provider etiquette

Not sure how you got that out of her post. Seems like you may want to read more carefully before your next attempt. Originally Posted by Waldo P. Emerson-Jones

That seems to happen a lot. Even some of the girls I have worked with in the past and some that have been doing this for quie a while, don't seem to understand the importance of phone conversations.

Just keep trying until you find one you click with over the phone. Good phone call doesn't always mean good session, but it usually does. Originally Posted by EroticMorgan

My bad Waldo,
Maybe this one works better for you.

I love you Shyster...as always you keep me in wonderful spirits.

I made a post quite a while back on how to speak to a provider. But I'm too lazy and too well.. I don't give enough of a shit to go through all my useless and useful posts to find it.

Basically - you are new. I'm going to make some assumptions here - that could be totally off base, but more than likely - I'm a mix of Sheldon from TBBT and Sherlock...the power of my brain and my deduction skills will lead us to a reasonable, logical conclusion that will assist you in further dealings with your hookers.

-The girls are going to need to screen you.

-You probably don't want to give up enough info to be screened, seeing as how you are new, and these girls can be shady, and you don't trust them either.

-When trying to book for an appointment, without screening first, you automatically start asking what they will or won't do for you, and might possibly make the mistake of discussing money. Both of those are a HUGE mistake and any girl in her RIGHT mind SHOULD be rude to you. That is the way the cock goes limp in the hooker world. If you would LIKE to get a hard on, keep it long enough to have it sucked, fondled, cuddled, caressed, and use it as a weapon of mass destruction inside a pink taco...well, here's some tips:

1. Sign up for Preferred411.com I'm not sure of the current fee...but if you plan on having a date with more than one provider over the next year - it will save yourself the stress you have just had to deal with and make life SO MUCH BETTER! I swear on it. You CAN'T go wrong. It's a hell of a lot more secure to go that route than to give some of the personal info these ladies will ask you for. (no offense ladies - but some of you are straight up nutters). Potential screening time with a p411 acct...less than 5 min. Without...could be a week. No, I'm not kidding.

2. Let's say you get a p411 account. You do want to communicate a few of the "kinks" you have a fondness for. There's this GREAT little section that you get to write whatever you want in it. A SMART provider reads it before she books her date with you - and re-reads it before she sees you, to make sure she is prepared. So if you like pancake syrup poured on your nipples while she is dressed in wooden shoes and a sombrero...then tada! You've not offended ANYONE and there is NO CAUSE for rude behavior! You can follow up in an email and confirm she read that section of your profile! So simple...yet so many refuse to do it and want to complain in stead. (not talking about you...I'm talking about guys who have been around forever).

3. After you have seen her - she will give you an OK on p411 and that will help build up your reputation to see other providers and even get some discounts that are only offered to p411 members by p411 providers! (woo hoo!)

So, I know basically I just gave you the "How to see a provider by using P411" version.

I can come back in a second and do the "I don't want to use P411, how should I proceed" version if you'd like...just give me a few.

But I think all in all - that's a great way to go. P411 bookings are totally my favorite and make my life SO MUCH EASIER.

Action...here is my input for what it's worth...;-/

If the first contact I receive says one of these (below), then I just disregard it....or have the notion to put the dick right back into his pants.

1) Hi babe ...(with no other content)
2) Do you allow Gr**k...(something that is not on my menu)
3) Hey Sexy....wanna hook up?
4) Will you sit on my face ?
5) Do you offer 30min sessions? (even tho I DO NOT ADVERTISE THAT)
6) DO NOT ask to negotiate the rate.

Ya...well, you get the point.

Anyways....a good thought out first contact will usually result in a good response.
Of course there are exceptions, and if you do your research, you will probably determine the gals that will respond favorable if you:

1) Offer as much pre-screening info as possible in your first contact
2) Act like a gentleman with as much respect as you can ooze.
3) Don't go overboard with the cheesy compliments (this has fake and desperate written all over it)
4) Offer several time frames that might work with your schedule. This will indicate to her that you are not one of those....hey...can I meet you in 30mins for a 15min BJ? (that is just rude)

So....good luck to you.
May I also....ask that you watch the following link? I've posted it before in other threads. It is quite comical, but true to life....and a good perspective for a newbie. Many folks in this hobby are aware of it.

http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/6695...ker-v-hobbyist

Just keep in mind....you always get what you pay for....and you always get as much effort from the other party AS YOU HAVE PUT IN YOURSELF.

It is no wonder that once a guy finds "that girl" which they become comfortable with and enjoy in many ways....she becomes his ATF. The screening and efforts to schedule will become nill at that point.

Have Fun!

Torre

I won't make initial contact over the phone. Anytime I speak with a provider on the phone it just seems too awkward to me (if we've never met). I prefer to make initial contact thru PM on this site, email or thru P411...well I dont prefer it..that's the only way I'll make initial contact.
I feel like (just my own opinion) that I'm taken more seriously when I contact somebody thru this site or thru P411 rather than just calling them out of the blue.

My initial contact would go something like this (never scheduled with her but this would be a good example)


Hi Selena!
This is L.A. from ECCIE and I wanted to see about scheduling an appointment with you this Friday and wanted to check your availability. I've always enjoyed your posting style and you seem like a really nice person. I love how well done your ads are and I always look forward to your new pics. I do have a few specific questions to ask you once I'm screened. My p411 account is XXXXXXXX. Please let me know of anything else you might need for screening and I hope to hear back from you soon!

Thanks!

L.A.

The reply I would expect to receive should sound like she is excited and pleased that I want to see her....that I've chosen to spend my time and money on her. Screening goes both ways and if the reply I receive back doesnt make me feel excited about seeing her then I'll take that into consideration also.

in one of my older posts, it said something to the effect of...

it's flattering if you've done a little research on her...

as well as if you can say something to make her laugh. but not creepy shit...just like, enough to reference something funny in a thread she posted on. it shows you aren't just being a rushed, greedy horndog.

most of the girls (most, not all) who are working from here - are taking the time to show a little about who they are. which means, you can get a little more out of them by taking the time to learn that about them, even if it takes five minutes.

What do you think I do before I reply to someone who sends me a message? I determine how to respond to them based on their most recent posting history, their most recent reviews and how they spoke to me in their message.

Pretty simple formula to follow if you'd like to have a good session with someone you click with.

And for me - it's all about the click.

If it's not gonna click through the way we communicate on here - well, we might as well just tell one another to fuck off right here and now.

Buh bye. LOL

Omg don't run this one off girls. He's actually NICE!!!!

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