plus 1 for Jackie.
Post the name and we can all move on.
- KenMonk
- 02-07-2012, 08:34 PM
- bartipero
- 02-07-2012, 08:44 PM
For sure. This is like being in a snowball fight where one of the players on your team keeps blasting you in the back of the head while everyone else is looking the other way and you keep asking everyone if you should tell them who it is. Pretty soon the rest of the team does it, too. Then who's fault is it?
- Guest090920
- 02-07-2012, 10:03 PM
- ElumEno
- 02-07-2012, 10:13 PM
NM
- malwoody
- 02-08-2012, 09:38 AM
IMO the original post (and post #3) is nothing more than passive aggressive bullshit aimed at the lady that pulled the NCNS . . . It is a veiled threat for her to make it right - or else - and all just a game.Sums it up as far as I'm concerned. I do find it a bit curious that Captain ss jr gave his blessing about the op posting in the correct forum but didn't care to comment about any of the concerns listed above. Oh well I guess it doesn't matter if one makes a basically worthless post as long as it follows the correct protocol..
Either name (out) her for the NCNS or shut the fuck up. If you want to play games, do it elsewhere. If you really wanted to let everyone know she has an issue (truly) with NC/NS, you'd have done it in the first sentence and told everyone who she was. So far, all you've done is make a bunch of DNS lists of ladies that can discern their ass from a hole in the ground when it comes to problem clients they don't want to suffer . . .
As much as she needs to take care of business, you need to get a handle on your own. Put up or shut up. I can't believe you're such a gelding that you'd need help or advice from anyone here as to whether or not you should name her after being stood up twice . . . smells to me like a fish for a discount or other consideration for your silence - when, in fact, there may be a perfectly good and reasonable explanation from her for the NCNS. Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin
- rtmc8078
- 02-08-2012, 10:15 AM
I originally asked the question because
1.) I didn't know where to put it.
2.) I didn't want to post it and later have it cause problems with the provider or any other provider.
I did not do it for any reasons other than that, as Jackie so nicely accused me of. But after reading all this I will put it out.
On 1/16 GraceUTR posted an ad she was going to be in Topeka the next day. I sent her a PM and set up a time to meet the next day. She asked me to call 30 minutes prior to the appointment. The next morning I sent her a PM to confirm and let here know I would be calling. She responded she would see me at 4PM and to call at 3:30. I took the afternoon off of work so I could make the appointment. I drove to Topeka from where I was at (about 30 mile). I tried calling her 3 times between 3:30 and 4PM. On the 3 call she answered and said, I won't be in Topeka until late tonight, but we can do it first thing in the morning. She apologized for missing the appointment and tried to tell me that she sent me a PM via ECCIE. I said how about 10 AM tonmorrow? She said yes, please call me 1/2 hour before. I took the morning off from work. I tried calling several times and never received an answer. I checked my PM's and she did not send me a message regarding cancelling or pushing the appointment back.
A call earlier might have been nice so that my first afternoon wasn't wasted and I might have found a plan B.
1.) I didn't know where to put it.
2.) I didn't want to post it and later have it cause problems with the provider or any other provider.
I did not do it for any reasons other than that, as Jackie so nicely accused me of. But after reading all this I will put it out.
On 1/16 GraceUTR posted an ad she was going to be in Topeka the next day. I sent her a PM and set up a time to meet the next day. She asked me to call 30 minutes prior to the appointment. The next morning I sent her a PM to confirm and let here know I would be calling. She responded she would see me at 4PM and to call at 3:30. I took the afternoon off of work so I could make the appointment. I drove to Topeka from where I was at (about 30 mile). I tried calling her 3 times between 3:30 and 4PM. On the 3 call she answered and said, I won't be in Topeka until late tonight, but we can do it first thing in the morning. She apologized for missing the appointment and tried to tell me that she sent me a PM via ECCIE. I said how about 10 AM tonmorrow? She said yes, please call me 1/2 hour before. I took the morning off from work. I tried calling several times and never received an answer. I checked my PM's and she did not send me a message regarding cancelling or pushing the appointment back.
A call earlier might have been nice so that my first afternoon wasn't wasted and I might have found a plan B.
- growler
- 02-08-2012, 11:13 AM
A bit harsh.
IMO the original post (and post #3) is
nothing more than passive aggressive bullshit aimed at the lady that pulled the NCNS . . . It is a veiled threat for her to make it right - or else - and all just a game.
Either name (out) her for the NCNS or shut the fuck up. If you want to play games, do it elsewhere. If you really wanted to let everyone know she has an issue (truly) with NC/NS, you'd have done it in the first sentence and told everyone who she was. So far, all you've done is make a bunch of DNS lists of ladies that can discern their ass from a hole in the ground when it comes to problem clients they don't want to suffer . . .
As much as she needs to take care of business, you need to get a handle on your own. Put up or shut up. I can't believe you're such a gelding that you'd need help or advice from anyone here as to whether or not you should name her after being stood up twice . . . smells to me like a fish for a discount or other consideration for your silence - when, in fact, there may be a perfectly good and reasonable explanation from her for the NCNS. Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin
- Guest092813
- 02-08-2012, 11:33 AM
I did not ncns you. When I had to cancel I spoke with you and said PM me for an appointment time. We didn't set up a time via the phone. You never sent me a message. I ended up not coming to Topeka, but if you had pmed me, you would have known that. And I didn't receive any calls the morning of your so called appointment. Normally, i would just take the blame and say sorry, but i did not ncns.
I always do make up appointments if I have to cancel last minute, once again, if you had followed through like I asked.... You would have known that.
I always do make up appointments if I have to cancel last minute, once again, if you had followed through like I asked.... You would have known that.
- bigryan222
- 02-08-2012, 11:51 AM
- Guest121212
- 02-08-2012, 01:24 PM
A bit harsh. Originally Posted by growlerGrow a pair.
Agreed. Originally Posted by bigryan222Ditto.
- growler
- 02-08-2012, 02:59 PM
LoL, thanks for the concern, they were still there last time I checked....It takes no more effort to make your point, and still be civil.
Grow a pair.
Ditto. Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin
- Guest121212
- 02-08-2012, 04:27 PM
I'm happy they're still there Growler, but you might want to check when you get a chance, or consider a testosterone supplement. You expect civility on a SHMB . . . next you'll want to hold hands around the campfire and sing Kumbayah. If you can't handle a bit of adult speech and a strong opinion, perhaps you might want to consider pbskids.org.
The guy knew damn well what he was doing . . . you've been around here long enough to know it as well as the majority of everyone else. Which is less civil? His passive aggressive bullshit or my calling him on it? Formal politeness and courtesy in behavior or speech doesn't necessarily imply civility. I can be as polite as Miss Manners and still be a cunt (and quite uncivil). Please, take a moment and discern that politeness might be what you meant to say and not civil(ity); Then take the first sentence and substitute the word "politeness" for "civility" - and you have my reply.
Frankly, I've tired of being anything less than direct and to the point.
Had I been a guy and posted what I did, no one would have said a fucking thing.
Judging from Grace's reply, he was thinking with his dick and the lack of blood flow to his brain caused him to believe he had an appointment, when he clearly did not.
The guy knew damn well what he was doing . . . you've been around here long enough to know it as well as the majority of everyone else. Which is less civil? His passive aggressive bullshit or my calling him on it? Formal politeness and courtesy in behavior or speech doesn't necessarily imply civility. I can be as polite as Miss Manners and still be a cunt (and quite uncivil). Please, take a moment and discern that politeness might be what you meant to say and not civil(ity); Then take the first sentence and substitute the word "politeness" for "civility" - and you have my reply.
Frankly, I've tired of being anything less than direct and to the point.
Had I been a guy and posted what I did, no one would have said a fucking thing.
Judging from Grace's reply, he was thinking with his dick and the lack of blood flow to his brain caused him to believe he had an appointment, when he clearly did not.
- MsElena
- 02-08-2012, 04:42 PM
Can we sing "Its A Small World After All" instead?
- Guest121212
- 02-08-2012, 04:43 PM
Great.
Now that won't leave my head all day . . . what a bitch move. But good!
Checkmate Elena!
Kisses hun,
- Jackie
Now that won't leave my head all day . . . what a bitch move. But good!
Checkmate Elena!
Kisses hun,
- Jackie
- bigryan222
- 02-08-2012, 04:48 PM
Grow a pair.Have you checked into removing yours? Seriously though, not everyone in this world is confrontational so that is probably the larger reason why we have passive aggressive posts and acts then trying to blackmail for cheaper sessions. So again, telling someone to shut the fuck up and saying they are trying to fish for discounts is a bit harsh considering you do not know what happened.
Ditto. Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin