
Obese...not so cute

Regardless of where one is on the scale, demeanor, attitude, and personality make cute, fucking hot.

Seriously, I have been with some really good looking women who lacked in demeanor and were not a lot of fun, and have spent some time with bigger girls who could melt me with their voice alone.

Yes men are visual, yes we look at boobs first (or at least I do) but I need a little more than that.

Spinner cute
Big is cute
Curvy is cute
BBW is cute
Obese...not so cute

Regardless of where one is on the scale, demeanor, attitude, and personality make cute, fucking hot.

Seriously, I have been with some really good looking women who lacked in demeanor and were not a lot of fun, and have spent some time with bigger girls who could melt me with their voice alone.

Yes men are visual, yes we look at boobs first (or at least I do) but I need a little more than that. Originally Posted by Phat3lvis

Wonderfully stated.

Lovely thing about the hobby- I've had the opportunity to enjoy ALL types of lasses. Tiny spinners, buxom blonde bombshells (you know who you are!), Hispanic, Spanish ladies, African Americans, Amazonian, 18 and 19 year olds, all the way up to sexy 50+ YO ladies, and yes, even on a whim, BBWs. I've had a smashing time with them all. I can say I've lived the hobby to the fullest.

BBW is not for everyone. But for me, it's just another aspect of my sordid personalitty.

Thanks, all you lovely BBW birds, you!!

The thing is, the men are not here to pay for someone's personality, and good heart. This hobby is based on physical attractiveness Originally Posted by Jamieyoung

With all due respect, I strongly disagree.


The men will pay, and pay more, to a lady that is a 6 with a great personality, a good heart, honest, dependable, knows how to manage her money, etc, etc.....


Physical attractiveness is important & can be achieved with a little make-up, manicure, nice dress, sexy heels. A simple look can make a man melt... a smile, the way you walk, your scent... It takes a lot more than just your natural beauty to make money in this business.


Just my 2 cents.

Physical attractiveness is important & can be achieved with a little make-up, manicure, nice dress, sexy heels. A simple look can make a man melt... a smile, the way you walk, your scent... It takes a lot more than just your natural beauty to make money in this business. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

+1... for me. But it varies. Many guys just want a porn star for an hour. Nothing wrong with that!

The men will pay, and pay more, to a lady that is a 6 with a great personality, a good heart, honest, dependable, knows how to manage her money, etc, etc.....

Physical attractiveness is important & can be achieved with a little make-up, manicure, nice dress, sexy heels. A simple look can make a man melt... a smile, the way you walk, your scent... It takes a lot more than just your natural beauty to make money in this business. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

True.....

But.........

To many guys.....

A BBW can't make the grade of "6"..... and it will not matter how you package and present it... At some point the clothes come off and physical attraction takes over...

I used to have a huge issues with inked girls..... I got really into a gorgeous waitress at a club in houston and things led one night to a BCD encounter.... There wasn't a hint in her outward appearance and when the clothes came off my interest vanished.... wood was lost.....

I eventually got past that....

Personally I think most BBWs set themselves up for eventual failure trying to overcompensate and act like their wweight and appearance doesn't matter to them....

With all due respect, I strongly disagree.


The men will pay, and pay more, to a lady that is a 6 with a great personality, a good heart, honest, dependable, knows how to manage her money, etc, etc.....


Physical attractiveness is important & can be achieved with a little make-up, manicure, nice dress, sexy heels. A simple look can make a man melt... a smile, the way you walk, your scent... It takes a lot more than just your natural beauty to make money in this business.


Just my 2 cents. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Hello beautiful

That sounds wonderful and romantic except for one small detail. The actual numbers have always very clearly shown otherwise.

Agencies hire hotties (Even girls who can't manage money) when they can get them because this is what makes the phone ring off the wall.
If I see an ad that offers honesty and dependability instead of knock out natural beauty I think "What a nice person" and then continue on my fantasy search.

A young 10 with good TCB but only a 6 personality has always gotten far more hits than a mature 6 with a 10 personality ever has. She even gets far more leeway when there she has less than stellar TCB. A hottie with a 10 in both can't even begin to handle the flow of business available to her.

If a monger is looking for a relationship or a long term arrangement then I agree with you that "A great personality, a good heart, honest, dependable, knows how to manage her money, etc, etc....." all apply. In that specific case Match.com here I come.

Mongers who like myself are only interested in 30 to 60 minutes of BCD and the memory that comes with it seek someone who would most likely be far less attainable in real life. I am decent looking but still in my early 50's and neither rich nor famous. That pretty much kills the young hottie pool.

Granted many mongers just want someone without a dick to get them off when their horny so they will compromise on the looks up to a point for availability and lower price. Somehow I seriously doubt they will return willing to pay even more than the initial visit just because of her personality.


If you only want a great ride for one hour or a special evening and you have a choice between driving a brand new Jaguar which is known to repeatedly break down over time or driving a more reliable but less impressive looking Honda which do you go for? No matter how much you detail a Honda it's clearly still just a Honda.

Now a long cross country drive or flat out ownership is a whole different story. In that case I personally prefer the Honda because it's less trouble and more affordable.

When it comes to the hobby I am Only interested in short but memorable drives. I can easily find the rest on any free dating site.

Diabetis, heart problems, respitory problems, and circulation problems are all major side effects of fattyitus

Don't really care to preach or be preached about health issues. How someone treats their own body is their concern.

The original question was how do get more attention and business.

Don't really care to preach or be preached about health issues. How someone treats their own body is their concern. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

True except for when they are asking why no one is calling or paying to fuck it.

I can assure you that without a substantial fee they would not be sucking or fucking obese unhealthy looking mongers.

Do I really care if she has diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure etc.? Of course not as long as she doesn't clearly look like she does.

The original question was how do get more attention and business. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Actually that was the last thread. This is a different topic altogether.

Yes, this is a different thread dealing directly with our thoughts of BBW/obese women.

Yes, this is a different thread dealing directly with our thoughts of BBW/obese women. Originally Posted by Chelitotito

More specifically, it's about how looks seem to be the primary factor in judgement as opposed to personality.

Either way, knock yourselves out. I've got no skin in this game.

I can assure you that without a substantial fee they would not be sucking or fucking obese unhealthy looking mongers Originally Posted by Codybeast

You would be very wrong about that....

I've had 3 ladies fill up much of the last 36 years of my life, sucking and fucking me along the way..... Each of them a very good looking young lady.... the last two of them much younger than me....

Money was not a part of the fist two and is only a minimal part of the current relationship...... Her security, safety, well being, support and education are far more of a driving factor for her.....

Fat/Obese men have considerably more options than fat/obese women do not have.

but ya know something man? When we DO pay..... we pay the same as you do and fuck the same girls you do......