Straight or Gay?

+1 Dannie.....I couldn't word it any better than how you framed it up.
(By the way....still waiting on your Gumbo Recipe, darlin'......I promise I'll recipricate one of my own.)

LOL at DFWRaven.

Look if U ever have allowed a Male Doctor to put his finger up Ur rear to check the donut,
Get over it Ur GAY, as GAY, as GAY can be.

Tall Female Doctors have long finger's and they do it best.
The blonde that I had this year just did not make the mark.
. Originally Posted by BossyWillson

That's why I now have a female doctor. I've managed to turn a previously uncomfortable event into something that now feels like a kinky session.
Downside is that I'm still paying for it and I was very disappointed at the short length of my last session, along with the lack of enthusiasm (no dirty talk).
Upshot though was that it only cost me $40 (co-pay).

GAY <-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------> STRAIGHT

I have never found anybody who is 100%. Most of us fall somewhere on the continuum.

con·tin·u·um (kn-tny-m)n. pl. con·tin·u·a (-tny-) or con·tin·u·ums 1. A continuous extent, succession, or whole, no part of which can be distinguished from neighboring parts except by arbitrary division.


INCOMING!!!

Ok, I had a real nice time with Ms. Athena and Lacy and they shoved stuff up my butt and I sucked on strapons. So, now, am I gay? According to who? I had an awesome time and got off. If it makes you uncomfortable, sorry. If it makes me gay, ok. It doesn't make me love Judy Garland and musicals. I will continue to get pussy also, and I will fuck pussy. So am I bisexual? Who the fuck cares? I am going to get off, and I am not going to worry about the label you put on it.

Andy Samberg and Justin Timberlake taught me that it's not gay if it's in a three way.

Ok, I had a real nice time with Ms. Athena and Lacy and they shoved stuff up my butt and I sucked on strapons. So, now, am I gay? According to who? I had an awesome time and got off. If it makes you uncomfortable, sorry. If it makes me gay, ok. It doesn't make me love Judy Garland and musicals. I will continue to get pussy also, and I will fuck pussy. So am I bisexual? Who the fuck cares? I am going to get off, and I am not going to worry about the label you put on it. Originally Posted by Hugsnotdrugs

I found nothing gay about it. IMHO- people should focus on their own business. Just because I do doubles and admire beautiful women.. doesnt make me a lesbian. Not even sure if it makes me bisexual. Ladies should focus on what they can bring to a mans pleasure and not worry or cast judgement on those who are willing to cross into the world of kink. Men should focus on what makes them feel good, not what others do. My whole reason for enjoying the world of hobby isnt because im some bitch who cant get a job anywhere.. but because its non-judgemental pleasure with no strings attached. Because of this world I have got to experience many new things. Things I would had turned my nose up to years ago... but at least experiencing it .. i have learned if it was truly my thing or not.

Must be why business is great? I focus on my own.. and I cast no judgement on what others wish to experience. Guys know they can come to me with requests and I may not always grant them..but Ill never judge them. And if i cant grant it either because its not my thing or I dont have the experience to give them a proper devirginizing... i will sure as hell try to point them in the right direction. Its the guys dollar... he can do as he chooses.. without fear of judgement... and ladies NONE of us are in ANY place to cast judgement on others.... after all.. bottom line... we are ALL hookers.

No one appears to be "casting judgement". There was a question posed, and there were answers. That's the beauty of a coed discussion. Everyone gets to say what they think about the matter.

There is a huge difference between a man seeking out prostate play/massages/strap-on play from ladies, and seeking it from other men. As I stated before, I couldn't give a shit less. Do what you want with your body, time, and money. Who cares? I certainly don't.

Men who are seeking out other men, are still gay though. Gay-ish. Homosexual tendencies. Call it what you want. It's just my opinion, which by the very nature of this forum, I am entitled to, as well as everyone else.

Happy weekend everyone!

Ill agree with you Dannie.. Didnt read all the postings.. just a couple. If a man or woman for that matter is seeking someone of the same sex... i totally agree!

And opinions are totally respected... I just saw a post that was just downright judgmental and rude and pounced.

Sorry if I came off to harsh.. wasnt my intension.

Ill just say who are ANY of us here on a provider board to judge??? Are we not ALL here trying to meet some kind of need that is not being meet? Are we not a better person when our needs are meet? Just remember when you point one finger there are 3 others pointing right back at you.......I believe to each his own and as long as it is ALL about pleasure then it is ALL good. If you dont care for it then dont do it, but do you really feel you are any better for turning your nose up at others for being true to themselves and meeting their needs?

My prostate may have serious ghey tendencies. However, it has no eyes so it is at a disadvantage. However, junior has the one eye. Hmmmmm. Does admiring another dick moving in and out of some delicious female orifice reveal deep seated gay tendencies? What about seeing a spray of cum shooting out of another cock onto a lovely female? Transference? Do men become the other penis? Are all men dicks? (Don't answer that, ladies...heh heh heh...that may give rise to other anatomical comparisions on both sides) Hell, put it (mouth, tongue, cock, finger, piece of furniture, ear lobe) where you want to. Recreational sex is fun if one doesn't take it too seriously. We're all here to do a job so we may as well get into it. Otherwise, it's just the same as "out there."

If I fuck goats then I am a goat fucker. Originally Posted by RangoFett

http://gawker.com/5927929/goat-man-h...-goats-in-utah

There are a number of ladies who give a talented prostate massage. Does that make me gay because I receive pleasure from someone's finger (or toy) up my ass?

I am physically aroused by WOMEN, NOT by men, but would not be averse to "experimenting" in the right situation. I'm guess I'm gay.

@Dannie. Just because you find it painful does not mean everyone else does. I had a session a while back with a lady who squirted during greek because the orgasm was so intense for her.

WALDT.

The human body has a plethora of erogenous zones, a virtual amusement park of earthly delights, awaiting to be discovered if we will but discard labels and prejudices, and surrender ourselves to the potential passion that lies within each of us.

Now where did I put the butter...

I want to test something here.

Guys, take a good, long, hard look at the lady in the above photo.

Do you think she is hot?
Would you hit it?
Would you like to kiss her? feel her tongue in your mouth?
Would you like to cup those soft pliable breasts in your hands?
Would you like to give her ass cheeks a good squeeze?
Would you like to feel her lips sliding up & down your shaft?
Would you like to get between her legs and...

WAIT ! STOP! OMG ! WTF !!! She has a penis !!! Damn, I just turned gay!



I'm sorry. I apologize to you all for that little prank, it's just that the double standard on this board really irks me sometimes.

Bottom line: If someone rocks your world, go for it, and pay no mind to the consensus of the herd mentality.

Hmmmmm,...I think I know where the butter is!

What is left out of this convo is what about men who are in prison? Either two things are going to happen in prison you are going to get screwed or someone is going to screw you eventually. Now since these men with life sentence or long sentences won't come close to a woman(exclude conjugal visits) these men are going to get what's available- which will be other men. However, I would not consider these men gay. However, there's no way I would consider a man that's been with a TS straight- because I assume if the TS didnt have the "appearance" of a woman they wouldn't be attractive to them- who know.
I do agree that the OP who is now banned must have some crazed obsession and might be into TS's secretly and this his way of fighting guilt. If you are a man that is not into TS why even comment on a review where I go reviews a TS. It would be as crazy as a "straight" bar knowingly go to a "gay" bar and that post a blog or comment on why gay bars are so wrong.

Wow, I'm actually surprised at what a solid discussion this became.

The bottom (no pun intended) line is that the lines have gotten blurry, and some of this is just semantics (words like 'gay' and 'straight'), and what they mean to different people.

Modern medicine has really changed things: cosmetic surgery, of such high quality, and hormone therapy, with such specificity, etc. It's the first time in history we've even been able to have this conversation. A "passable" TS, as they call it, like the popcorn pic above really illustrates this.

And if you buy into the theory that everyone is on the spectrum between completely straight and completely gay, with bisexual in the middle, then things get tricky (imagine an upside-down bell-curve, fyi). I see everyone's argument here: the "you are what you were born as" argument, bisexuality, etc.

A truly feminine looking (and smelling, imo) TS versus a masculine-looking woman with a strap-on is kinda close, and would be a strange comparison. I've never gone the TS route, but I seem a hottie only to be disappointed when I found he/she was TS. But i wasn't pissed about it.

If you're pissed about the TS reviews but keep reading them, you're either more bisexual than you think, or are just curious with the spectacle. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. Or, you could be more bi than you thought and you Are pissed about it.

If you suck on a gals strap-on, like for a long time not just to get it wet, then you might be more bi than you thought, too. I'm more with LLacy on this than ODannie, but I found everyone's replies interesting.

Labels on this issue are tough because they were created before modern medicine allowed them to be questioned. Regardless, totally gross or sexually acceptable it's strange to be having the discussion. And thanks to ECCIE for giving us the forum to discuss it, because I'm certainly not going to bring it up at the party I'm headed to later! Lol!

Be cool peeps...and safe.
LnH