NEWBIES????

Yuliqdees, you joined 03-20-2011? I think that's 2 years and one post?

Being a newbie myself (and this being my first post haha) I've gone back and forth for over a year debating on seeing someone but end up not just out of fear for what I have to lose if I were to get caught. It does seem like there are plenty of ways to make sure that you play safe the majority of the time and I understand that completely when providers turn me down. Just a little scary throwing all your personal and employment info out to total strangers (p411 included). Ultimately there is risk on both sides of the table and for me I still haven't had the balls to just go through with it. So many smoking hot girls on here though (scarlett rossi good god..) so I have a feeling my cherry will be popped sooner than later!! Be Safe! Originally Posted by Yuliqdees

LOL:
I have never thrown my personal or employment info out to anyone. Even p411.
I never will
The lists of "newbie friendly" providers are numerous and easily found. I personally have visited with many of those providers and they are for the most part , fine ladys.

I never understood newbie whining .

Get a hobby phone
Keep your mouth shut
be a Gentleman
avoid drama
Don't fall in love
OR
Just let it go and do something else.

Just saying

If you do your homework when doing your research of established ECCIE providers, then you just have to worry about YOU screwing up yourself. Like harkontume said, get a hobby phone, have a secure email, and keep your mouth shut.

If you get caught chances are it will be your fault not the girls.

Also, if you do get caught by SO or whatever, keep your mouth shut. Don't ruin other peoples lives just because you screwed up.

If you can't handle it, then don't get involved in it.

Indeed! Thanks BustyAmy and kit-4-kat! I've been around since the aspd days but keep a low profile for "personal" (read snooping SO), I also do not use my phone which makes it even harder. I never try to negotiate price nor do I collect pics. I also have to book same day because my windows of opportunity are limited. I have to rely on providers remembering me when asked for a ref, that's if they even respond at all. I'm not fat, bald or creepy but it is not always easy on this end. Just yesterday I send around 10 emails and pm's that got zero response. I'm not interested in drama, I just wanna have some fun. Thank you to the ladies with enough insight to get it and be willing to work the angles!

Speaking on behalf of all my fellow lurkers, the silent majority, we thank you for your support. Originally Posted by justaphase