Ok, I have to add my 2 cents..
Amy,
Those of us who know you out side of this board, know it is not a "Race" issue..
But, at this point, I think you are catching hell because you keep responding and letting every one elses opinion get you upset. Like I did in the WU thread... The more I tried to voice my opinion, the more I was attacked...not by all, but yes, I was doing it to myself.
What ever you decided for your self...just leave it at that. What ever your reasons..so be it..just let it go.
I think you are catching hell, because your reasons for the policy were never told, nor your reasons for lifting it.. and now, going back, with no clear explination..
True..you do not owe any one any thing, but when we post it here... we have to expect to hear things we do not like.. and the confusion just keeps it all going..
Make your own decision...but just not here in the open. It may be easier for this subject.. on you.
Hope you have a great week end!!! Enjoy the water.. it's hotttt assss fuuuukkk..