I have gotten attached (or had a favorite) client before. I recently felt a lot of chemistry with someone (won't say who) and sure wish he would call again. Don't know exactly what it was that endeared me to him, something intangible I guess!---------------------------------
I don't let myself get emotionally involved with any client though. Having the attitude of really good friends with benefits is the best! Originally Posted by HoustonMilfDebbie
Only happened to me once...he was so good BCD I started comparing all others to him (years ago). Bad for biz, glad I got over it! Chemistry can neither be made nor bought. We simply don't choose it, either. It happens, or it doesn't. There's no planning for it, and do all you want, there's no denying it. Thank God it's rare!!
I am exceptional at "compartmentalizing", but once in a lifetime, it was exciting!! HoustonMilfDebbie is right about FWB's being the best route to take!!
With that attitude, you can see the same person as many times as you like...and with many, it DOES make it better as you get to know each other.