No questions do not offend me, ask away. I will not lie, but you may not get the response you want. Whatever the question, I do not allow myslef to be irritated or offended. It is just a question. I have told ladies that have asked personal questions, simply I am not comfortable answering that at this point, we typically move on from there.
One lady insisted on calling me at my place of work for screening. I politely declined to tell her where I work and she politely said she coul dnto see me then. i moved on, no big deal. I think it is bad business for her, I have plenty of refs, plenty of reviews, and I am a mod. None of that was enough for her, lol.