P411 vs. Provider References

Ladies....why the silence on these questions?

I can tell you what any who might say something, would say:

"he could have changed in that span of time...."

I know, I know.... a person could change in the span of an hour, a day, or a week.... so to me it doesn't make too much sense either. But it's up to the provider to decide what works best for HER.

Always,
Gina

Youre right Gina.

Again- i prefer P411 for screening. I dont go rescreening after 1 month or 3 months... but i do like to see P411 okays that are less than 6 months old. Why? Because things can change.
Example- I saw a guy once...he was great... was still rather new tho..He had P411 and Eccie...
8 months later he wanted a repeat... which was ok.. He didnt have recent okays on 411.. but claimed to have 2 recent references. I did ask his new references about him
and they, both being on P411, refused to give him an ok. Apparently, his head (on his shoulders) swelled and he got very disrespectful at appts. He got sneaky and ripped another girl off... So "some" guys do change... as i am sure ladies change too. Thus why the guys should also research the ladies.. things can change for them too.

I dont ever save information I use for screening.. I even refuse to keep numbers.. even if youre single and its ok. Id rather not keep track of who is safe to call and who isnt and risk anyones SO finding out. I do think that the guys should appreciate the girls that DO screen thoroughly.. after all.... its all about sexual satisfaction... and i know for me.. when i feel safe.. the anxiety is gone and im able to focus 100% on pleasuring..

EDIT: Back up...

I admit to being readily surprised that this thread is still going, but I appreciate the input. Especially since my P411 account was activated today. Now I have to decide who to see.

Great question, as I am in the same boat as Magnus. Except I refuse to use 411 for privacy reasons. The last lady I saw (numerous times) retired about six months ago (yes, it has been that long for me), and I absolutely refuse the AMP places. Seems like every time I decided to get back in, I am a Newbie all over again, and I've been on here and ASPD for 12 years. Anyway, good thread.

We prefer 411 with 2+ Oks, at least one of the OKs in the previous 6 months and the Oks from known providers (our discretion). Makes screening very simple. That is what make us comfortable, we know we may lose clients with that screening but makes us feel comfortable.