I love to tell or show a hobbiest how to "get me there", if he cares lol. Some are about the woman, and some are about themselves lol. I have a hell of a time regardless!
not that i want to never get my lady off, I agree with what most women say....they know what to do to help get themselves off if we are not doing the job. last i checked, we are paying to get off not paying for them to get off. otherwise id be the one advertising service. lol
i typically dont ask. like stated already, if u have to ask, most likely u did not do it right. so us guys who have to get a lady off need to pay attention to detail. calm oneself down and focus on her first then u "sexond".
... he took himself to a place where he was completely in tune with my body. Success. HUGE success... Believe me, once the mission was accomplished, he could tell the distinct difference in almost and HELL YES DEFINITELY!!!
Yes, we all have our idiosyncrasies! So what gets you started and then what does it take to finish you off? Knowing what you find erotic and arousing at different stages would be interesting and create desire! I for one, enjoy being a "voyeur" lol and the knowledge of what affects your sexual desires would be exciting and increase the pleasure, create additional fantasies and allow us match providers in doubles with a different twist. lol
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[FONT=Baskerville Old Face]Yes, we all have our idiosyncrasies! So what gets you started and then what does it take to finish you off?
Originally Posted by bathwater
LFKs all over and softly caressing the "lady" is a good start. The rest is completely up to my body language. Every person is different. Different hands, mouth, body, etc. Therefore every encounter is different.