Ever Just Wanna Make Love?

In the true context of "making love" I would find it very difficult to enjoy with a Provider. I'd have to say that I "make love" with women I know on something other than a transactional or business level. As passionate as some of my encounters have been I've yet to find myself in the arms of any Provider that can make me forget the circumstances of our timed tryst.

In the true context of "making love" I would find it very difficult to enjoy with a Provider. I'd have to say that I "make love" with women I know on something other than a transactional or business level. As passionate as some of my encounters have been I've yet to find myself in the arms of any Provider that can make me forget the circumstances of our timed tryst. Originally Posted by txcwby6

I agree........I know that very few guys like the "wham, bam, thank you maam", but some do, and that is great for the provider as she does not have to even "act" with that IOP. Speaking of IOP, those providers that can pull that off and make a guy feel as if it it not a paid transaction and a timed tryst are those that have many repeat clientele.

Things are much better when you are with the right women who will appreciate you as much as you appreciate her. When the chemistry is right, you will be making love which is much better then having sex.

About the end of the year I was with Gal Pal provider, we have been together several times and it had always been a F**k fest, we have also explored several providers and lots of costume and role play. We started reminiscing about the year and before you know it we were in spoon position and took it very slowly for about 40 minutes, very nice. Might do it again in Dec for now it is back to F**k fest.

Lana - I LOVE YOU Girl!


This is one of the downfalls to being lusted after, on a weekly basis, in this business. While it is fun, and exciting at times, it seems that sometimes I fall for my own illusion of passion ...and when the hour/time is over, really find myself missing/yearning for the REAL THING!

Sure, I have had clients that I decide to go off the clock with, just because I don't want to be alone on a certain night, or maybe am having a bad day and just want some company...but there truly isn't anything like the real thing...when someone loves & cherishes you ...without any little white envelope at the end.


One day I hope to belong to someone forever...not just a few hours at a time ...and then GET READY...he better fasten his seat belt!!! he he he ...It's gonna be ON LIKE DONKEY KONG!!!

Unfortunately, I have yet to find anyone who can truly handle me...
Outside of the "hobby"...

Sometimes, I just want to make love! You know, the love making that is nice and slow........not slam, bam, thank you, ma'am!

Nothing beats some good ole mish while passionately kissing my man!

Am I alone in wanting this? Originally Posted by Lana Warren

Sounds like a plan!

Only about 92% of the time.

Sometimes, I just want to make love! You know, the love making that is nice and slow........not slam, bam, thank you, ma'am!

Nothing beats some good ole mish while passionately kissing my man!

Am I alone in wanting this? Originally Posted by Lana Warren

yep, sometimes is right. not all the time, not never, but sometimes.
cos different strokes for different needs.

I like fucking, having sex, and making love...and I need all three to be content. Originally Posted by Vitruvian

many moons ago, a girlfriend of mine told me she didnt want to be my once-a-week fuck. she wanted to be my lover. so we were lovers and it was sweeeet!!!! alas, she moved to the NE. and since we were just lovers and not in love, i stayed in dallas. but i still have the memories.

Lana - I LOVE YOU Girl!


This is one of the downfalls to being lusted after, on a weekly basis, in this business. While it is fun, and exciting at times, it seems that sometimes I fall for my own illusion of passion ...and when the hour/time is over, really find myself missing/yearning for the REAL THING!

Sure, I have had clients that I decide to go off the clock with, just because I don't want to be alone on a certain night, or maybe am having a bad day and just want some company...but there truly isn't anything like the real thing...when someone loves & cherishes you ...without any little white envelope at the end.


One day I hope to belong to someone forever...not just a few hours at a time ...and then GET READY...he better fasten his seat belt!!! he he he ...It's gonna be ON LIKE DONKEY KONG!!!

Unfortunately, I have yet to find anyone who can truly handle me...
Outside of the "hobby"... Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

and this is why i say that, while being single has its advantages economically and sexually [esp. with the variety here in dallas], when one makes it to 70 or 75 or even 80 yoa, i think people are going to be rather lonely without someone to have coffee with in the morning, to take a walk in the neighborhood or at the lake, to enjoy dinner together, and/or to go on vacations, much less call in help when one of you falls and cant get up. i've know quite a few folks in that age range and there's not a single one who wants or desires to be all alone.

having someone to love is not overated, at least in my book.

as grace slick sang
"dont you want somebody to love?
dont you need somebody to love?
wouldnt you love somebody to love?
you better find somebody to love!"

song over images - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YIkoSPqjaU4
at Woodstock - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1S3j...eature=related

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somebod..._Airplane_song)

I’m all for making love, being passionate. Slam bams has it place and time. With the right provider after a few sessions you can have that mutual making love connection. No rush or beeps of a timer, nice long and slow, deep kissing, body caressing,and yes mish is good. But sometimes it’s the passing of the envelop that can undo what was real in the moment. Off clock times are good, spending time. Let’s be real some emotions are involved.

Notice that the three ladies, all positive toward the question at hand, are what I would consider "mature"? As in, experienced, mature, not wet behind the ears, knowing what they want and what their gentleman wants. Some people get it, some simply don't. Originally Posted by warlock

Add me to that esteemed list, please.

Loving connections of such an intense, intimate, and clock-breaking nature can be few and far between, but when it happens, WOW.

Well hell, it isn't about the $ or the time, or the comfort zone of the enveleope or any of that sort of over-thinking...it's about simple chemistry and the level of involvement AT THE TIME OF CONTACT...if you can't fall in love for an hour, you need to find another hobby. Just like a great pas de deux, you gotta fall a little bit in love with your partner or it's just a technical exercise.

Slam Bam does have its place in the hobby, but not for me. Luckily my ATF and I it off from the start and the sensual love making keeps getting better every time I see her. There is no substitute for chemistry and a level of connection that makes it a much more enjoyable experience for both. Just my preference.

Lana though we have never met I love reading your posts. They are great.

I prefer my experiences to be more than just "Wham bam, thank you ma'am". But I have a strange issue that txcbwby reminded me of:

In the true context of "making love" I would find it very difficult to enjoy with a Provider. I'd have to say that I "make love" with women I know on something other than a transactional or business level. As passionate as some of my encounters have been I've yet to find myself in the arms of any Provider that can make me forget the circumstances of our timed tryst. Originally Posted by txcwby6

Now if I ended up with a provider that for some reason connects with me enough to make me forget about the whole money thing then I want to keep money out of it completely. Not that I want to be cheap or don't think they deserve to be compensated for their time, I just feel the money cheapens the experience and insults the girl, granted still pay anyway, just makes me want to apologize. Pretty sure it has to do with my chivalrous , though slightly prudish, up bringing. Now I don't have a problem with the hobby in general or the sex industry at all. Hell, I'm trying to write a paper on how the percieved sexism in media and the "degradation" of women in our society are actually signs of the equaling of the sexes and the sexual liberation of women. So this little hang up really freaking caught me by surprise when I discovered it.

I agree with slam bam thank you mam toooo!
But whats more incredible is the slow sensual kisses up and down
the small of my back aound my hips down my thigh.....
Woooo its getting hot ine here....Come enjoy A Mature Woman Expeirence!!!

Kisses, Jaci

IMHO it is not possible to truly make love to someone unless you are truly IN LOVE with them.