Cancellations?

Just saying thank you to the ONES (pyrimder and prolongus) (who has seen me face to face) understanding my side. When there are single mother's involved that require sitters for two cihldren, I would expect ANYONE to understand something being paid. This is the same scenario, that many of you would totally trash a provider if YOU, yourself, showed up... belly hanging... smelly balls... hairy nuts... and foul breath... and she said as soon as you arrived, "It's not going to work out." Do you honestly think that if your own time and effort was put forth to make arrangements to get out from the SO... drive to ATM... drive to provider's incall... to be turned away at the door... you would NOT write your own thread. BS to anyone that says, "NO" to that.

Anyways, thank you to the ones that understand what it takes for us as a provider who NEVER NCNS, NEVER CANCELS, Always is dressed nice, always has stellar reviews... to get ready for your arrival.

Thank you.

For the "others" on here who don't know because they are completely NEW to the hobby and board... good luck and best wishes with that attitude.

You won't be here for long.

I'm done with this damn thread. I closed mine on purpose. I'm completely thru with dealing with this issue. Alert was posted. It's done and over with. Gina was notified and SHE personally handled the situation because it was ALERT worthy. When you arrive to someone's house with the amount of reviews that I have all saying the same thing... all raving about my talents... and all great... get prepared for a great time.. or dont come. The fact of it was, he was nervous upon arrival. Why I don't know. I really dont' care. If he acts like that... then don't hobby. But, do NOT sit back and blame me ONE moment for him leaving. I have been doing this well over a year, and have three RECENT great reviews that were just posted this week. So, apparently it was NOT me or my fault for fake pics. All pics are accurate. For those of you that haven't met me, read the reviews and you will see. For those of you that have, thank you for all the great times.

I'm off this thread. So, for any more questions to me.. feel free to pm... and if I feel like your pm is worth responding to regarding this matter... I might. If not, consider me over this BS of this subject.

Thanks again.
Good night. Originally Posted by Amber Rain

The only recent pics you have are the ones of your HEAD & EYEBALLS your avatar and those full body shots ARE at LEAST a year old you were using them BEFORE with your ummmm NVM but you and I both know those pics are old as fuck.

ok .... just only my .02 but i think they are equally good reasons to cancel apt or at least just be honest about it. ("it" wont work and ........ its my time of the month)
If you are honest about either of these 2 things, should they come up. I do not think the guy should be outed for cancelling. Not unless he is a repeated time waster, and in that case I would put it in the powder room. Should he pay? I think at least something for her trouble and her sitter at least.

At the very least any "gentlemen" would have offered some sort of compensation for her time , however it appears he is not.


Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

ok .... just only my .02 but i think they are equally good reasons to cancel apt or at least just be honest about it. ("it" wont work and ........ its my time of the month)
If you are honest about either of these 2 things, should they come up. I do not think the guy should be outed for cancelling. Not unless he is a repeated time waster, and in that case I would put it in the powder room. Should he pay? I think at least something for her trouble and her sitter at least. Originally Posted by roxy28

I think you ladies are right that if he cancels last minute for whatever, he should compensate a little for the wasted time, and time is what he is paying for, right?

What about the "time" it takes for a hobbyist to get showered and ready to go see her, his gas and mileage on his vehicle to drive across town to see her, then when he is sitting in traffic or even there in the general area waiting for her to call back with more specifics on her location or room # and she calls/texts saying she has to cancel for whatever reason?

If the response to that is basically, "that is the way it goes, life happens", the answer would be "no compensation" to that provider that gets cancelled on last minute that would waste the guy's time, even though it may be a legit excuse.

I cannot wait to see what multiple providers say in the answer to this question! And for some, "this is right up your alley"

As far as the OP questions go:
1.No
2. not a question to answer
3.No
4. If a client does not pay, causes unwanted physical harm, NCNS; If a provider NCNS, bait and switch, takes the money and refuses to do the "service"
5. same question as #1
6. ask a mod

This is obviously a case of a client not clicking with a provider, realizing it pretty quickly, and leaving. I think it is more than the money with Amber. I think her feelings were hurt that the client didn't feel he could get aroused by her. I don't feel that this is Alert worthy. However, I do feel the client handled it wrong also. Mistakes happen, and he should have tried to minimize the aftershocks by at least paying something, telling her this isn't going to work, but here is something for your time and effort. Then maybe Amber and him could have come to an agreement on a cancellation fee and avoided this public feud, which hasn't helped either ones reputation.

I think you ladies are right that if he cancels last minute for whatever, he should compensate a little for the wasted time, and time is what he is paying for, right?

What about the "time" it takes for a hobbyist to get showered and ready to go see her, his gas and mileage on his vehicle to drive across town to see her, then when he is sitting in traffic or even there in the general area waiting for her to call back with more specifics on her location or room # and she calls/texts saying she has to cancel for whatever reason?

If the response to that is basically, "that is the way it goes, life happens", the answer would be "no compensation" to that provider that gets cancelled on last minute that would waste the guy's time, even though it may be a legit excuse. Originally Posted by bigdog0311

Yes it does work both ways I'm sure, I personally have never had this issue but to me it just boils down to one thing..Respect...either you have it or you don't.

Ive always gone by that rule and it has never failed. I can't even begin to imagine her/his situation, but clearly a lack of common courtesy and respect was involved.

Treat others like you would want to be treated.


As regard to him trying to say it was a cancellation is a joke, kinda like going to the dentist and after sitting in the chair for five minutes and start whining it hurts!! I'm canceling !!.....


With me, I would have said "No problem, I'm sorry things didn't work out, Have a great day "and wish him the best, and would have declined any offered compensation, but clearly we are in different situations

It depends to an extent on why he cancelled at the last minute I think.

The only time I canceled "last minute" was with a new girl, unusual behavior, instructed me to park in a particular space so she could see me (man sitting in panel van in next space!), talking to someone in background from the hotel room while on phone with me, etc. So I bugged out, and needless to say didn't even think about trotting up to the room to drop off any sort of donation.

On the flip side, I've been put off repeatedly on an appointment for hours. Been cancelled on within 15 mintues of an appointment after driving across town, several times in fact. Been told when I have my shirt of that "aunt flow" showed up five minutes ago. And the total number of times a provider offered a discount etc. for a make up session. . . one.

well.... I was trying to stick woth the original question, and not mention the other thread, but obviously the guy made amber feel uncomfortable. His behavior prior to just leaving after he got there. Plus ..... none of us was actually AT the appointment. No matter what his reason was for leaving, his behavior is a little strange. He was obviously uncomfortable as well, and now the events are posted here.

If the fucktard gets there and takes his clothes off......all ready to pound that kitty. Then, she takes her clothes off and it don't look like the kitty he was expecting from her photos and 60+ stellar reviews.......he doesn't owe her jackshit.

We call that false advertisement.....ijs.

Amber babe shake em off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If the fucktard gets there and takes his clothes off......all ready to pound that kitty. Then, she takes her clothes off and it don't look like the kitty he was expecting from her photos and 60+ stellar reviews.......he doesn't owe her jackshit.

We call that false advertisement.....ijs. Originally Posted by dearhunter

Damn right. If his equipment is not working, contrary to other opinions stated here, it IS her fault because the equipment would have worked if the kitty had been as advertised.

Not been on eccie much since the Super Bowl, Go GIANTS Alright see I missed some drama, all has been said in this post. It started on point, but then speculation, then haters got on board.
Motive and behavior was the main concern from the provider, well since we know who, Amber. I’m not telling you nothing you don’t know, you need to be aware and have protection from clients, no matter how many reviews the client have, shit happens, think about. Time of month, cancellation fees, old pics are secondary issues haters’ jumped on. Stay Focus stay safe. I have known some weird providers and would not hesitate to drop a dime.
I won’t speak to the time of month issues.
Clients do not really know if pics are current, they can be new postings but still old. I went to see a provider after her pics were updated, I got to the door she opened, I said oh hell no, no cancellation fee for false advertising. But I do agree with pyramider. If you made the time, spend a dime, girls spend money/time to make us feel good so compensate!
I happen to know Amber, and there is no secret about having the lights down. May first date with her she asked if I had access to ROS and that she likes the lights out and if I had a problem with that. I said not a problem. I read some of the reviews provided from hobbyist and saw her pics which were hot, old or new did not know at the time. If I had showed, and Mr Johnson was not working, she would have gotten it up always do!
So Amber, hope you do not even read this and have moved on, you have quality in your quantity! Don’t worry bout the haters, they are low an insignificant. You are better than that, don’t let them drag you into the bull shit!

HATER:
Overused word that people like to use just because someone else expresses a dislike for a certain individual.
PERSON 1: I think Beyonce's new song sucks.

PERSON 2: You're a hater!!!

haven't done anything but speak FACTS thus far. How is that being a hater?

I have spoken on the other threads about the pics.

I wont' repeat about that..

I do want to add two things:

1. I am not here for everyone to like me. I KNOW there are people (guys and girls) that DON'T like me. I know I'm not everyone's type (not just body) and because I know I'm an honest, no bullshit type of person, who tells it like it is, I get those types of clients in return (which totally kicks ass)...I also know that the guys who come to see me know exactly what they are getting before they even head out to come see me. BOOM. No doubt about it.

2. OK now. The math nerd in me said, "HOLD UP, wait a minute" and I had to double check my weight/height/size ratio when I saw this line...

I'm a happy size 14 and my pics ARE accurate. I have 3 new reviews all showing that I am current on my pics. Originally Posted by Amber Rain

I have NEVER hidden my size. I actually think I need to update my new loss...but I'll get to it. Anyways. Let's do some math here.
I am 6'2" and currently 230lbs. I wear a size 16 jean (regular, not plus) with a 36in inseam. (yes, I know...probably longer than most you fellas). By mid-day, those jeans are barely staying up, and I usually have to tighten my belt. I can not wear them without a belt. Period. So let's just keep that in mind. Moving on.

Now, Amber's quote here says she is a size 14. Her showcase puts her at 5'5". That is NINE inches shorter than me. Most guys have reviewed her at 150lbs. (I didn't see a weight listed on any of her stuff. I could be wrong. I didn't go searching all of the board for her posting her weight.)

So basically - she is claiming to be NINE inches shorter than me, and only one size smaller.

I find that quite impossible to believe.

I don't care how "well liked" you think you are, or how awesome your abilities, or how accepting of your "quirks" (I've got my own, no doubt) your clients are (one who just seems to keep posting over and over and over and OVER AND OVER AND OVER again), just stop all of it by taking some fucking pictures already.

Shit.

I didn't post my full picture because I'm wearing track pants. Not all that "eccie" hot in my opinion. But whatever. I actually updated my showcase pics a couple of weeks ago and my pics aren't actually in question. Honestly, I don't think they ever have been. My roots may be right now - but that will be resolved Saturday! (ha ha)

I'll take Sweet Treat's obnoxious shit over bullshit any day of the week.

And whoever wants to call me a hater bring it.

Amber, I would say this directly to you if you were standing right next to me. Ask anyone here that knows me.

And Bolt - I'm glad you said it before Laz went and found the threads my dear.

I got tired reading so just a quick question...was the review of that fat chick?

I got a pic of the bcd action, but couldnt tell...