An explanation for all you hobbyists...

Ive had guys who NCNS on me more than once i just simple put them on my ignore list when they call requesting to see me at last minute to their convenience. A simple cant make it sorry another time doest hurt. I would rather see guys who the consideration that time is money, I would not wanna cancel a call with a guy who wants to see me unless I have to which hasnt happend. But I d do believe in second chances not third, fourth or five I do not have that kind of patience lol..

Okay. I was prepared to let bygones be bygones. I was the individual whom was NCNS'd twice. I also went out of my way and incur the expense of an incall room. I was upset with the lack of communication(twice), but I was ready to let this matter drop and move on and then heather sends me this shitty PM:

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I'm sorry -- if a provider were truly ready to make an apology, this sort of PM would be completely inappropriate. Again, people can understand when matters come up, but no communication on a cancelled appointment is unacceptable. To top it off, Heather makes an impassion plea on this board and then turns around an sends a crappy PM when SHE was the party in the wrong?

Unbelieveable.

If Heather is upset that she has gotten negative postings about her TCB practices, the solution is simple -- she should honor her commitments or communicate when she can't

-B Originally Posted by barnybus

Yup that wasn't Heather it was me. I didnt think that she should be nice after the way you got your panties in a wad and told her you would give her a bad review. How would it go if we got to give u guys reviews for your "oh just called in to work, sorry!" excuses. No one would give a fuck about us. But ohhhhhh please dont be rude to the hobbyist who was not smart enough to wait for the actual confirmation. Ummmm if u dont talk to her that day, something is up. You lost money on a hotel because u decided to pay even after u had not spoken, so yeah I sent u that message. I didnt think she should see you. You already had a grudge and after that, things usually go south. So big wooo. Quit being mean to her and move the fuck on. And if you wanna bitch, then bitch at yourself for not using common sense when someone didn't answer the phone. Duh!

So what was your reasoning for pm'ing me her "rate increases" from her handle? I have no grudge whatsoever nothing to have a Grudge about turuthfully and was just looking for info on rates.

Not u dude LOL the rate was because now she pays for a driver and an incall and a sitter. Makes no sense to come out with nothing after that.

I understand that but she just pm'd me saying she will still offer the rate we had previously agreed on. I in no way want to put her out or her lose money seeing me is she's out of my budget she's out of my budget. NBD so im just curious is it 160-200 or 275 like you quoted? I was seeking an outcall Friday and she responded but soon found a diff client looking for a 3hr date I told her take that. I know I can't offer top dollar and in no way want to limit y'all from making it if possible.

Yup that wasn't Heather it was me. ... Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield

What? A provider sending messages under another provider's screen name?

I'm astonished.

Are we to expect next that providers will be reading Men's Lounge comments? I mean, can you imagine such a thing...

Isn't this about the time where "Both parties have spoken" post comes along? Originally Posted by Precious_b

I think the white knights need to chime in next. Since I saw her last week and had a great time, I suppose that means I am the white knight....

"i saw her last week and had a great time" Read my short review.

Now you can close the thread.

Thx clitori hope I get the chance too!

I have never seen or met her. I did PM her some advice after this was first posted and she responded in a very polite and reasonable manner. Based on other posts she tried to take my advice and find a way to make it up to the hobbyist. He was not interested but the fact she tried to make things right is an indication of her character. The PM Pepper sent under her name should not be held against her. I agree with the hobbyist that it was rude and had I received it I know I would have been really pissed. However, Heather did not send it so I suggest we let Heather's actions and only her actions represent her.

Well said^ I agree!

I have never seen or met her. I did PM her some advice after this was first posted and she responded in a very polite and reasonable manner. Based on other posts she tried to take my advice and find a way to make it up to the hobbyist. He was not interested but the fact she tried to make things right is an indication of her character. The PM Pepper sent under her name should not be held against her. I agree with the hobbyist that it was rude and had I received it I know I would have been really pissed. However, Heather did not send it so I suggest we let Heather's actions and only her actions represent her. Originally Posted by Laz

Look,I know I should not have done that, but I felt bad these guys she had cancelled on were being so mean and she is the sweetest girl ever. She has no angry bone in her body so I defended her. That's it.

OH DEAR LORD PEOPLE! Can we PLEASE close this thread!? I am so sick of all this drama. All I wanted to do was apologize and take responsibility for my actions. This has gotten out of hand seriously. And yes JD, I am partly to blame for another provider sending PMs under my handle. I should have been more careful. But I can assure each and everyone of you that it will NEVER happen again.
Barny told me this is all water under the bridge, and this was between me and him to begin with. I only felt that a public apology was appropriate because I didn't want people to think I make excuses for my actions. I never meant for all this to get out of hand.
I'm done with this. And again, thank you everyone for your support.

OH DEAR LORD PEOPLE! Can we PLEASE close this thread!?... Originally Posted by Sexy'n'discreet

If you look for the click it and let the MODs know that you would like to close your link.

Closed as requested.