Have you ever been passed?

I agree that was rude! I can not see how you violated any rules..definitely rude!

Was she rude or truthful?

Some can or will say both.

Take the rejection as a sign...walk, run, roll, scream or whatever to the next opportunity that presents itself.

Uncle Dogg

I have to say this, and I may be wrong, but, if a gentleman asks me if those photos are mine, at the last moment, right before we are to meet, like an hour before we are to meet, and we have had much time to discuss photos or any other concerns, I kinda tend to pass them by. Now, my reason for this is, experience. I can not count how many guys have wasted my time ,and their time, by showing up, and cancelling at the last moment because my hair was not done exactly as in the photos, or my make up not done as in photos, or I do not have the same outfit on, etc. I do change my hair styles from day to day, sometimes my hair is wavy, sometimes curly, and sometimes I have it up. I do tend to change my make up and I definitely change outfits! If a gentleman wants to ask me to please wear my hair a certain way, or do my make up a certain way, or wear a certain outfit, I am totally fine with that, and, I will do my best to accommodate the gentleman. I passed a guy up today for asking me about the photos after he has had much time to ask and 1 hour before we were to meet, so, not having his phone number, I PMed him explained why I was passing him by and he called and cussed me out. Glad I passed that by! I would think that he would be glad that I did not want to waste our time or his money and he can just move onto the next.

Well maybe she could not screen you ...You don;t have any reviews...post some Originally Posted by pickupkid

I did not give my eccie handle. Maybe I should have just called, so she could hear my sincere voice.

I did not give my eccie handle. Maybe I should have just called, so she could hear my sincere voice. Originally Posted by nushi

yeah, well, you have been on for almost two years, and you have a lot of posts, so, yeah, definitely, maybe, you should PM her sometimes we get spooked, and take a pass. I hope she did not read all of this, could have hurt her feelings. PM her and give her a chance to respond to you. I know that I post on other boards, if I get a call, I always ask the gentleman if he is part of eccie or any other review boards, if the gentleman tells me No, I proceed with caution, or, I pass!

"not beating around the bush is a good trait" Originally Posted by BoomShakaLaka

I have to respectably disagree!

"not beating around the bush is a good trait" Originally Posted by BoomShakaLaka

I have to respectfully disagree!