Good points in this thread. I didn't consider that gentlemen might not want to be dumped in the same apple bin with this guy. I'm delighted to see fellows weighing in on this, and in a way I wouldn't have expected..
Bossy, it's expected that if you see a member of P411, you give him an okay. Most assume the ladies do it automatically. I rarely get a request from my P411 visitors, but then again, I'm known for taking care of business in an expedient manner so gentlemen don't have to think about follow-up.
As Kaylee said, many ladies contact prior okays, but a lot do not and just take them at face value. Recently I've been told by several providers that if they see my stamp on a fellow's file, they don't go any further. I always contact other ladies to make sure there wasn't any "quirks" that I should know about that weren't bad enough for them to withhold an Okay, but might make the session more trying, like this case.