RETIREMENT PARTY with AMBER RAIN!!!

Again... Location has been changed. So no worries.

It will be announced the day of and no earlier in PRIVATE.

Everyone's secrecy and discretion is always important to me. Everyone KNOWS that about me.

So again, thanks for details and input. Originally Posted by Amber Rain

I Can't believe this, you can't have nothing nice around here anymore. There is always SOMEONE that wants to spoil the fun for others. We are all adults here, and everyone knows the right from wrong in the hobby. To spread the news about something like this is fucking CHILDISH to say the least. Whom ever is spreading this news, karma is a bitch and i hope you get yours. Now ya'll know why some of you never get an invite.

sorry this happened to you amber,
CG

Exactly CG...
Haters will be haters.. .that's why I'm glad to get out of it and start into something new.
Still wish you could come.... but, maybe next time.

Location is secure.. and I will make sure that the ONE that I did invite will not get the new information of newest location to spread around. No biggie. Only a little bit more money out of my pocket to show you guys a great time. What's money right? Safety is the key. So, I'd rather spend more to keep you all safe.

RSVP for sure, guys and dolls.

I Can't believe this, you can't have nothing nice around here anymore. There is always SOMEONE that wants to spoil the fun for others. We are all adults here, and everyone knows the right from wrong in the hobby. To spread the news about something like this is fucking CHILDISH to say the least. Whom ever is spreading this news, karma is a bitch and i hope you get yours. Now ya'll know why some of you never get an invite.

sorry this happened to you amber,
CG Originally Posted by Copierguy0

1. I wasnt hating. I was simply letting you know that someone out there has spread all the details all over. You all can do whatever you like.. hope u have fun. It sounds fun.

2. As for those who didnt get an invite- everyone knows that i dont attend such activities. Ive attended one way over a year ago and it was def not my cup of tea. I rather stay discrete, do my thing, and keep my real life fun separate from this life. No offense. Its just my own personal preference.

I hope you figure out who it was that outted the info. They obviously dont need to be re invited. But i can tell you.... i have seen for 3 days now... major details in chat. Whether they are true or not....I do not know... BUT... you can bet that if LE is lurking... this party def has a target on its back.

My opinion- close this thread and keep it all in private. Posting on a public hooker site is about as risky as posting it in the city newspaper.

Anyway... im done. Have fun and dont forget to put sunscreen on the hoohaws, tatas and peepees. Although if someone could put a man-kini on a guy and get him a man-kini tan.. THAT would be funny to see.

But i can tell you.... i have seen for 3 days now... major details in chat. Whether they are true or not....I do not know... BUT... you can bet that if LE is lurking... this party def has a target on its back. Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

Well those who were in Chat and saw these details being talked about openly should be sure to let others know specifically HERE who can't keep their mouth shut.

Amber isn't in chat all the time so posting them here and letting everyone else know who was posting details would help others know who not to share info with.

ECCIE logs ALL of the chat so the owners can easily go through the logs and find out if so inclined.

I was in pm's occassionally looking in. Seeing bits n pieces. Was nothing specific to me so id jump back into PM's. Im not sitting there taking names. Didnt think it was too big of a deal since she was posting the link to this in chat anyway. Ive read details all over... all u gotta do is research.

Anyway... im done with this thread. Just be careful.

I'm just pointing out that the details are being spread around, along with discussions of rates for room rentals and girls from your agency. Originally Posted by ~Ze~

1. I wasnt hating. I was simply letting you know that someone out there has spread all the details all over.

I hope you figure out who it was that outted the info. They obviously dont need to be re invited. But i can tell you.... i have seen for 3 days now... major details in chat. Whether they are true or not....I do not know... BUT... you can bet that if LE is lurking... this party def has a target on its back. Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

Lacy, I never said it was you darling, I don't know who it was. It's one thing to post a link to this thread or mention a party in chat ......... but completly another thing to give details like ZE pointed out. Thats like saying: I went to see Lacy, then give her incall address. We ALL know that details are forbidden. Especially MAJOR DETAILS.

CG

We ALL know that details are forbidden. Especially MAJOR DETAILS. Originally Posted by Copierguy0

That's the problem. No, "we" don't, it seems.

Public affairs like this in a private hobby are prone to this kind of exposure. People don't know which parts are public vs. private, excited lips flap, and "secrets" get out. It's sad, but inevitable when the entire board is involved.

Amber as much admitted that she knew/expected this:,

and besides since this is obviously bound to happen to almost any event like this.. Originally Posted by Amber Rain

Which makes you wonder: "why was a public thread was made at all?"

Until you see the other side of the coin.

The revelation that the "public" face of a simple party is a sham. The blatant agency/pay-for-play angle is the reality. And once THAT is involved, the security risk just jumped for everyone attending, whether they were aware of it or not.

While screening and late location announcement are one thing, it's pretty evident that security for this wasn't well planned.

Have we never played the game in kindergarten where all the kids sit in the group..and one start off with a blue elephant with polka dot skirt... and by the time the secret goes around the entire circle and the last child says the secret outloud... it's a purple tiger with a zebra print skirt on?

Meaning...
The location that I have moved the event to does NOT have rooms to rent. So, for all of those that weren't invited that are trying to sabatage my going away party by scaring people off.... is ridiculous. Yes at first, they could've had a place to sleep if they were getting too drunk to drive home. Which would have been fine with me being that I have TWO incalls now.

I screen everyone. I am prepared. I have spent money on this event. I have supplies for this event. I'm very capable of holding a safe event regardless of this being in public forum. My screening is top notch with my new tools that I have available thru my other business venture now.

I'm not worried and NO ONE else should be either.

So, like stated before... See you all there.

Amber,
I was thrilled to be invited... Thank you! I will be there and wouldn't miss it for the world. I am looking forward to us all getting together and having a blast like the night you, me and Kitten all pole danced...THAT WAS FUN! If you need any help in any way...you just let me know! Luv U Pixie!!!!
Yours,

Aww thank you Merci. Omg that was fun wasn't it? We should all go out again even after this.
Can't wait to see you. I may need you a little early on Friday. I will call you to let you know if I do or not.

Can't wait.

Closing this thread. Pm the OP for details. ECCIE does not condone or support functions like these.

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