Escort vs Prostitute

I don't think BMW has shame in their game. There is a reason why it's pricey. Like your additional dirty talk though. Originally Posted by Ari816

Ya I know. A 100 dollar BJ feels the same as a 400 dollar BJ. May not be as pretty as you but it gets the job done.

My 18 yo truck gets me to work just the same as a BMW. :-)

I like to call my girlfriends hookers cause it sounds the hottest!
"Hot little hooker"(Bri). However "dirty slut" works well too.

Arianna
velvetvixen@live.com
www.thevelvetvixen.com Originally Posted by Ari816

I cannot wait to wear that tie....yummY!!

Ya I know. A 100 dollar BJ feels the same as a 400 dollar BJ. May not be as pretty as you but it gets the job done.

My 18 yo truck gets me to work just the same as a BMW. :-) Originally Posted by royamcr

Understood. If you are cool with that then it's all good. Are the people who want heated seats and a luxury ride with all the bells and whistles bad because of what they want. If there is a market for BMW's and ppl are willing to buy them, then why wouldn't the dealership get the most that they could for their cars.

Other cars/trucks are perfectly fine for some people and they may choose to spend their money on other things that are more important to them.

100 wouldn't even cover the cost of where I would park the BMW. Anyway, not directed at you, but can someone tell me what the recent deal is with ppl complaining about what someone's donation is or complaining about what a hobbiest wants to spend. If the 100 dea makes them happy and is just as good, who cares?

In addition, why wouldn't a provider request a higher donation if they can get it? There are great hobbiest and providers in all different catagories...so if it's not in someone's budget or what they think it's worth or whatever...why does it matter to the person who is not paying it? Honest question.

If your boss said, you are worth a lot more, i'd like to give you more money...would you turn him down?

Xoxo,

Arianna
Velvetvixen@live.com
Www.thevelvetvixen.com

I think it is more about quantity for some guys. They can get 4 100 buck bjs for 1 date with ladies with higher rates. Multiply that out and you get 400 vs 1600 for the same result, a 1200 difference. I make a good amount of money but spend probably more than I should on an apartment, but it is really nice. For that and my other expensive hobbies, I must cut back on other luxuries or spend less on them. I actually feel guilty if I spend too much on this stuff. I'm like damn I could have bought a brand new something for my other hobby for what I just spent. Or paid down some debt.

For some guys money is no object, some it is. Some are further along in life and have amassed a nice retirement fund. Unfortunately some of the older guys cant enjoy this as much as they did 20 years earlier. I can enjoy it, but choose my opportunities wisely or just go watch some porn and take care of business myself. :-)

There is some very fine poon tang for under 200. And I'm not talking about streetwalkers. There is some very bad poon for 400 and up also. From what I've read you are worth what you charge and it probably keeps some less desirable clients from even trying to contact you. Actually from what I have read you may be way too aggressive for me and would probably have me walking funny for a few days after meeting you. lol

Multiply that out and you get 400 vs 1600 for the same result, a 1200 difference. Originally Posted by royamcr

If the only 'result' you are looking for is a 'pop' then I would agree with your math. The quality of the experience counts for something though.

Right, but there are some pretty good experiences for under 200 or right at...

Yep, fucks for bucks people. It doesn't matter what you call it. lol. Originally Posted by royamcr

Thank god it's after 6am here or my neighbors would think i'm nuts for laughing so loud and so hard!!!! LOL

Color me hooker, as previously stated... whatever my attorney says, is what works for me...

Its all a matter of semantics. Originally Posted by MsElena

MsElena it correct, it is all semantics. Some in this thread seem to think that semantics don't matter. They do. Semantics are the difference in being uncouth and polite.

Example 1:

Are not the phrases "a fucking 'tard" and "mentally handicapped" referencing the same thing? Of course they are. Which shows at least a basic grasp of civility?

Example 2 (and I'm not being insulting to anyone here):

Are not the labels EDIT - removed racial slur and "African-American" or "Person of Color" referring to the same thing? Of course they are. Again, which shows a basic grasp of the social graces?

Every lady I've met on ECCIE deserves better social manners than being called a "whore". Well, OK, one that I know well and have seen tells me "I'm a whore and damn good at it and I love my job!", but even her I can't really think of as a "whore".

I believe either "escort" or "provider" to be more respectful and honestly more accurate to describe the vast majority of ladies here. A normal outing with a lady here for me is I take them to dinner or lunch, that is, they are escorts. What we do later is between us. Yes, sometimes, that means we don't do anything because maybe we think we just won't have that good a time BCD. Doesn't happen often, but it's happened.

For the ladies that I really enjoy their company both in and out of the bedroom I prefer the term Paramour.

par·a·mour (pr-mr)n. A lover, especially one in an adulterous relationship.

The girls I see multiple times I consider to be lovers. They make a living (or supplement their income) by being paid to share their time. Sometimes they become lovers. I've seen a lot of ladies that I have met several times just for lunch, dinner, or a movie and nothing else. I've always compensated them for their time because it's what they do for a living. We are also lovers in the classical sense of an adulterous relationship since I am married, so that makes them a Paramour.

Do I romanticize this? Not really. I have no delusions that we're going to walk off into the sunset hand in hand and live happily ever after. I do consider the ladies I go back to repeatedly to be friends as well as lovers though and if I can't think of them that way I might still have a nice time when we're together, but I probably won't see them more than once. This is probably why I generally prefer a SB/SD relationship than an escort/provider one.

Jack

Thank god it's after 6am here or my neighbors would think i'm nuts for laughing so loud and so hard!!!! LOL

Color me hooker, as previously stated... whatever my attorney says, is what works for me... Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

That's actually Jackie's quote that I stole. Since she is too chicken to get involved with this, I thought I would throw that out there for her. :-)

That's actually Jackie's quote that I stole. Since she is too chicken to get involved with this, I thought I would throw that out there for her. :-) Originally Posted by royamcr

Actually, @royamcr, it is me quoting Stacy (sinsoftheflesh) re: the "fucks for bucks" line. "Fucks for bucks" wasn't Stacy's, it isn't new - but the spin she put on it with adding the "high tea" line, was SHMB solid gold and priceless.

I chose not to participate in this discussion and stated my reasons in my post, it isn't that I am too chicken to get involved in the discussion of the distinction between Escort and provider, it is that I have a very unpopular view of what delineates an Escort from a provider. At least it is unpopular with the providers - LOL.

Anyway, I'm sure if you search back through my 1700+ posts, you MIGHT (if the thread wasn't removed) find the discussion . . . but, you won't bait me into discussing it again. Like I said, last time I made it through unscathed, but like 5 or 6 people that replied to me got points . . .

Have a great day!

- Jackie

MsElena it correct, it is all semantics. Some in this thread seem to think that semantics don't matter. They do. Semantics are the difference in being uncouth and polite.

Example 1:

Are not the phrases "a fucking 'tard" and "mentally handicapped" referencing the same thing? Of course they are. Which shows at least a basic grasp of civility?

Example 2 (and I'm not being insulting to anyone here):

Are not the labels EDIT - removed racial slur and "African-American" or "Person of Color" referring to the same thing? Of course they are. Again, which shows a basic grasp of the social graces?

Every lady I've met on ECCIE deserves better social manners than being called a "whore". Well, OK, one that I know well and have seen tells me "I'm a whore and damn good at it and I love my job!", but even her I can't really think of as a "whore".

I believe either "escort" or "provider" to be more respectful and honestly more accurate to describe the vast majority of ladies here. A normal outing with a lady here for me is I take them to dinner or lunch, that is, they are escorts. What we do later is between us. Yes, sometimes, that means we don't do anything because maybe we think we just won't have that good a time BCD. Doesn't happen often, but it's happened.

For the ladies that I really enjoy their company both in and out of the bedroom I prefer the term Paramour.

par·a·mour (pr-mr)n. A lover, especially one in an adulterous relationship.

The girls I see multiple times I consider to be lovers. They make a living (or supplement their income) by being paid to share their time. Sometimes they become lovers. I've seen a lot of ladies that I have met several times just for lunch, dinner, or a movie and nothing else. I've always compensated them for their time because it's what they do for a living. We are also lovers in the classical sense of an adulterous relationship since I am married, so that makes them a Paramour.

Do I romanticize this? Not really. I have no delusions that we're going to walk off into the sunset hand in hand and live happily ever after. I do consider the ladies I go back to repeatedly to be friends as well as lovers though and if I can't think of them that way I might still have a nice time when we're together, but I probably won't see them more than once. This is probably why I generally prefer a SB/SD relationship than an escort/provider one.

Jack Originally Posted by ksjack

Holy cow you have a lot to say, can someone give me the cliff notes on this!

Holy cow you have a lot to say, can someone give me the cliff notes on this! Originally Posted by The DarkSide

No, if you're on an internet board you're generally expected to be able to read. I realize in some cases this is a pretty lofty and unrealistic expectation but go ahead and give it a shot, I used mostly small words. I think you'll be OK.

Jack

My apologies for making light of the topic when it was a serious discussion for some. I believe that most people who have met me would tell you that I am nothing short of a class act. I am educated and have a real profession. I am a companion for FUN. Which is why I made light of this and most posts. I could write a thesis on feminism and philosophy or many other topics, but the reality is that MOST guys don't want to hear it. I can have that convo with the people in my real world.

Arianna is a persona and business name. I am a shrewd business woman and my actual opinions are irrelevant. Everything that I post builds the persona of Arianna, all things that are true, just not every thought that comes into my head. If people don't realize that everything they post on here is a representation of how people view them then they need to wake up and realize it's not facebook.

Companies don't throw their personal politics into their advertising, or talk about religion or the other no no's. It only pisses people off and is bad for business. In cultured circles it is not polite to speak of these things.

Most of my clients are people that I spend regular time with and would tell you that I am as dynamic and bright as they come. I am their escape. I just realize that this is a hobby board and people are in fantasy land. I don't take it seriously and keep it fun.

I know who I am and what I am and their are huge differences across the scale, even between the women who say they are providers or escorts, companions or courteseans. There are hundreds of escorts or providers on here and no matter what they refer to themselves as they are not all the same.

I have a different relationships with each of my suitors depending on our chemistry. I'm sure that there is a wide range of what I am to each of them. Whatever the case is, I provide an escape, a fantasy. I demand the utmost respect and I get it without having to put all of my "real world" thoughts online.

My point is that I let my reputation speak for itself and try to keep the rest fun. Some of the men and women on here get so uptight about things that simply by their posts I would hope to never meet them.

I promise to never write a short story again! If anyone needs the cliff notes, please pm me.

*sorry for any typos or errors.....working from a phone at a baseball game!

Arianna
velvetvixen@live.com
www.thevelvetvixen.com

I have had the pleasure of being able to get know Ari....and in my experiences, without question she is a class act, and a solid business woman!

Plus a whole lot a fun to be with!!!

I wonder how long this thread will keep going since the OP guested his account? For all of you who are just joining in, Bigdeal was the OP.