WHEN IS IT TAKEN TO FAR?

Tell him you will only love him back if he buys you a new car, pays your rent for 3 months in advance, let's your kids call him daddy, and you will continue to work in the hobby-any time you feel like it.

See what his response back is... Originally Posted by tntangie

Us men LOVE beer, sports and watching girl-on-girl porn. So gawd forbid the term gets cheapened by applying it to a hooker

That's sarcasm BTW for the Sheldons out there.

In the words of George Carlin; "They're just woooords"

But if a client shows up at her home's front door with a diamond ring and two tickets to Vegas's marriage chapel.....THEN YA WORRY.

Cinderella doesn't work here!

Remember that.

Tell him that. Then, when he offers to throw himself off your balcony, give him a little push to be sure!

Or maybe he told you that to see if he can get a few freebies?

Or maybe he told you that to see if he can get a few freebies? Originally Posted by FMaster

Shit!! I need to try that!!!!

Hold on, FMaster & mtabsw.....lemme be the first to put that to the test:

Alyssa Nicole....I love you. Truly....forever and ever.


Yay for me!!!....let the "freebies" begin......

After reading the past posts, I am impressed that he still professes his love. In all seriousness, sometimes the line can get blurred. Repeated encounters can cause "feelings" to intensify. Is it real love, probably not. I would suggest treating him the way you would want to be treated. Kindness really does go a long way.
Kendall Kain Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Well said , your very kind !

Because we are creatures of emotion, falling in love comes in this territory - feelings simply cant help but to get involved. Its no shocker. I've never experienced having a hobbyist in love with me, but if it were to happen I would attempt to keep some distance.

True.
I'm just a silly lil hooker that's been round since like - oh, I don't know - getting close to 8 years now. What would I know about shit like that? I'm probably just gonna be accused of being old, jealous and spiteful. Probably fat and ugly to boot!

Let's see how that one goes.

I miss you mother fucking fuckers! Originally Posted by tntangie

You crack me up, this was a fun read, very perceptive you are Angie!!!!

Hold on, FMaster & mtabsw.....lemme be the first to put that to the test:

Alyssa Nicole....I love you. Truly....forever and ever.


Yay for me!!!....let the "freebies" begin...... Originally Posted by Chateau Becot

did somebody say my name

Wow - after seeing your pictures, Alyssa, I think I'm in love with you, too!

I think her avatar is the courtesy smile face she makes upon hearing of hobbiests falling in love with her. Ijs.

From the response, you can tell who's really jaded in the biz and who's not.
There are many people who fell in love quickly, that's only normal.

If you want to let him down, do it gently. He's only human, try not to make him into a jaded love-starved person.

If you like him, well, have fun.

Yeah I mean in the end it is just bound to happen with some people. Some will fall for you, some won't, just keep going unless he gets creepy is my two cents.

Just some information:



LAS VEGAS – A new analysis of men who pay for sexual activities suggests that their true goal is finding something a bit more complicated – true love – even if it’s from the sex worker.
In this new study, Christine Milrod and co-author Ronald Weitzer analyzed 2,442 postings on an online discussion board from a sex provider review site where more than a million clients of sex workers read and post about their experiences. Approximately one-third included a discussion about emotional intimacy between sex workers and their clients, many of whom expressed a desire to grow their relationships beyond the physical level in the form of sharing private feelings and mutual love.
“In recent years, we have come to see a gradual normalization of independent escort prostitution, where sexual encounters have come to resemble quasi-dating relationships,” stated study author Christine Milrod. “Our study shows that regular clients of a particular sex provider often come to experience feelings of deep affection, which can progress into an authentic love story.”

In one survey, 32 percent of customers arrested for soliciting a prostitute said they bought sex because they ‘‘didn’t have time’’ for a conventional relationship, 28 percent did not want ‘‘the responsibilities’’ inherent in such a relationship, and 18 percent said they would ‘‘rather have sex with a prostitute than have a conventional relationship with a woman.’’
The study uncovered feelings ranging from “counterfeit intimacy” to “authentic emotional bonds” between many prostitutes and their respective customers. Motives for initial payment for sex ranged from difficulty finding a partner for simple conversation to fantasy role-playing and abuse targeting.
However, many of the customers interviewed in the study expressed emotional elements lacking in a pre-existing relationship. Many of the female sex workers interviewed said they catered to the men’s emotional needs and described many of them as, “highly respectful” and sometimes “more caring than the other men in their ‘true’ personal lives.”
One-third of them in the study said they wanted something more than the physical release of “the hobby” as it is called by many sex customers.
A Boston man cautioned, “Men in this hobby who think they are only after sex are deceiving themselves. Sex always involves emotion, with the possibility for eventual affection, closeness, and emotional connection always lurking there. People can fall in love when they least expect it. And that love can last, even while one or both parties are married … and even when one is a provider.”